Some people avoid arguments at all costs. Even if they have a valid point or they are good at backing up their argument, they will try to avoid them because they just don't like them.

Here are some things that happen if you avoid arguments constantly:

1. You become very anxious when put on the spot to solve a problem.

When you’re confronted with a problem that you know you can start an argument, you become very anxious about how to go about solving it.

2. None of your solutions seem to be valid enough.

Not only do you struggle to come up with a way to solve things, but when you have ideas on how to solve your problems, none of them seem good enough. You’re too busy worrying about the consequences of one solution.

3. You cause more problems by trying to avoid them.

You really do not want to argue, but by not addressing the problem, you end up with more problems. One thing you know could have been solved earlier, ends up causing more because it was never solved.

4. When you discuss one problem, you discuss them all.

When you finally crack and talk about one problem, they all come out. Keeping the problems were obviously not the right things to do.

5. You pick your fights strategically.

You understand that not everything needs to be argued. You observe the other person and then decide if something needs to be discussed or not.

6. You tend to compromise more to avoid problems.

You give in way more easily when you try to avoid a problem. Even if you don’t really like what is going on, you’ll go with it to save yourself and whoever you’re arguing with, a bad time.

7. You let others get away with things.

By not addressing the problems, you let people get away with things you don’t like. Letting them get away with it, eats away at you, but you don’t want to argue about the problem.