You meet a boy, you fall in love, the boy starts to ignore you, things start to go bad, you break up, you get back together, all you do is fight, and he knows he has some type of control of you. To the girl that think she can't live without that boy, I'm here to tell you that you can. You can live without the stupid boy that yells at you and tears you down. You can live without the boy that makes you hate yourself more, the one that makes your bad habits come about, the one you feel as if you can't get away from, you can.

You will go through a bit of heartbreak, I will not deny that. It will hurt and there will be many nights you stay up crying wondering where it all went wrong and why did it have to happen to you. But, you will get over it with time. I know that is not what you want to hear, you want it to go away right now, but that's not how heartbreak works. Chances are the boy you'll be torn up over will move on within the next day or so, he will start with a new girl and you will feel betrayed. You will wonder why you weren't good enough and why you don't deserve to be loved. That is not the case.

You deserve to be loved, you deserve someone that will jump rivers and oceans for you, not someone that won't even walk over a puddle. You will get through the heartbreak, you will feel better. You will be better and bigger than he will ever be. He does this for the fun and thrill of it, just to get enjoyment out of breaking girls hearts and making them think that they will never be good enough. He thinks it's all a game. You will be stronger than that.

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You are stronger than you think, you can get over him and away from him. Do not let him stop you from doing the things that you love, do not let him take away your dignity, do not let him take away your love, do not give in when he comes back for the second, fourth, tenth time he tries. Let him go and while you're at it let him know how it made you feel, let him know how terrible it felt to be with him. Make a change for yourself, even if it's a small one. Start going to the gym, hanging out with friends more, do something to make yourself feel better. Don't sit around and make yourself feel worse because I promise you can live without him.

From the girl who once thought she couldn't.