​Hillary Clinton Made Me Cry

​Hillary Clinton Made Me Cry

Gender might play a role in it.

I was sitting on my couch wearing a Democratic Party shirt and democratic donkey pajama pants watching C-SPAN cover the Democratic National Convention. My 2016 self-created election spreadsheet was pulled up as I tallied the votes during roll call, which was done alphabetically by state – Hillary needed 2383 votes to clench the nomination. North Carolina put her three delegate votes away so I stood up and watched as North Dakota officially secured the nomination for Hillary and continued cheering until Wyoming gave their votes. Then I started crying. I captured my excitement on video: https://youtu.be/cY6hMWxoR6s

She secured the nomination earlier in the summer, but it was not official until the roll call vote at the DNC. I was so happy that Hillary Clinton was officially the Democratic presidential nominee that I started crying and here's why...

I have been involved in politics since I was 13 or 14 years old. Hillary Clinton's commitment to fighting for women and children at home and abroad increased my interest in politics and diplomacy. Her tenure as Secretary of State made me obsessed with the State Department and international relations because I saw the difference and impact she was making on the lives of others. I am active in politics and pursuing a career in diplomacy largely due to her. She fought to insure that children with disabilities had the right to education and views Americans with disabilities as equals – not as something to mock. I see her as an inspiration, idol, and a great female role model.

Before you think, it doesn’t matter if Hillary Clinton is a woman or people only like her because she is a woman, think again. Before Trump was named as the candidate, Hillary’s gender was not a major factor, but for a lot of people, it was a bonus. We have heard time after time that she is the most qualified person to ever seek the Presidency – and yet people completely disregard that. They want a Washington outsider with assets and stocks tied up in foreign businesses. If I get surgery, I’d rather have an overly qualified individual who knows what she is doing and uses the best tools out there, than a man who has never operated a day in his life and has assets tied up in certain brands of surgical equipment that may be faulty and views his female patients as less than equal. This is not about a Washington insider versus a Washington outsider, this is about equality and who sees all Americans as equal.

The woman card has so much worth this election because Trump doesn’t see woman as equals – something that doesn’t just upset feminists, or women, or all the women he has insulted, but fathers, brothers, husbands, grandfathers, anyone who thinks men and women should be seen as equal.

It is a historic and exciting election, and for women and girls, having the first female President is cry-worthy. Nancy Pelosi was the first woman Speaker of the House, making her the highest ranking woman to ever hold office in the United States. Per the Presidential Line of Secession, with the 19 most powerful positions in the United States, only six have not been occupied by a woman: President, Vice President, President Pro Tempore, Secretary of the Treasury, Secretary of Defense, and Secretary of Veteran’s Affairs.

Having a female president is a pretty big deal, and for little girls who have been told certain jobs are only for men or have only seen certain jobs occupied by men, it gives us hope. Just as Barack Obama gave hope to the African-American community on transcending ancient race barriers, Hillary Clinton is giving us – giving me hope by shattering ancient gender barriers. Our generation is seeing gender (male, female, LGBTQQ), race, religion, language, ethnicity barriers broken as traditional roles and stereotypes meet the 21st century.

So as a female in politics, I cried with excitement when I saw that Hillary Clinton was the first woman to be an official party’s candidate and with common sense, our next President. To my grandma who wanted to be an astronaut growing up but was told women cannot be astronauts. To the only girl in a STEM class because she thought science and technology were not just for men. To little girls and big girls and women everywhere – we matter and we are equals. Hillary Clinton and all of the politicians who support her, are fighting every day for us so that it is a universal truth that all men people are created equal.

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I'm The Girl Without A 'Friend Group'

And here's why I'm OK with it


Little things remind me all the time.

For example, I'll be sitting in the lounge with the people on my floor, just talking about how everyone's days went. Someone will turn to someone else and ask something along the lines of, "When are we going to so-and-so's place tonight?" Sometimes it'll even be, "Are you ready to go to so-and-so's place now? Okay, we'll see you later, Taylor!"

It's little things like that, little things that remind me I don't have a "friend group." And it's been like that forever. I don't have the same people to keep me company 24 hours of the day, the same people to do absolutely everything with, and the same people to cling to like glue. I don't have a whole cast of characters to entertain me and care for me and support me. Sometimes, especially when it feels obvious to me, not having a "friend group" makes me feel like a waste of space. If I don't have more friends than I can count, what's the point in trying to make friends at all?

I can tell you that there is a point. As a matter of fact, just because I don't have a close-knit clique doesn't mean I don't have any friends. The friends I have come from all different walks of life, some are from my town back home and some are from across the country. I've known some of my friends for years, and others I've only known for a few months. It doesn't really matter where they come from, though. What matters is that the friends I have all entertain me, care for me, and support me. Just because I'm not in that "friend group" with all of them together doesn't mean that we can't be friends to each other.

Still, I hate avoiding sticking myself in a box, and I'm not afraid to seek out friendships. I've noticed that a lot of the people I see who consider themselves to be in a "friend group" don't really venture outside the pack very often. I've never had a pack to venture outside of, so I don't mind reaching out to new people whenever.

I'm not going to lie, when I hear people talking about all the fun they're going to have with their "friend group" over the weekend, part of me wishes I could be included in something like that. I do sometimes want to have the personality type that allows me to mesh perfectly into a clique. I couldn't tell you what it is about me, but there is some part of me that just happens to function better one-on-one with people.

I hated it all my life up until very recently, and that's because I've finally learned that not having a "friend group" is never going to be the same as not having friends.

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Democrats Need To Split From Ilhan Omar Because Of Her Radicalism

Ilhan Omar's actions are only making matters worse for the Democrats and the country.


Many freshman representatives have been gaining a fair amount of traction recently, either by the things they say or the legislation they push. One of these is Congresswoman Ilhan Omar from Minnesota. However, the reasons for the attention she has garnered are more negative than positive.

Earlier in March, Ilhan Omar accused American Jews of "dual loyalty," an anti-Semitic trope that has been used many times throughout history. She proclaimed, "I want to talk about the political influence in this country that says that it is OK for people to push for allegiance to a foreign country." When Democrat Representative Nita Lowey called her out for such comments, Omar responded by saying, "I should not be expected to have allegiance/pledge support to a foreign country in order to serve my country in Congress."

Most recently, she has come under fire over her comments on the 9/11 terrorist attacks, referring to this horrific event as "some people did something." Here's the full quote:

"For far too long we have lived with the discomfort of being a second-class citizen and, frankly, I'm tired of it, and every single Muslim in this country should be tired of it. CAIR was founded after 9/11 because they recognized that some people did something and that all of us were starting to lose access to our civil liberties."

She could have reasonably apologized for that comment, saying that she used a poor choice of words and did not really mean it. But instead, she doubled down. Omar tweeted a quote from George W. Bush that says, "The people — and the people who knocked these buildings down will hear all of us soon."She then followed up in the same tweet asking, "was Bush downplaying the terrorist attack? What if he was a Muslim?"

Omar and her defenders say that she is being criticized because she is a person of color and for her Muslim faith. However, there are other Muslim and African-American Congress members who aren't under any scrutiny like her. They don't associate themselves with anti-Semitism and downplay terrorism like Ilhan Omar did.

Now, Omar and her companions are suggesting that a video Trump tweeted, juxtaposing her 9/11 comments with footage of the attack is inciting violence. When asked if she thinks Trump is trying to incite violence against Ilhan Omar, Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez, responded by saying, "Absolutely." Omar replied to the video by saying, "Violent rhetoric and all forms of hate speech have no place in our society, much less from our country's Commander in Chief. We are all Americans. This is endangering lives. It has to stop."

Has Trump used violent rhetoric before? Yes, he has, but the video he tweeted about Ilhan Omar does not encourage any violence toward her. It is dishonest to say it does and is an attempt to stifle real discussion. The actual people sending Omar death threats and the people honestly criticizing her are two entirely different groups.

If Democrats want to have a chance for 2020, they need to split from the radical area of their party, and that includes Ilhan Omar.

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