To The Girl Dating My Best Friend
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To The Girl Dating My Best Friend

Hello, it's me your boyfriend's best friend.

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To The Girl Dating My Best Friend

Hello, it's me your boyfriend's best friend. I just want to start off by telling you that you're one of the luckiest girls in the world. My best friend is an amazing guy who will always be there for you. He and I have been best friends since the seventh grade, he is honestly the greatest guy. He was always there for me throughout the years when I myself had boy troubles. Even when we chose to go to separate high schools, I went to the traditional high school, he picked a trade high school, we remained close. I even became close to all his friends in his school. They were just like him; they all cared about me and my happiness.

Everything changed when you walked into his life March of senior year. He started to ignore me and so did his friends. He never once mentioned a new girl in his life to me, until I saw "in a relationship with" on Facebook. I had to find out through Facebook about you, my best friend didn't even feel the need to tell me himself. I was happy that he found love; I was happy that a girl found him. What I wasn't happy about and I'm still not happy about is, you don't let him talk to me. He ignores my texts because of you, he threw away a six-year friendship because of you. I lost the person that I went to with all my problems. I have no one to go to, I don't have a guy best friend to go to with my guy problems. I'm not a threat to your relationship, I don't have feelings for your boyfriend, I will not steal your boyfriend. If I really wanted him I probably could have had him. I'm happy you both have each other but who do I have now? No one. It has almost been a year and he and I haven't had a good conversation since. Even when he had to take me to his prom in May since he asked me before you two were dating and I had a dress already. That prom night was terrible; he barely spoke to me and wouldn't dance with me. Luckily I was friends with some girls at his school who hung out with me and danced with me. All I wanted that night was to have my best friend back for a few hours but you still somehow managed to mess that up.

As much as I want him to be happy, I do secretly wish you guys will break up. I don't like girls who make their boyfriends stop being friends with females who have zero interest in them. We are not a threat to your relationship; if anything I would have loved to have a friendship with you. My best friend is too nice and faithful to cheat on you, you have nothing to worry about. But thank you for showing me what type of girlfriend I will never be; I couldn't rip a guy away from a best friend. Once again, appreciate him and please don't hurt him.

Sincerely,

The girl who was your boyfriend's best friend

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