Slow and steady may win the race, but when it comes to love the good guys always come in last. It's interesting, because so many of us men are ideal individuals according to the families of these women, yet the women themselves do not realize it until after the fact when they hook up with some dude who merely has the looks and the cash to blow.
One realization that has been made is that women will never stop asking for a good guy, and then find the complete opposite! Ladies! What are you doing?! It's like a one-way mirror deal, a girl is looking into it, and she sees herself, yet I'm standing on the other side and I can only see her, but she can't see me.
Furthermore, as time evolves the expectations that women have raised are unbelievable today! They'll say "I want a man who is going to work hard and make money to be able to provide for me and my family... but then I want him to make time for me and my needs, as well as cook, be respectful, juggle, swallow fire, climb Mt. Everest, and oh! Rub my feet!" It has become crazy, but then the next point is no better.
We get it ladies, there is such a thing as being an independent woman, and hey! More power to you, right? Feminism: I don't need a man to take care of me, but the minute something comes up and they don't agree with it, "well that's a man's job and duty and he should be the one taking care of it." We have to come to some type of consensus as to how much "independency" you want as an individual, that way common ground can be established and everyone is happy.
A good man will always do whatever a woman wants to do; whether it be a romantic candle lit dinner, a walk in the park, watching a simple RomCom movie, etc. However, if I pulled 10 women aside, and asked them "do you do activities that your man likes to do," a good amount of them would respond with "sometimes" or "not at all." Good guys deserve some catered attention in return, ladies! I know some of the things we guys like to do aren't super practical, like going to a live sporting event when you can argue that it can be seen on tv, or seeing the Die Hard sequel, but if there was a fine line in between both parties, the result would be a better outcome!
Lastly, we all just have to stop looking at the outside, and look at what's on the inside, I ask that we take a moment of silence for every good guy out there that has been passed up because he wasn't the "more than average" guy women are aiming for, because it is not their fault! If he's got a good heart, and a good head on his shoulders and will go to the end of the Earth to make you happy, he is probably a keeper. Be on the lookout for us ladies, us good guys are coming to sweep you off your feet.
