I don't mean to move on quickly, it's just how I am. My way of looking at things is, it happened for a reason but move on and get over it. For me, there is no point to dwell on something that wasn't meant to be in the first place.

If it was meant to be, it wouldn't have ended.

If he wanted to truly be with you, he would've tried harder.

Don't waste your time crying to T-swizzle songs and eating ice cream in bed all day. Let me tell you, you're going to feel worse about yourself later when you step on a scale and realize you gained weight. Don't play yourself.

Get up. Wipe off those unnecessary tears. Go to the pool. Go to the gym. Shower. Visit your friends who love you. Surround yourself with the people who got your back. Make new friends. Go out and explore. Dance. Sing. Laugh. Smile. Love.

Just because this chapter is over doesn't mean your life is over. Your life is just beginning.

Also, do not look at things as a competition for who can get over who faster or who can find someone else faster. It is NOT a competition.

You know what? Don't even bother watching his story, looking at his social media, etc. Make him dead to you. Delete him, block him, I don't care what you do- just delete him from your life.

He's toxic and isn't even worth a second of your time.

Your life is precious, treat it that way.

Only give your time and energy to people that will do the same to you. There is no reason to worry about things you can't change, worry about the things you can change.

Keep loving. Love yourself, your family, friends, pets, etc. Continue loving and learning to love others. Just because he didn't love you the way he should've doesn't mean that you're un-loveable. Someone will one day love you but it just might not be the time yet. That's okay.

Learn to be okay being alone. There is nothing wrong with being single. You're young and have the rest of your life to live.