I am sick of people thinking I either completely hate men or I like the same sex just for not taking excuses from men who don't really care about me. Sorry, but I'm not going to just date someone to have someone.
Sure, it's nice to have the company and cuddles from a cute boy, but is it worth it if it's all revolved around one thing?
The answer is no, always no.
It's not worth it to put all your time and energy into a guy that, let's face it, is probably talking to other girls on the side. Especially if he's a fraternity boy. In my experience, most fraternity boys are not ready for relationships and won't take you seriously. Of course, there are some really great fraternity boys out there, don't get me wrong, but the majority of them are more focused on impressing their brothers than taking you seriously. I don't mean to diss fraternity boys I swear, other boys who aren't in fraternity life can also be just as bad if not worst.
It's just our dating culture, girls.
There are still some good guys out there who stay off dating apps will actually care about more than just your body. There are boys who want to pick your brain and have meaningful conversations that lead somewhere.
Here's my tip: get off your dating apps because you're not going to find love on there.
I promise you most guys on there are looking for some fun, trying to get over an ex, or have it because their friends told them they should. If you're a girl looking for something real and meaningful, I promise you Tinder and Bumble will not be able to deliver that for you.
In 2019 girls, we aren't going to fall for boys who obviously don't care about us, we're going to be wiser.
This is the year for all my independent women out there to thrive and not let heartbreak interfere.