Grandparents Are God Sent

Grandparents Are God Sent

One or twenty-one, they are all amazing and should never be taken for granted!

Coming from a family full of divorces, I have several extended family members. I am blessed to have a plethora of grandparents. Yes, I have my biological maternal and paternal grandparents, but I also have my step-grandparents of my parents. Along with my step-grandparents from my step parents.

To start I have my mom's family. I have my paw paw. He's not your typical paw paw either. He's 65 and always on the go. Whether it's a concert, baseball game, or a trip to Vegas he is there. Now having divorces in a family can be complicated and not pretty at all.

My mom's mother is not in my life because I have only met her twice and only one of those times can I remember. However, the woman my mom calls mother is my maw maw. She raised my mother and has been nothing short of a maternal grandmother to me my entire life.

My paw paw is married to Amanda and while she is not my biological maternal grandmother she's pretty great and she's a different kind of grandmother just as he is a grandfather. All three on this side are great and I would not trade them for the world.

On my dad's side, I have the other three corners that finish my foundation of grandparents. They are my pop, cc, and grandma. Along with my paw paw those three have been there from the beginning and never cease to be there

. My pop is my dad's father and he is married to my cc. They have lived next door to me my entire life. Cc and I have watched put on makeup my entire life along with learning how to clean life has never been dull with her. Pop has been at ever softball game I've played.

He's the definition of my cheerleader. He is there for anything whether it's a ballgame to watch me play, needing something because I was sick at school, or fixing my car because an idiot backed into me he's there.

Now my grandma, my dad's mother, I could write a whole book on her but I will refrain. She is amazing a literal angel. From the time I was six weeks old until I was in the sixth grade, I spent every Saturday night and Sunday morning with her. For that I am grateful because a lot of my spiritual growth comes from her taking me to church all those years.

Paw paw, pop,cc, and grandma are my four corners that make my foundation as a person steady. I am beyond thankful for them. I'm also thankful for Amanda and my maw maw. Along with them I have supporting grandparents. I have my step mom's mom, dad, and step dad. I also have my step dad's mom.

I am very blessed in the department of grandparents and couldn't be more thankful. With Thanksgiving come and gone I could not be more thankful for these people in my life.

They have all supported me in whatever way possible. Even though divorce can be messy and bad there is good that comes from one. The abundance of love I've been shown from all my grandparents and the ones I've gained through remarriage is absolutely great.

So remember to always be thankful and to love your grandparents. Even though I have an abundance I do not take them for granted because one day they could not be here.

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To The Dad Who Didn't Want Me, It's Mutual Now

Thank you for leaving me because I am happy.

Thank you, for leaving me.

Thank you, for leaving me when I was little.

Thank you, for not putting me through the pain of watching you leave.

Thank you, for leaving me with the best mother a daughter could ask for.

I no longer resent you. I no longer feel anger towards you. I wondered for so long who I was. I thought that because I didn't know half of my blood that I was somehow missing something. I thought that who you were defined me. I was wrong. I am my own person. I am strong and capable and you have nothing to do with that. So thank you for leaving me.

In my most vulnerable of times, I struggled with the fact that you didn't want me. You could have watched me grow into the person that I have become, but you didn't. You had a choice to be in my life. I thought that the fact that my own father didn't want me spoke to my own worth. I was wrong. I am so worthy. I am deserving, and you have nothing to do with that. So thank you for leaving me.

You have missed so much. From my first dance to my first day of college, and you'll continue to miss everything. You won't see me graduate, you won't walk me down the aisle, and you won't get to see me follow my dreams. You'll never get that back, but I don't care anymore. What I have been through, and the struggles that I have faced have brought me to where I am today, and I can't complain. I go to a beautiful school, I have the best of friends, I have an amazing family, and that's all I really need.

Whoever you are, I hope you read this. I hope you understand that you have missed out on one of the best opportunities in your life. I could've been your daughter. I could have been your little girl. Now I am neither, nor will I ever be.

So thank you for leaving me because I am happy. I understand my self-worth, and I understand that you don't define me. You have made me stronger. You have helped make me who I am without even knowing it.

So, thank you for leaving me.

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9 Reasons Your Grandparents Are The Best Gifts You'll Ever Receive

They love us unconditionally and are always there to lend a helping hand.


Grandparents are special. They are the leaders and foundations of our families. They love us unconditionally and are always there to lend a helping hand. The spoil us way too often! My grandparents mean the world to me. The picture above is one of my favorite photos with both my mother and my grandfather when I was a little girl. They are some of the best people in my life and have always set a good example for me. Cherish them while you can because they won't always be around! Here are nine reasons your grandparents are the best gifts you'll ever receive!

1. They give the best advice.

2. They have a lot of life experience and are willing to share it with you.

3. Their smile makes your heart warm.

4. They are so intelligent.

5. They have the best stories to share.

6. They are a great example of love.

7. Their hugs are like no other.

8. They spoil their grandchildren.

9. They love you unconditionally.

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