Can we all agree that social media is the worst, but also somehow the best? It's a love-hate relationship for me personally, as I'm someone who moved from the small state of Vermont to attend college in the big ol' state of California. All that to say: There are people in different parts of the country that I'd have no way of keeping up with if it weren't for social media. At the same time, do I really need to see an update each time they go to a brewery and post a "cute" beer glass pic?
The answer is an unequivocal no. Yet here I am again, scrolling through the feed.
Social media is the junk food of activities. It's quick, cheap, and easy, and ultimately leaves you feeling unsatisfied and, potentially, a little sick to your stomach (at least that's the case for me after seeing a few too many pimple popper videos in a row). But beyond that, it's actually pretty bad for your health. It's been linked to an increase in depression in young people, which is not only, well, depressing but it can also be dangerous. Depression can put individuals at higher risk of developing a substance use disorder, which is incredible life threatening (it takes thousands of lives in California each year).
To avoid some of these outcomes, what you can do is make a choice to spend your time differently. Just because "everyone's on social media" doesn't mean everyone is literally on social media. Don't use that as justification to keep scrolling night after night. Instead, try spending 5 minutes on one of these other 5 activities instead, and figure out activities that actually add value to your life rather than bringing you down.
1. Go for a walk in your neighborhood.
Southern California has great weather that all of us should take advantage of. Even if it's just for 5 minutes around your block, a short walk can be a great way to clear your head, get some fresh air, and get a little exercise.
2. Read the first few pages of a free e-book or library book.
Sometimes not knowing which book to read, or feeling like you're "not a reader," prevents you from just picking up a good book. Go into one blind by clicking on the first free e-book cover that stands out to you, or just grabbing one off the shelf at the library. Read a few pages and maybe you'll get hooked, or maybe you'll just have a few moments where you're put in a different storyline.
3. Give a friend or family member a call.
Let's all be honest -- there's at least one person in all of our lives that we should probably keep in contact with better. Instead of opening that Instagram or Facebook app, give a distant friend or family member a call instead. Or send them a text to check in. Either way, it's better than mindless scrolling.
4. Prepare for your day (or your next day).
This is dependent on the time of day, so it could mean setting out your clothes at night for the next day, or it could mean packing snacks in the morning for your day ahead. Small things like this can make a significant impact on your upcoming day.
5. Do absolutely nothing.
No, scrolling on social media isn't nothing. Instead I mean sit and meditate, or just reflect on how your semester has gone so far, or think ahead about something you'd like to learn or do for yourself. This type of "nothing" is way more productive than you think.