Hey beautiful,

We've all been there- sitting around waiting for a date, an invitation to hang out, a text, or even some sign somewhere that he does in fact like you and that you are worth it to him. At first things with him were great, weren't they? He was cute, exciting, fun, and it felt like the whole world was falling into place. The thought of someone who could change your life, and like you the way you were built to be liked was so enchanting, but somewhere along the line, it stopped being the fun, new thing it was and started being you waiting for him. Checking your phone all the time to see if he's going to follow up on telling you when he's free to hang out, seeing if he's opened your Snapchat, checking social media to see what he's been up to, but you deserve so much more than that.

Why are you doing this to yourself? All of the time you've wasted thinking about this boy, pining over him, talking about him-is he worth it? If anyone is worth being in your life, you shouldn't have to work so hard to get him/ keep him in it. If a person is worth being in your life, they will find a place in your life, and you won't have to constantly feel as though you are always waiting for him.

Every moment that you spend thinking about him, is another moment you lose improving your life. Waiting around for him forever will do nothing but make you feel badly about yourself. So put down the phone, stop checking his twitter, and look at the world around you. I promise there is more to this life than all of your friends being in happy relationships or getting engaged.

You should be out living your life with people who fight for you and try to be in your life instead of feeling terribly about yourself because some boy doesn't want you. You are far too beautiful and loved to feel down when one person doesn't pay you the attention you deserve.

Romantic love isn't the only kind of love, or the most important. Just because you don't have someone in your life at this exact moment who wants to date you, does not mean you are any less of a person, or any less deserving of love. Love will find you. The kind of love that doesn't make you sit around and wonder if texting him twice will make you look crazy, or if he's going to text you back at all.

Go and live your life without the worry of what boys will find you hot enough, funny enough, or smart enough to date you. Life your life with such wonderful excitement that what boys are paying attention you at this particular moment is not even a thought that crosses your mind.

You are perfectly and wonderfully made, do not let a boy who isn't worth your time make you feel like you are anything less.