10 Perks Of Having A Sister 10 Years Older Than Yo

10 Perks Of Having A Sister 10 Years Older Than You

Because what's better than a mom, bestie, therapist, stylist, chef combo?


Life isn't always easy, but sisters make life a bit easier. Having a sister ten years older than me to guide me through life has been such a blessing. I am so grateful for her and all she has done for me! Being the little sis is definitely the best, and here are some perks!

1. You were basically her human dress up doll growing up.

From dressing you up in the outfits she chooses to do your hair and your makeup for fun, you were basically a little doll for your big sister to play with!

2. You have someone who has already been through it all to guide you.

Choosing where to go to college? She's been there. Having a friendship drama? She's done that. Any bump in the road that comes with growing up, she's been through it, and she's there to offer you guidance throughout your life. Seeing her grow up and go through life is a great example for you and your future.

3. You have someone who supports you wholeheartedly.

Your big sister is your biggest fan. She supports you in all of your endeavors, no matter how far out on a limb they are. She encourages you and supports you so you can always do your best.

4. She was your first friend.

Since birth, she's been by your side. She was your first, and your very best, friend coming into this world, and that is something you'll always have.

5. She could drive ten years before you could.

Rides, rides, rides! Before you were old enough to drive, finding a way place to place was a struggle. Luckily, God made big sisters who can drive!

6. Because she could drive, you went on many spontaneous adventures.

There's nothing like your sister coming into your room and saying "you're coming with me because I don't was to go to the mall (or the grocery store, or wherever) alone." You can't say no because she's your big sis and she's in charge, but you always end up having fun together.

7. You basically have a second mom.

Growing up, we don't always make the best decisions. A big sister is someone who can say to you "that's not a good idea, you're not allowed to do that," or "that post shouldn't be online, delete that." Although her "mom-ness" can be really frustrating at times, in the end, it is beneficial, and it's only because she loves you and wants the best for you.

8. You get to be an aunt at a young age.

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What is better than this! I became an aunt (or will be becoming an aunt this week!!!!) at age 19. Now instead of only having a sister to love, you have this new little person to love too, who is just like her, but cuter! You get to watch your sister take on motherhood and learn from her example.

9. She's always buying you things.

Whether it is something small like a Coolatta at Dunkin, or something big, like Jonas Brother's concert tickets, your big sis has been buying you things since you were itty bitty and couldn't make your own money. Basically, 90% of my extensive Webkinz collection has come from my sister's wallet. (Thanks, sis! I promise I'll pay you back for all you've got me when I will the lottery.)

10. You have lifelong best friend.

Nori Zaccheo

You big sister is your best friend, no matter what. You're always there for each other, and love each other more than anything. You don't know what you would do without the person who has done so much for you.

Love you, Nyssa!

Thanks for loving me through my awkward phase.

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To My Sister On Her Wedding Day

“I thank God every day that I haven’t had to spend a day of my life without her by my side.”

A few weeks ago, my sister married the man of her dreams. I am happy to say that I couldn’t imagine a more perfect fit for my sister. At the wedding I gave a speech, because as the maid of honor, that was one of my obligations. I wrote my speech ahead of time because I tend to get nervous speaking in front of crowds of 200+. Now that the wedding is over, I would like to share the speech that I prepared.

“Hello everyone. For those of you that don’t know me, my name is Caroline and I am the bride’s little sister. As you probably know, weddings are not the easiest to plan, and Kassi isn’t always the easiest to please, so the Pevonka household has been pretty crazy these last few weeks. With all the madness going on, it was easy to forget the reason for it all. Now that the chaos has ended, it has finally hit me that my big sis is getting married. Looking at her right now, I can’t help but get a little emotional. My sister is the most beautiful woman I know. Yes, she has her hair done and make-up on, but that’s not the kind of beautiful I’m talking about. Don’t get me wrong, my sister is a sold 10, but that kind of physical beauty fades with age. My sisters beauty shines from within and touches everyone she meets. Zach, I hope you know that you are the luckiest man in the world.

Kassi, I am so proud of the way you took charge and raised Keegan; I mean it takes a special kind of person to raise a child at the age of 20. I never had a doubt in my mind that she would be the amazing mom that she is because she has had it in her her entire life. Ever since I can remember, Kassi has been the second mom I never wanted. She dressed me, drove my carpool to school, and even told me which boys I wasn’t allowed to date. While her bossiness led to many fights in my teenage years, I can’t thank her enough for looking out for me all these years. I thank God every day that I haven’t had to spend a day of my life without her by my side.

Zach, I want you to know that my sister loves you more than anything in the entire world. Trust me, she would not be marrying you if she didn’t feel that way. My sister is a perfectionist and doesn’t settle for anything or anyone, so in her eyes, you are as close to perfect as they come. I couldn’t imagine a better fit for my sister, only someone as calm as you can handle her sassiness all the time.

In life we are never promised anything. We aren’t promised the job of our dreams or the big house we always wanted. We aren’t promised the nicest things, or a lifetime of health. But one thing that I can promise you, Zach, is that my sister will love you unconditionally every day for the rest of her life. Whatever life may throw at you, whatever challenges you may have to face, never forget to check your side because my sister will always be right there. She is the kind that you can count on for life.

Congrats to the happy couple. I love you guys.”

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To The Older Sibling I Never Had, I Wish You Were Here To Guide Me

I know you don't exist, and I know you never will, but sometimes I catch myself imagining a life with you in it.


Even though years have passed since this horrific day, it still haunts my memory. Starting high school is a terrifying feeling and an insane transition when you don't have anyone to guide you through it. It was a mere 15-step walk to the door, and once I was inside my parents promised me there would be somebody there to help me find my classes, so why did I feel like I was being thrown straight into the gates of hell? I counted down the minutes until we pulled into the school parking lot and dreaded the sound of the car door opening and the anticipated start to the "best four years of my life."

As we were pulling up, I saw a girl who went to the same middle school as I following her older brother, who was a senior through the front doors as if it had been rehearsed at home. At this moment, I would have given my right foot to walk in her shoes right behind an older brother just this once. Eventually, with no place to hide, I just walked inside.

Unfortunately, this would not be the last of my longing for guidance from the older sibling I've never had.

I get it, I got a B in math. I get it, if I would have spent last Friday night studying instead of out with my friends it is possible that I could have gotten an A. But, what my parents seemed to not get was that life actually does go on even if you get a B on a report card. Time doesn't stop, your dreams don't diminish, and you are still viewed as a fairly competent person.

Luckily for my younger sisters, it seems my parents eventually did get it at the cost of my phone being taken away for three months and my social life ceasing to exist for the rest of that school year. As I spent every Friday night at home studying I longed, for just this once, to have an older sibling who was willing to take this hit for me.

Why did nobody tell me that it's actually more fun to go to school dances with friends than the boy you barely know who is just desperate for some conversation with the opposite sex?

I always wondered why that girl I went to middle school with never took a date to any of our formals or homecomings. Eventually, four homecomings and two proms later, I realized that this was because stumbling through the awkward introductions to family, tolerating the completely posed and overdone photos that would never actually be posted anywhere because you didn't talk outside of this forced interaction, and small talk over fruit punch and loud music was never actually necessary. Of course, I passed this message to my younger sisters and saved them the struggle of finding out for themselves.

Don't even get me started on being the first sibling to have to navigate applying to colleges.

I really could have used you then. I'm convinced there is nothing more difficult than trying to fill out a FAFSA or Common Application with absolutely no guidance or experience. Is my application essay long enough? Should I apply for early or regular admission? What if I don't get accepted anywhere? As selfish as it sounds, I would have given my other foot not to have to find these things out for myself.

I'd trade a lifetime worth of shotgun privileges to have you in my life to help me figure this stuff out.

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