Your High School Friends Will Survive The Distance

You And Your High School Besties Will Survive The Distance, That's Why They're Your Best Friends

A brief history of "the four blonde girls."


The four blonde girls. The ones that all looked alike, drank too much coffee, dressed nice, and were always together. The goody-goods who always seemed to follow the rules. The ones who laughed unnecessarily loudly everywhere they went. I suppose these would be the most common labels we received in high school. But labels never really mattered to us four.

It was a friendship that was rare, especially among high school girls. From the very beginning, we cared about each other on a deeper level. Like family. We cared about the things that mattered. We all understood the world in the same way. I'm positive it was fated.

We never got caught up in trivial things. Drama simply wasn't our style. We all knew what was meant for each one of us: so much more. Something so big and spectacular we couldn't comprehend it quite yet in our tidy, suburban town. When things got tough, we always reminded each other of that.

We picked up each other's messes as if they were our own. Picked up the broken pieces and offered the best shoulders for crying. We knew there was nothing that couldn't be fixed with a little iced coffee and a hug. We loved one another as much as we loved our own selves.

The night before we were separated for college, we watched an endless stream of photos and videos on the couch with tear-filled eyes and laughter. The best moments of us. We all put four rings on our left pinky, one to represent each of us. And we promised: a letter a month, no matter what. We would send the letters in rotation between the four of us, so that each time a page would be added on. A packet of memories. Of how we were connected even in our time apart. We hugged for the last time, and I wondered how I would never get through nine months without them.

But somehow I have. Nine months and a big letter packet later, and we are still us. Maybe even more so.

We got home and realized there wasn't a thing out of place. Realized this friendship isn't something you find twice in your lifetime. We're still the four blonde girls. We always will be.

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A Letter To My Freshman Dorm Room As I Pack Up My Things

Somehow a 15' x 12' room became a home.


Dear Geary 411,

With your creaky beds, concrete walls, and mismatched tile floors, you are easily overlooked as just another room we were randomly assigned to— but you were different. Inside your old walls, I have made some of the best memories of my life that I will hold on to forever.

Thank you for welcoming my neighbors in with open arms who quickly became friends who didn't knock and walked in like you were their own.

I feel like an apology is needed.

We're sorry for blaring the music so loud while getting ready and acting like we can actually sing when, in reality, we know we can't. Sorry for the dance parties that got a bit out of control and ended with us standing on the desks. Sorry for the cases of the late-night giggles that came out of nowhere and just would not go away. Sorry for the homesick cries and the "I failed my test" cries and the "I'm dropping out" cries. We're sorry for hating you at first. All we saw was a tiny and insanely hot room, we had no idea what you would bring to us.

Thank you for providing me with memories of my first college friends and college experiences.

As I stand at the door looking at the bare room that I first walked into nine months ago I see so much more than just a room. I see lots and lots of dinners being eaten at the desks filled with stories of our days. I see three girls sitting on the floor laughing at God knows what. I see late night ice cream runs and dance battles. I see long nights of homework and much-needed naps. Most importantly, I look at the bed and see a girl who sat and watched her parents leave in August and was absolutely terrified, and as I lock you up for the last time today, I am so proud of who that terrified girl is now and how much she has grown.

Thank you for being a space where I could grow, where I was tested physically, mentally and emotionally and for being my home for a year.


A girl who is sad to go

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10 Fun Things You Should Do With Your College Friends Before Summer

Before your friend from New York heads back home, grab her and enjoy her company while you can.



1. Go on a shopping spree for summer clothes

2. Try out a new restaurant

3. Get matching tattoos (or henna if this is too extreme)

4. Get piercings together

5. Go bowling with a group of friends

6. Go skydiving

7. Go explore a zoo

8. Go on a hiking trail

9. Plan out a weekend to meet over the summer

10. P-A-R-T-Y!!

In college, you meet people from all over the world. Though when you become best friends with those people it is hard to say goodbye when the college year ends. Hopefully, these ideas will help you say goodbye easier (it will definitely be hard but at least you have these memories to hold on too)!


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