What does it mean to be 'enough' to someone? Every woman wants to know what it means to be enough to a guy she cares about. She always asks herself the same questions over and over again. 'What do I truly mean to him?!' Constantly double guessing yourself is troubling and no one ever wants to deal with that.

I've found myself in many situations where I really liked someone and they just didn't have any time for me. But it was not just the time to hang out, but just flat out being ignored by them is the absolute worst and completely annoying. I just can't understand how some women just get constantly ignored by someone who is constantly giving them attention one minute and then ignoring them the next. You can't tell someone that they're great to hang out with, and then you just make them second guess what they mean to you. If you say something that you say that you mean, don't make someone a second priority. If they can't be your first priority then don't expect them to waste their time. As women, we always look for a straight answer regardless what the situation is.

There is nothing that I personally hate more than people who constantly beat around the bush and lie. Why tell me you find me attractive and what not but you have your eye on someone else. Is something wrong with me to the point where I need to question what I am always doing wrong? That is something that needs to stop.

Myself along with plenty other woman need to stop questioning certain guys who clearly have no interest in them, yet they simply lead on with words and thoughts. Enough is enough! I'm sick of being someone's second priority. I should be just as important as your other friends and since I'm not, there is simply no point. We're just tired of having our feelings hurt over and over again. Stop wasting our time and your own.

There also comes a point where we as women need to tell each other 'Forget him girl, start doing you!' This statement has never been so right. As I mentioned in one of my earlier articles there is nothing that is more important than self love. By loving yourself first, it means that your self worth and love comes before anyone. By learning to love you and only you it doesn't mean that you're selfish for the wrong reasons. It just simply means that you're willing to take the steps that it takes to take care of yourself. Never will I allow any man to define me as a person whether I am in a relationship or not. I will not continue to allow myself to be defined based on his opinion about me.

There is a reason why we as women continue to tell each other 'Do You Girl!' Because no one's got us like how we got one another. I know that sometimes as women we don't always tend to see eye to eye on certain situations, and that's okay. Just remember, once you start questioning yourself for the wrong reasons just know that it is a sign to forget him. Dust yourself off, drink some wine, and enjoy life.