The Stereotypes Around "Girl Gamers" Are Damaging And Need To End

The Stereotypes Around "Girl Gamers" Are Damaging And Need To End

Newsflash: It's 2018, girls play video games, and they're done being told that they don't know anything.

In recent years, more girls have been diving headfirst into the video game industry and into the world of casually playing video games. I'll admit it, it's a good way to spend my days off and I enjoy playing them. Now that summer is starting and I have more time off, I can easily sit down in front of a computer and get lost in gaming for hours on end. But the stigma that comes with being a "girl gamer" is one that has increased as more girls get involved with playing video games.

There are two parts to this, number one: playing video games casually and being called out or tested because you obviously don't know as much as your male counterparts and number two, working in the video game industry and people assuming you got your job because of who your dating or you were hired based on looks. This happens a lot in the streaming industry and on Twitch a lot but that is a whole other issue we can delve into later.

And yes, this happens in every industry, but we are going to be focusing on the video game industry because the focus is looking into "girl gamers" and how the stigma around them should be erased.

Now, I'm not an avid video game player. I don't spend all day every day playing games because I'm busy. Even though I would love to spend every day playing games, I'm not good enough to be a Twitch streamer, but on my days off I occasionally have that urge to play something. So I do. My boyfriend is a huge video game fan and spends all his free time playing every type of game which has started to rub off on me.

So last week I was playing League of Legends (a MOBA type game for those who are unaware, which is a multiplayer online battle arena) and a group of guys invited me to join their group because they liked how well I had played in the last game. They immediately started referring to me as a guy and using him pronouns in chat.

I'd like to point out that my League username is "xemixcatx" which might be one of the most girl-orientated usernames I can think of. Nonetheless, they continued calling me a dude for the rest of the night.

And that got me thinking, there isn't even a small possibility in these guys' minds that I'm a girl. I'm playing a girl character with an entirely female username and these guys still can't even fathom that I'm not a guy like them.

I don't have a problem with that – what I have a problem with is that if I did reveal myself to them as a girl, all my mistakes would be because I was a girl and I didn't know what I was doing instead of it being their mistake or someone on the enemy team. Or, they would start throwing a million questions at me in order to prove that I knew nothing about the game or that I shouldn't even be playing in the first place.

Earlier in the spring semester, my boyfriend, one of our close friends, and I all got really into playing Magic the Gathering. Once or twice a week we would drive down to the card shop in Waterford Lakes and play a few games either by ourselves or with other people that wanted to play. And about 50% of the time the guy that would join us and play a few games would end up trying to explain the game to me even though I had been playing for as long as my boyfriend and our other friend.

That in itself proves to me that some guys (not all guys because many guys are extremely welcoming to girl gamers that want to get involved in playing any type of game) do not understand that girls can be as dedicated and as interested in nerdy type games as themselves.

That leads into the second point: many people end up assuming that a girl got her job in the video game industry because of her looks or someone that she already knew that was in the industry before her.

Guess what? Most of the time, girls in the industry are hired based on their talent and abilities and the fact that they are also good looking has little to nothing to do with them getting hired. But it is hard for some guys to understand this because all they see is that they got beat out for a job by a girl and that emasculates them, so they have to take out their rage on the girl instead of realizing that sometimes you're not going to get the job.

There are a number of incredibly talented women in the video game industry that work tirelessly and endlessly to create the content for their readers and viewers. They travel multiple times in a week, spend six hours working on their latest review, and finish editing their videos just minutes before they're supposed to go live, all to keep their readers and viewers happy, and because they love what they're doing with their job.

At the end of the day, video games may seem too nerdy or weird for girls to like or even have a small interest in, but they exist. Women are branching out and taking over the video game industry because they're tired of competing with men who don't feel like women could ever have an interest in video games or working in such a competitive industry.

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100 Instagram Captions You'll Want To Use Right Now

Quotes, lyrics, sayings, and other ideas for Instagram captions!

When it comes to Instagram we are often thinking about what to use as a caption for our photos that we take that we really want to post on Instagram. Sometimes we post the photo without a caption and sometimes we just use an emoji because we're stumped on finding a good caption to use for the photo. So we go the short route and just put an emoji as a caption for our photo. Well whether it is a selfie, a friend pic, group pic, or just need a caption for the photo, here are 100 captions to use for a photo. Some are lyrics, some are quotes, and some are just a quick caption to use on your photo. Also here are some accounts that are worth following:
















Here are Quotes To Use As A Caption/ Lyrics To Use As A Caption/ Quick Little Sayings To Use As A Caption: for your Instagram photo that you wish to post!

1. Life goes on, with or without you.

2. Don't Worry Be Happy! Bob Marley

3. Be Happy.

4. Be Confident.

5. Be Positive.

6. Don't be a liar, everyone hates a liar.

7. Chillin' with my peeps.

8. Go big or go home.

9. What's the deal?

10. The most important thing is to enjoy your life – to be happy – it's all that matters.

11. Life is not a problem to be solved, but a reality to be experienced.

12. Life is a gift.

13. You couldn't handle me even if I came with instructions.

14. Forgive, yes. Forget, never.

15.There's a hole in my heart where you used to be.

16. I don't need any part-time people in my life.

17. Get the gist.

18. Boy, it's the 21st Century, get with the program.

19. Hey, I just met you, this is crazy!

20. I woke up like this.

21. Keep smiling because life is a beautiful thing and there's so much to smile about.

22. Beauty is power, a smile is its sword.

23. Last day of class!

24. I donut care!

25. Got my donut and coffee today.

26. Happy as a clam

27. Beach days are the best!

28. A friend will always make you smile, especially when you don't want to…

29. Always classy, never trashy, and a little bit sassy.

30. If only we could turn back time...

31. With you, I forget all my problems. With you, time stands still.

32. Life's a climb, but the view is great.

33. "Ohana, means family, family means no one gets left behind or forgotten." — "Lilo & Stitch"

34. We come to love by not finding the perfect person, but by learning to see the imperfect person perfectly.

35. If I ever write a story about my life, don't be surprised if your name appears a billion times.

36. She's got that red lip, classic thing going on.

37. I don't know what's tighter, our jeans or our friendship!

38. Best friends make good times better and hard times easier!

39. Not sure what I did to deserve you as my best friend :)

40. I don't need your approval to be me.

41. So call me? Maybe?

42. "I am who.I am, I am what I am, I do what I do and I ain't never gonna do it any different. I don't care who likes it and who don't." — Buck Owens

43. Take me as I am, or watch me as I go.

44. "Kiss me under the light of a thousand stars." — Ed Sheeran

45. Cause you're a sky full of stars — Coldplay

46 . I keep dancing on my own — Calum Scott

47. Can't keep my hands to myself — Selena Gomez

48. I just want to look good for you — Selena Gomez

49. Kill em with kindness — Selena Gomez

50. I am not perfect. I make mistakes. But when I say sorry… I mean it!

51. Me? Weird? Please! I am limited edition!

52. Turn that frown upside down.

53. Smile, it's the best thing a girl can wear!

54, Stay true.

55. Laughing is the best medicine you can ever get!

56. "You're the king, baby I'm your queen." — Taylor Swift

57. Best Friends Forever!

58.Throwing it back to the good ole days!

59. Ugg Life.

60. I know you like, first-name-basis.

61. *Sends selfie to NASA cuz I'm a star*

62. Basic white girl.

63. Frisky Friday!

64. My thoughts are stars that I cannot fathom into constellations. — "The Fault In Our Stars"

65. "Maybe our okays will be our infinities." — The Fault In Our Stars

66. So hold onto me because I'm a little unsteady — Unsteady

67. This has got to be the best day of my life.

68. She's the beauty and he's the beast.

69. "All our dreams can come true if we have the courage to pursue them." — Walt Disney

70. "If you can dream it, you can do it." — Walt Disney

71. "Hakuna Matata, it means no worries for the rest of your days." — "The Lion King"

72. "The past can hurt. But the way I see it, you can either run from it, or learn from it." — "The Lion King."

73. "Remember you're the one who can fill the world with sunshine." — "Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs"

74 ."The flower that blooms in adversity is the most rare and beautiful of all." — "Mulan"

75. "You don't have time to be timid. You must be bold and daring." — "Beauty and the Beast"

76. "All it takes is faith and trust." — "Peter Pan"

77. "A little consideration, a little thought for others, makes all the difference." — "Winnie the Pooh"

78. "If you focus on what you left behind, you will never be able to see what lies ahead." — "Ratatouille"

79. "Life isn't about finding yourself. Life is about creating yourself." — George Bernard Shaw

80. "A true hero isn't measured by the size of his strength, but by the strength of his heart." — "Hercules"

81. "Life's not a spectator sport. If watchin' is all you're gonna do, then you're gonna watch your life go by without ya." — "The Hunchback of Notre Dame"

82. "The things that make me different are the things that make me ME." — "Winnie the Pooh"

83. "Giving up is for rookies." — "Hercules"

84. "Happiness is the richest thing we will ever own." — Donald Duck

85. "Change is good." — "The Lion King"

86. "In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years." — Abraham Lincoln

87. "An unexamined life is not worth living." — Socrates

88. "Clouds come floating into my life, no longer to carry rain or usher storm, but to add color to my sunset sky." — Rabindranath Tagore

89. "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched, they must be felt with the heart." — Helen Keller

90. "The sky broke like an egg into full sunset and the water caught fire." — Pamela Hansford Johnson

91. "Put your heart, mind, and soul into even your smallest acts. This is the secret of success." — Swami Sivananda

92. "Today I choose life. Every morning when I wake up I can choose joy, happiness, negativity, pain... To feel the freedom that comes from being able to continue to make mistakes and choices. Today I choose to feel life, not to deny my humanity, but embrace it." — Kevyn Aucoin

93. "Nothing is impossible, the word itself says 'I'm possible'," — Audrey Hepburn

94. "Keep your face always toward the sunshine and shadows will fall behind you." — Walt Whitman

95. "My power's turned on, starting right now I'll be strong." — Rachel Platten

96. "Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared." — Buddha

97. "Let your life lightly dance on the edges of Time like dew on the tip of a leaf." — Rabindranath Tagore

98. "I hated every minute of training, but I said, 'Don't quit. Suffer now and live the rest of your life as a champion.'" — Muhammad Ali

99. "Why don't you be you, and I'll be me." — James Bay

100. Life is like a camera, we focus on the positives and develop from the negatives.

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Age Doesn't Matter, You Should Still Play Minecraft

How my 10-year-old daughter has me playing her favorite game…


Minecraft is an online game by a company called Mojang where players can build and interact with cube-based worlds to create and play however they wish to.

My daughter has become obsessed with Minecraft. So obsessed in fact that she has dragged me into it. I've got an account now and worlds and we play in creative so we can build stuff. It's all rather odd to me, but she loves being able to play together, so we do. Here are my reasons you should be playing Minecraft no matter your age.

1. You Can Create Interesting Worlds

Apparently, there are tons of different types of worlds that can generate in Minecraft. You could play in the snow, a grassy plain, or even a huge forest of trees. The choices are endless.

2. You Can Build Tons Of Cool Stuff

We've made a house, a zoo, and are working on a massive treehouse in the sky. The possibilities here are endless too.

3. There Is A Huge Following/Community

So many people play and know Minecraft that if you get stuck on something like I did, you can always look it up and learn how to get that function to work exactly right when you need it to.

4. It Is A Great Way To Spend Time Together

Families can spend a bit of time working on a Minecraft world together. You'll get a chance to talk to and connect with your kid and they get to play a favorite game. It's a win-win situation.

5. It Is Actually A Whole Lotta Fun

This is pretty self-explanatory, but I have had a blast learning how to play Minecraft from my 10-year-old. She has just recently stopped calling me a noob (new player) every five minutes, but if I do something really silly in the game she still says that it was a noob moment.

Overall, if you've never played Minecraft, you should try it out just once to see all the great things this game can do.

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