I found Tri Delta at a point in my life when I needed to be there, though I had no idea that was the case.

My decision to go through recruitment was not something I took very seriously or thought about very hard. I never saw myself as the sorority type. I wasn’t pretty enough, or girly enough, or popular enough. Nobody outside of Brenau even asked me if I was planning on going through recruitment because it was not something anyone in my life could see me doing. But people were talking about recruitment, and I figured I had nothing to lose. Worst case scenario, I wouldn’t get a bid, and I would be back where I started, no worse for wear, and maybe even better just for having gone through the experience. I was so wrong; I didn’t know then how much it would end up meaning to me.

I figured getting my bid would be exciting but not altogether that important in the grand scheme of my life. Again, I was wrong. The minute I opened the envelope and saw my name written under the words “Delta Delta Delta,” I burst into happy and excited tears—something that I’m not sure I had ever done until that moment. I think, deep down, I knew I had finally found my place at Brenau.

Within an hour, I had been welcomed into what would become my home away from home. Within days, I had found true sisters in the women who had welcomed me into their home; their sisterhood. They quickly became my best friends and my support system.

I found Tri Delta at a time when I desperately needed it. I had just exited a few toxic friendships. My self-esteem was abysmal. I had no idea what I wanted to do with my life, who I was or even who I really wanted to be. I was struggling in adjusting to my new college life.

Tri Delta helped me to become a better version of myself, a version that I am proud of. I am happier, stronger, and I’m getting better every day. Through the help of my sisters, I have become more accountable, a better leader. I am more motivated to do great things every day, for others, for my sisters, and for myself. I have gained opportunities that I never even knew were options. No words can express how grateful I am to my sorority and my sisters. I love them with every piece of my heart.

I write this not to brag about how great my life is, or even how great Tri Delta is, but to encourage you—whoever you are—to go through recruitment. Even if all you gain is the experience, it is still something gained. You have nothing to lose, and best case scenario, you gain a sisterhood that will mean the world to you.