Heartbreak is not an easy thing at all, and it can be hard when it first rears its ugly head. It’s even worse if it was handled wrong, or the person seems like they moved on before you did. It can kill you when you are reminded of their vehicles everywhere, and torture you for days on what-if scenarios. It can make you depressed for days, and not want to do anything but cry because of it.

Your family will notice, and your even friends. It’s not an easy thing, in fact, you might wish you were hit by a bus or something more painful since it’s that bad. It will pass though, and what will end up happening is that you will find someone better.

Things happen for a reason, and the best thing you can do is give yourself time to heal. It can also make you see that you have awesome people looking out for you, and people can be there to listen to you. Throw yourself into your hobbies, play games, read books and focus on you for the time being.

You will be able to move on, and it may be a blessing in disguise to do the things you want to do. Keep busy, and don’t stay inside all alone since that is the worst. Listen to music and binge watch television, and it will get better. It’s the worst especially if it’s out of the blue.

Reaching out to people in the meantime can help. See friends and just keep doing you since the right person will find you, and breakups can happen for all sorts of reasons, too. It also sucks when you are cheated on, lied to, and treated like you are worthless.

As fun as your last relationship was you will find someone better than the last. Someone who gets you, and someone with the qualities you are looking for. The person who treated you horribly will wind up with karma coming back to them three fold. It’s a process, but if you find the right person, it will be worth it in the end.