We say it all the time. " I want to be her." Whether it's exchanging your brown curls for her blonde blowout or trading your ability to barely do the electric slide for her ability to dance circles around you, we're all guilty of wishing that we could change who were at some point or another. The illusion that once that happens we will be satisfied is one that permeates our lives, as we seek to change things that we have no power over.

Instead of trying to become a different person completely, be the girl that does these 27 things to become a better version of herself.

So, be the girl that:

1. Lifts others up.

2. Knows how much she is worth.

3. Begins every day with a smile.

4. Has unbridled ambition.

5. Stands up for herself.

6. Stands up for others.

7. Pushes herself outside of her comfort zone.

8. Isn't afraid to try new things.

9. And then isn't afraid of failure, if those things don't work out.

10. Who refuses to be defeated.

11. Who tries again.

12. Knows her passions (and pursues them).

13. Finds the strength to forgive others (and ask for it when necessary).

14. Admits her mistakes.

15. Dances (a lot, all the time, everywhere).

16. Empowers other women.

17. Refuses to settle for anything or anyone.

18. Does whatever makes her happy.

19. Has the ability to laugh at herself.

20. Is kind to everyone, even the people that aren't kind to her.

21. Has a compassionate heart.

22. Brings out the best in others.

23. Is unstoppable.

24. Speaks with sincerity and authenticity.

25. Exudes strength.

26. Makes a difference.

27. Love herself

So you know her? Be that girl.