To The Hometown Friends That Make Leaving For Your Sophomore Year Even Harder

To The Hometown Friends That Make Leaving For Your Sophomore Year Even Harder

Despite adding new people to our lives, there is something about the bond between longtime hometown friends that is unbreakable.


As incoming college sophomores who are long past the first departure from our hometown, I thought the dreaded season of goodbyes would be much easier this year than last year. Thanks to you all, my great friends from home, it's even harder this time around.

As a freshman, saying goodbye to all of you was a little scary (if I'm being honest.) We parted ways hopeful for what our new lives had in store for us, but fearful for the fate of our relationships to one another. Sure, we knew that we would all grow as we moved away to college, but with that also came the risk you of growing out of our friendships.

This time around though, the thought of leaving my friends is even harder. Why is that? Because we've overcome the odds. While we were off living our own lives miles apart for 9 months, we still managed to keep in touch. Above that, any time we met during breaks: Thanksgiving, winter/spring break, and especially summer. We all somehow picked up exactly where we left off, proving that nothing could interfere with a bond as strong as ours. Reuniting made me realize how much I miss you all and how much you all mean to me. You've helped shape me into who I am today, and I'm thankful for that.

Although so much has changed in the past year, being home this summer has made me realize that just as many things have stayed the same. Despite adding new people to our lives, there is something about the bond between longtime hometown friends that is unbreakable.

Saying goodbye is always bittersweet. Being one of the first out of all of us to leave, you guys are really making the bitterness even more potent. Because the time we spend together is so precious, moving back so early gives me major FOMO. With this being said, I leave home peacefully with the knowledge that we will all be living our best lives and be bettering ourselves at our respected schools. When I miss you, expect a text, a FaceTime call, or a Snapchat video of something funny we did together this summer.

If you ask me, moving away to college has done nothing but wonders for our already strong friendships.

I love you all to the moon and back. Thank you all for making this goodbye so difficult.

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18 Things That Happen When You Get A Good Roommate

Not every roommate story is a bad one.

Whenever you hear about roommate stories, they're almost never good, and they usually scare you into never wanting a roommate. "Did you hear her roommate steals her clothes?" "Her roommate doesn't shower!" "Wow, her roommate doesn't talk at all, and doesn't do laundry." From what I hear, there are more bad stories than good. That is why I consider myself lucky, because my roommate is nothing like one of those bad stories. When life hands you a good roommate after talking to about 40 girls through Facebook, a few things happen.

1. You always have someone to talk to.

2. You know each other's schedules and whenever you both have a break is an exciting time.

3. You'll never have to dance alone.

4. You always have someone to do something with, even if it's just walking down the hall.

5. You both look out for each other, because this is your first time without your parents.

6. You always have a shoulder to lean on when things get tough.

7. Borrowing each other's things is a daily thing.

8. You TRY to help with each other's homework and assignments.

9. They're encouraging when it comes to boys (unless they're a f*ckboy).

10. They're your biggest support system and your personal cheerleader.

11. They never forget to wish you luck on a big exam.

12. They accept how gross you are in the morning and not so pleasant sometimes.

13. You both know each other's favorite and least favorite things.

14. Leaving each other notes saying goodbye before class if you don't see them is normal.

15. Saying goodbye for breaks is upsetting.

16. Not seeing them all day is upsetting.

17. You have more pictures together than any of your other friends.

18. You found a best friend for life.

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What It Is Really Like Having Sisters Close To Your Age

While having siblings close to your age is pretty amazing, there can be a lot of issues that can come with it.


I come from a family of 5 people and 1 dog. I have 2 sisters, Grace and Caroline. We are all pretty close in age, Caroline being the youngest and 3 years younger than me.

My sisters and I share a bond like no one else, no one can replicate it. When you have siblings close to your age you have built-in best friends, and since they are around your age you have the same interest, or at least, enough so that you can do things that other siblings cannot. Examples of this would be seeing R-Rated movies and going to the mall without too much complaining, along with being able to shop in the same stores or even share clothes. Grace and I sometimes even split the cost of a shirt we both like.

We even overlap friend groups! Which is not much of a problem for us, Grace and I are both in music programs which overlap enough for us to have the same friends, which is great for when one of us has a sleepover, the other can join in on the fun. Caroline, however, even though she is seen as the sporty one of the 3 of us, she still has a lot of friends who have similar interests as Grace or I, giving us a lot of the same friends. It's nice not to be considered the "cool older sister", I am just like the rest of them.

While we do fight a lot, we make up really quickly, because most issues we have are stupid sibling fights: who gets the T.V., what to have for dinner, what movie to see. But it is always fun because there are 3 of us, which means majority rules, something we tend to go by most of the time depending on the situation.

Having 3 teenagers in the house can be a handful for our parents though, when you have three teenage girls going through puberty at relatively the same time, it can be grueling, especially when you are all on your period at the same time.. (yes, that has happened before) (and yes, it sucks). While I am on the topic, let's say a prayer and a thank you to my dad for dealing with 5 girls (including the dog, obviously) because he does a pretty damn good job at dealing with all of us.

When we were younger, we always had a play date even when one was canceled. We all made up songs and dances and would perform them for our parents. We even had a band called The Halsey Sisters (AKA the female version of The Jonas Brothers) where we had a hit song called "We Got The Heart and Soul". It was a hell of a time. Let's just say the music video for that song is, interesting to say the least.

At the end of the day, I wouldn't switch my sisters for anything in the world, they are my rocks, and I wouldn't want it any other way, Grace, Caroline, keep doing what you're doing, because you're pretty damn awesome.

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