I Don't Know What I Would Do Without My College Girl Gang

Simply Put, I Don't Know What I'd Do Without My College Girl Gang

Gal pals for life.


We all have our special girls in our lives, both at home and in college. I absolutely love my besties back at home, y'all kill it and I can't wait to see you when finals are done! However, our girl gangs back at home aren't around 24/7 like they were in high school, so we have to adopt a new girl gang while we're away at our respective places of higher learning.

Not everyone has a girl gang, and that's perfectly ok, but you're definitely missing out if you don't. Your girls are the people who literally can get you through any tough time in your life, or hype you up when you're looking extra amazing for class or when you guys go out. Guys can't hype you up and help you pick out bomb outfits for dates like your gal pals can.

I've always been shy, so coming to college was super scary because I had no idea what was going to happen or who I'd meet and become friends with, or if I'd have no friends at all. Luckily, I met the most amazing people my freshmen and sophomore years of college, and now I have an amazing gang of girls I call my best friends here at my home away from home.

Coming from a girl who's usually eternally single, having the great friend group I have right now was essential through getting over a rough almost relationship, and other boys who did me dirty throughout our time here at school. Words cannot describe what it was like having my friends by my side through everything I've been through, and I love to reciprocate that support when they go through things too. It's not fair to think you have to go through things alone, and people should never feel ashamed in asking their friends for shoulders to cry on, or they aren't your real friends of course.

You girl gang is an essential part of the society we live in today, as much as it was decades and even centuries ago. Sisterhood is a part of our lives, whether you're a sorority woman or not, the bond we have with our girls is a bond we should all treasure and be thankful we have. I seriously do not know where I would be if I had not met the people I am best friends with today, both at home and here at school, but especially at school.

Coming from a girl who doesn't make friends with boys easily, I've always relied on my girl squad to be my rock. I don't rely on a man to bring me my happiness, I rely on myself. My friends have shown me how to be more confident in myself, and not settle for anyone who brings out anything in me I don't like. We only get to live one life, and why not live it with the people who bring out only the best in us?

Not everyone in my gal gang is pictured, but you know who you are. Shout out to you all for being here for me and making my life nothing but amazing. If you don't have a girl gang, I sincerely hope you find one!

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To The Nursing Major During The Hardest Week Of The Year

I know that no grade can possibly prove what kind of nurse you will be. I know that no assignment will showcase your compassion. I know that no amount of bad days will ever take away the empathy inside of you that makes you an exceptional nurse.


To the Nursing Major During Finals Week,

I know you're tired, I know you're stressed, and I know you feel like you can't go on. I know that no part of this seems fair, and I know you are by far the biggest critic of yourself. I know that you've thought about giving up. I know that you feel alone. I know that you wonder why in the world you chose one of the hardest college majors, especially on the days it leaves you feeling empty and broken.

But, I also know that you love nursing school. I know your eyes light up when you're with patients, and I know your heart races when you think of graduation. I know that you love the people that you're in school with, like truly, we're-all-in-this-together, family type of love. I know that you look at the older nurses with admiration, just hoping and praying that you will remain that calm and composed one day. I know that every time someone asks what your college major is that you beam with pride as you tell them it's nursing, and I know that your heart skips a beat knowing that you are making a difference.

I know that no grade can possibly prove what kind of nurse you will be. I know that no assignment will showcase your compassion. I know that a failed class doesn't mean you aren't meant to do this. I know that a 'C' on a test that you studied so. dang. hard. for does not mean that you are not intelligent. I know that no amount of bad days will ever take away the empathy inside of you that makes you an exceptional nurse.

I know that nursing school isn't fair. I know you wish it was easier. I know that some days you can't remember why it's worth it. I know you want to go out and have fun. I know that staying up until 1:00 A.M. doing paperwork, only to have to be up and at clinicals before the sun rises is not fair. I know that studying this much only to be failing the class is hard. I know you wish your friends and family understood. I know that this is difficult.

Nursing school isn't glamorous, with the white lab coat and stethoscope. Nursing school is crying, randomly and a lot. Nursing school is exhaustion. Nursing school is drinking so much coffee that you lose track. Nursing school is being so stressed that you can't eat. Nursing school is four cumulative finals jam-packed into one week that is enough to make you go insane.

But, nursing school is worth it. I know that when these assignments are turned in and finals are over, that you will find the motivation to keep going. I know that one good day of making a difference in a patient's life is worth a hundred bad days of nursing school.

Keep hanging in there, nursing majors. It'll all be worth it— this I know, for sure.

So, if you have a nursing major in your life, hug them and tell them that you're proud of them. Nursing school is tough, nursing school is scary, and nursing school is overwhelming; but a simple 'thank-you' from someone we love is all we need to keep going.


A third-year nursing student who knows

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An Open Letter To The Friend Who Continues To Save My Life

No one knows me like you do.


From the day we became friends, we have always had nothing but support for one another. Although we have only really been friends for about seven years now, I feel as if you have always been a part of my life. You know me just as well as you know yourself, and I understand you in the same way I understand my own thoughts and feelings.

You have never made me feel pressured, insecure, or unappreciated. The mutual respect we have for one another is unmatched. We can talk to each other about anything; from some of the most trivial topics to entire life philosophies. We have grown and matured together, and I couldn't be more proud of the person you are today.

We don't always agree on everything, and I always appreciate your fresh point of view, but I have never felt more in sync with another person than I do with you. We share the same birth month, the same age, the same home town, the same anxieties, and many of the same attitudes and values.

I feel as if you know exactly when I want to be alone and when I need company. Since we are both introverted, we understand that the other person needs time to recharge. And when I'm sitting alone with nothing to do, I always get a text from you asking to hang out.

In some of my loneliest, most vulnerable moments, you have been there. When I question how many true friends I really have, you are always sure to make your love for me known.

Through high school, and now college, we have experienced so many life-changing events together. Some that have taught us extremely valuable lessons, and others that have shown us incredible pain and how to grow from our lowest moments.

I want to thank you for showing me what life-long friendship looks like. Thank you for always understanding me and never putting too much pressure on me. I see an incredible future for both of us no matter where each of our lives takes us.

We will always share a unique connection that cannot be separated by any distance. But, for now, I'm glad you're only one text or phone call away.

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