So, college is the place where people usually date the people they would never have dated before. Some of them are great. Some of them are weird, which is sometimes great, sometimes not so great. Some of them are just plain terrible. Here are 7 of the guys you meet in college.
1. The cool frat guy
Okay. So, we aren't all going to date Nick Jonas but, when I think of the cool frat guy, he comes to mind. The cool frat guy is cool with everyone. Maybe a little too cool with some people. He's a good guy to date but do not get serious with him. Give him a few years and he might be perfect.
2. The jerk frat guy
This guy is someone most girls will probably never date because they're too average. This guy only wants what he can't have. He wants the cheerleaders or the dance line members or the oddly attractive professor who all want nothing to do with him. The "average" girls pine after him and he strings them along. Then, at the party he invites them to, he gets one of the drunk cheerleaders to make out with him in front of her. Don't waste you time on this guy.
3. The guy with the not so great band
Bless his heart. He's a great musician on his own. Especially if he's playing covers. But when it comes to "jamming" with his friends, oh boy. The band comes before anything else. He forgets to eat. He drinks too much. He alienates himself and then acts like you don't care about him or his music. Be friends with him. Support him. Maybe they won't be so terrible soon.
4. The 26-year-old who was secretly dating a 16-year-old
Oh boy! These are the guys that just can't grow up. He's 26 and still goes to high school parties. He's even secretly dating a 16 year old until she turns 18. Don't be friends with him. He's toxic. When he goes down, he will drag you with him.
5. The guy who only dates one type of girl
Not all of this kind of guy are ugly or jerks. They just have a type. There are, however, the guys that look like a toe who refuse to date anyone other than supermodels. They only surround themselves with people they see as equal, which means ridiculously attractive people.
If he considers you ugly and you just so happen to be in his friend group, it's not a good thing. He will probably be mean to you, no matter what your gender. He's just a jerk for no reason. That's not to talk down about having a type, though. There's nothing wrong with having a type. Everyone has a type. Just don't be a jerk.
6. Mr. Right Now
This guy. He really is a great guy. He's just not THE guy. He's spontaneous. You take trips out of the blue all of the time. You go to random concerts. You might even move in together. It just doesn't seem right. Something feels wrong in your gut. You don't know why but you ignore it a while. You love him and you can't imagine your life without him.
That part depends on the length of your relationship. Anyway, you decide to end it and he's okay with it because he felt the same all along. You're still going to be great friends and possibly invited to each other's weddings. It'll be a fun story for your kids one day.
7. Mr. Right
You will most likely meet him in college. He might not go to the same school. You might have met him and had a crush on him while you were with Mr. Right Now or The Cool Frat Guy. You might have a meet-cute or it might be extremely boring. Any way that it happens, it will happen. You guys might not know it right then. You might not feel it right then. Mr. Right is not someone I have personally met but I've heard that he's wonderful. So, if you have met him, you're lucky.
I know a lot of these references, "Mr." I am only able to speak from my own experience. If you love girls, you go girl! read this as your own inner dialogue. I love everyone.