How to Make Your Aggressive Dog More People-Friendly

How to Make Your Aggressive Dog More People-Friendly


You have an aggressive dog, it might be only a matter of time before your dog bites someone if you do nothing to correct this bad behavior. This is never a good situation, because it really means that as a dog owner you have been negligent in your dog training duties. So, before your dog gets you and themselves into trouble, you need to start giving your dog the quality time and training they need to be friendlier around other dogs and people.

Consider the Breed

If you have little children, tiny dogs and pit bulls are generally not the kind of dog you should be having around your home in the first place. Children can corner and hurt little dogs which almost always guarantees that someone is going to get bitten. Furthermore, a pit bull can take the roughhousing of little children easier, but a pit bull can react with aggression that is over the top in response to horse play. Something more along the lines of a Labrador is good around kids—especially if you take the time to learn how to train dogs. These dogs are even used as guide dogs, because they are so incredibly easy to shape and mold how you want them to behave.

Conflicts of Interest

A pet dog will not generally be good at being a guard dog and friendly towards others at the same time. To ask a dog to switch back and forth between these two modes of behavior is in many ways a conflict of interest on the part of the owner. Unless you are extremely well versed in the subtleties of dog behavior, chances are you will not be able to get your dog to maintain this balance. The amount of constant training required to stay on top of this mixed bag of emotions and behavioral differences for your dog is going to take a lot of advanced training time on your part. If you are not an expert dog trainer, it is better to simply socialize your dog to be friendly towards other people and dogs. Think of it this way, the less conflicts of interest you train into your dog, the less behavioral problems you will have with your dog.

From Antisocial to Social

If you do not properly socialize your aggressive dog, especially to other dogs and people, then your dog can become antisocial the longer they are allowed to behave this way. The only way to counteract antisocial behavior is through socialization exercises and proper correction for bad behavior. Antisocial dogs need to be conditioned to accepting others entering their perceived territory. Otherwise, it is a dog’s natural inclination to protect their territory with barking, growling and eventually biting behavior. When that happens, you might need to consult an experienced injury lawyer to help you handle the legal ramifications of your dog biting another person or dog. To address dog on dog aggression, it is sometimes best to simply enroll your dog into a dog training class. This way, your dog will get socialization with other dogs in a controlled class situation where a professional trainer can help you to correct your dog’s antisocial behavior at its source. This professional will see behavioral clues and triggers you do not even notice are going on right under your nose.


If you are not an experienced dog trainer, it is rarely a good idea for you to try and troubleshoot the causes of your dog’s aggressive behavior on your own. Dogs are actually quite logical creatures, but the mistake most dog owners make is that they assume that their dog thinks things through like humans do. This is often a dangerous mistake that will lead dog owners to miss the important subtleties of their dog’s body language and behavioral patterns. This is why it is always best to work with a professional trainer to ensure you are addressing the real issues causing your dog’s unacceptable behavior.

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5 Ways Impulsively Getting A Dog Saved My Mental Health

Those four paws are good for a lot more than just face kisses.


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He provides emotional support

One of the most obvious reasons is how much emotional support dogs, (and other respective animals) can provide. His paws have been accidentally stepped on, and he certainly isn't a fan of the forced flea/tick medication doses, but less than 30 seconds later, he is without fail immediately by my side again, tail wagging and ready for more kisses. Although he is not trained or certified as an ESA, it's without a doubt he has effectively (and unconsciously) combated random anxiety attacks or feelings of being alone.

He requires being cared for

You'll heavily judge every crazy fur mama, as did, I until you become one. Getting Oakley immediately got me consistently back on my feet and forced me to ask myself, "What does he need today?"Even simple, easy tasks like taking him out to run/go to the bathroom had me excited and forced me to find a motive in the day to day activities. I loved no longer having even the mere choice to be unproductive. Don't want to start your day? Well, Oakley needs his day started, so let's get moving.

He serves as protection

It's no surprise how far a dog's loyalty will go to protect their owner. For decades, specially trained dogs have had life-saving responsibilities assigned to them. Even being married, my husband and I's schedules vary significantly to where it is not uncommon for me to be alone. The slightest sound or shadow from outside our door immediately initiates barking. In the bathroom taking a shower? He's there. Knowing that Oakley is looking out, even when I get carried away with tasks like cooking dinner, always calms my nerves.

He's become something to look forward to

The nice thing about having Oakley is regardless of how my day goes, I know exactly how it is going to end. Whether I passed an exam with flying colors or got the lowest grade in the class, I know what waits for me when I open the door at home. After a long day, nothing resets my mood like walking into a face that is just as happy and excited to see me!

He encourages bonds with others

If you want your social interaction to sky rocket: get a puppy. No, I'm serious. You'll have people wanting to come over and visit "you" (let's be real… your puppy), like it's your last day on Earth. For me, this was exactly what I needed. Getting Oakley had family members constantly checking in to see how he was growing, learning, etc. Not only did this encourage more interactions with family and friends, but it also "livened" my husband and I's home life. Instead of the "normal" weekend nights consisting of Netflix and MarioKart, (which are enjoyable in their own respective ways), spending our nights playing Monkey in the Middle with our new four-legged friend has proven much more entertaining.

So ideally was it the right time to get a dog? Probably not. However, adding Oakley to my small little family combated anxiety and depression in ways I wouldn't have ever thought possible.

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6 Lessons I've Learned From Seattle's Snowmageddon

The Seattle freeze is real.


From epic school closures to hundreds of flight cancellations — Snowmageddon took no prisoners in Washington. Like an ultimate game of freeze tag, it blustered through Seattle and the surrounding Puget sound areas — putting everyone's lives on pause. Things that normally wouldn't have happened — happened: Snow reached record heights, delivery trucks jack-knifed, grocery stores emptied, and power outages left thousands in the dark. In North Bend — where the snow reached 16 to 24 inches, the Washington National Guard was called to help save a man trapped in his home located down a snowed-in drive way. It's been an unusually rough couple of weeks so far for Washingtonians. But through the storm I've learned some very valuable lessons:

1. Always be prepared --- stock up on groceries early.

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I will never wait the day before a storm hits to buy groceries again. During Snowmageddon, parking spaces were almost non-existent and the lines of nearly every grocery store spilled down the aisles. Soccer moms fought over the few remaining carts. As children (and possibly cashiers) pondered if the world was coming to an end.

2. Sleep is your best friend --- and worst enemy.

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Being snowed in for these past two weeks has allowed me to enjoy some of the best sleep of my college career. In addition to a daily 8-hour rest — I've also been able to get in a few power naps. But I've learned if you sleep too much you can miss out on the winter wonderland that awaits outdoors. Or procrastinate on your assignments. So it's best to keep one's schedule in tact and set an alarm.

3. Many Western Washingtonians can't drive --- especially in snow.

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Videos of sliding cars on icy hills and slick streets in Seattle can be found on YouTube. While those maybe entertaining — what's not funny is the hundreds of car accidents that occurred during Snowmagedden. The main comment from authorities and drivers alike is that too many people were driving too fast for the conditions. Like seriously, people. Slow down.

4. Candles over everything.

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As a child, I remember my mom would light vanilla scented candles whenever our went power out. No matter how scary the storm or how cold we felt in the darkness — I'll never forget how the warm glow of the flame and delicious scent always made me feel safe. Whether you prefer wax, soy or flameless have a candle nearby for instant light and security.

5. Have games and activities on deck.

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If you have a candle or lantern handy — you'll find games like Scrabble, Charades, Glow in the dark Air hockey and Cards against Humanity can be fun to play in the dark.

6. Disasters really do bring people together.

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I work part-time at Safeway and am fortunate to have a manager who cares about employees. When the heavy snow hit and everyone began making calls, my manager drove people to work. Even my co-workers who weren't fond of him were appreciative. Throughout the week, I heard stories of people checking in on seniors, neighbors sharing food, strangers helping others dig out stuck vehicles and temporary homeless shelters opening up around the area. Proof positive that Snowmageddon may have chilled our bodies — but it hasn't frozen our hearts.

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