Now that the Halloween season has come to an end, there are two things that are on everyone's mind: half-priced chocolate and Thanksgiving.
If you live anywhere besides home, there is always one thought that crosses your mind as the weeks leading up to going home for Thanksgiving passes, "How am I going to survive all of the questions from my relatives?"
Don't fret, because my unofficial guide to surviving Thanksgiving may help you in this upcoming holiday season!
1. Tell the truth.
This one goes a long way, especially if your relatives are particularly nosey. Sometimes, telling the truth will actually scare your relatives away. It also helps if they haven't seen you in a while. This works if you know that their views on your life are not positive, such as your living situation, relationship, or college life decisions. If they hate it, just remember that it's not their life, and you're very happy with all of your decisions.
2. Master the "awkward silence."
There's always the uncomfortable silence in every conversation with relatives, so learn to fill that silence. Maybe direct the conversation toward them, even if it isn't the most entertaining exchange in the world. Ask about their life, kids (if applicable), job, or future plans. You may not be interested, but at least it's better than sitting in silence for an unimaginable amount of time.
3. Find your people.
In every family situation, there's always the one person you can go to and stick around for the whole time. They're usually a cousin you have a good relationship with or maybe it's your sibling. It could even be the dog or cat at that house. These are great for escaping to during the awkward silences between vague relatives who you haven't seen in a while. They're great for a laugh or awkward story, but you love seeing them, so it's all worth it.
4. Don't be afraid to be yourself.
The most uncomfortable part of going to any family gathering is having the courage to be yourself. This season, try tearing all of your walls down and being as open as possible. Some may hate it, but as long as you're comfortable, it's going to be a great time for you.
5. Enjoy your time.
Unless you live close by or at home, it's not very often you get to see your family. Enjoy the limited time you have at home because it could be some time before you see them again. You may be dreading seeing some people, but you can always appreciate seeing everyone. If anything, show them how much you changed, and prove to them how much you have come out of your shell. Remember, revenge is always served best with a side of stuffing!