When You Give A Girl A Little Sister

When You Give A Girl A Little Sister

You give her a life long best friend.

When you give a girl a little sister, you give her a life long best friend.

You give her another closet full of clothes that are half her's, you give her a person that will make her feel like she's at home when they're together, even if home is hundreds of miles away.

She'll want to teach her everything she knows from the very beginning, because she's been through everything first. Yes, even walking and talking.

She'll always have a person to play Barbies with, a faithful partner for house chores and someone to fight with over the little things.

When you give a girl a little sister, every night is a sleepover.

One day, that little sister isn't going to be quite so little anymore. One day, she'll be just as tall and maybe even just as mature.

She'll soon realize that there's no one better to go through life with than a little sister and thank God every day for sending her one.

When you give a girl a little sister, you give her a personal comedian, trusty copilot, fashion consultant and receptionist all put together. Who else is she going to ask how she should reply to a text, sing "Fergalicious" with at the top of her lungs on the way to the grocery store, ask which top looks better with her new denim skirt, or laugh with until she starts to cry at 2:30 in the morning?

It'll be hard to watch her little sister repeat some of the same mistakes that she made as she grows up, but she'll always be there to pick up the pieces when things start to fall apart.

She'll want to get her sister's approval on everything, from boyfriends to school papers to potential hair cuts. If a person or a thing doesn't meet her sister's expectations, it's not good enough for her.

When you give a girl a little sister, you're giving her the hardest goodbye she will ever say when she heads off for college for the first time. You're also giving her someone who will want to come and visit her every chance she gets.

She'll call her at least once every day, but nothing will make her miss her sister any less.

She'll feel complete again when she's finally at home for breaks, doing things like they used to do and catching up on things they somehow missed.

When you give a girl a little sister, you're giving her someone to be a role model for. You give her a sense of purpose for her entire life, even when that little sister is able to make her own decisions about her life and her future.

You're giving her the future maid of honor in her wedding, the future cool aunt to her kids, and the future person to remind her that she really is getting older.

When you give a girl a little sister, you are giving her the whole world. Every single thing she does is going to be for her little sister, the most important person in her life.

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5 Perks Of Having A Long-Distance Best Friend

The best kind of long-distance relationship.

Sometimes, people get annoyed when girls refer to multiple people as their "best friend," but they don't understand. We have different types of best friends. There's the going out together best friend, the see each other everyday best friend and the constant, low maintenance best friend.

While I'm lucky enough to have two out of the three at the same school as me, my "low maintenance" best friend goes to college six hours from Baton Rouge.

This type of friend is special because no matter how long you go without talking or seeing each other, you're always insanely close. Even though I miss her daily, having a long-distance best friend has its perks. Here are just a few of them...

1. Getting to see each other is a special event.

Sometimes when you see someone all the time, you take that person and their friendship for granted. When you don't get to see one of your favorite people very often, the times when you're together are truly appreciated.

2. You always have someone to give unbiased advice.

This person knows you best, but they probably don't know the people you're telling them about, so they can give you better advice than anyone else.

3. You always have someone to text and FaceTime.

While there may be hundreds of miles between you, they're also just a phone call away. You know they'll always be there for you even when they can't physically be there.

4. You can plan fun trips to visit each other.

When you can visit each other, you get to meet the people you've heard so much about and experience all the places they love. You get to have your own college experience and, sometimes, theirs, too.

5. You know they will always be a part of your life.

If you can survive going to school in different states, you've both proven that your friendship will last forever. You both care enough to make time for the other in the midst of exams, social events, and homework.

The long-distance best friend is a forever friend. While I wish I could see mine more, I wouldn't trade her for anything.

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What It Feels Like To Be Reunited With Your Sisters

My best friends, my confidants, and the most annoying girls you'll ever meet all in one.


As someone who has always been close with their siblings, it's always strange when I come to the sudden realization (usually at three in the morning) that we will probably never live very close to each other again. We're scattered all around the nation right now: one of us on the West Coast, another sister in the Midwest, a brother in New England, and the last one (me) in the South. My sisters and brother were more than just siblings, they were my best friends growing up. The fact that I only get to see them during Christmas and maybe a weekend in the summer breaks my heart.

After the winter holiday break, we began to collectively wonder: when is the next time we'll all actually be together again? Will we be able to see each other in the summer? Will my older sister be too busy with her new Californian job? Will my other sister be preoccupied with research in her graduate program? Will my brother be willing to stop playing video games to go out to dinner with us if we even could all gather up?

I decided to take action against my fear of never seeing my siblings again. While most of my peers were planning a trip to some tropical location for spring break, I saved enough money to buy a ticket to Chicago where one of my sisters lives. My mother agreed to join the trip, which encouraged my oldest sister to abandon sunny San Francisco and visit the Windy City.

Even though the gap between my winter break and my spring break was not too large, I still missed my siblings immensely and longed for any moment I could spend with them. I'm aware that these opportunities will be few and far between, so I need to take advantage while I can.

Of course, your idolized version of being reunited with family does not always align with reality. Within ten minutes of seeing my sister, we were already bickering, and that was not the first time we would fight during the trip.

Still, part of me misses those pointless arguments. I miss the yelling, the hair-pulling, how my two older sisters sometimes gang up on me as the youngest child. To me, all of those things are worth it because, after all of that, we can laugh about childhood memories or give each other advice on our love lives (or for me, lack thereof). I get to see my sisters try to balance becoming adults while they still giggle at "That's What She Said" jokes.

It's strange to watch my sisters get older, to see them discover their path in life. I always saw them as so mature and sure of themselves, but it's nice to know that they're still themselves. Growing up doesn't mean they've lost their sense of humor adventure. They're still my sisters, and they're still my best friends.

After this, I don't know when the next time I'll see them will be. Of course, there is so much technology available, so if I really wanted to sit on the couch and watch "Brooklyn 99" with my sister while eating dinner, we could do that together. But, it's not quite the same if you don't get to share a blanket or occasionally smack one-another in the arm when they keep interrupting the episode. As much as we try to imitate the physical sensation of being next to someone, you can't mirror the feeling completely.

Now that we've gone to the Midwest, maybe our next trip will be to the West Coast, and then they'll even visit me at college. All I know is that distance will not keep me and my sisters apart. Family can cross timezones, cross borders, cross all obstacles. For family, I'm willing to do what I can for another moment of rewatching the last episode of Friends for the thirtieth time.

Oh, and I guess my brother can come too.

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