I'm The Girl Who Believes That College ISN'T Supposed To Be The Best 4 Years Of Your Life

I'm The Girl Who Believes That College ISN'T Supposed To Be The Best 4 Years Of Your Life

There are many events that will be better than your four years in college.

Yes, I'm the girl who believes that college won't be the "best four years" of my life.

I don't want it to be the best four years of my life.

Why would I want the best four years of my life to be spent drained in a classroom worrying about my grades while also trying to get involved and make friends?

College is and can be a good time, but I don't believe it was meant to be the best four years of your life.

I hate that saying. I hate hearing people say that college is supposed to be the best four years of your life because there are many things more important than college that will make your life better.

There are many events that will happen in your life that will make college seem like a sad time in your life because you spent it partying or out all the time with people who didn't really care about you. Or you spent it sitting in your room studying night after night while all of your friends go out.

You also sit there and worry about money, you joke about being a broke college student, but that is actually your reality. You actually have to worry about it behind the jokes and to you, it is actually not very funny.

It sucks to be broke, it sucks to probably feel like you can't go out with your friends because of it so how does this make it the best four years of your life?

Oh, you say it's just a phase just for a few weeks your broke, but it keeps coming back and then it is no longer fun to be that joking broke college student. One of the events that will be the best part of your life is when you have that degree in hand, when you get your first job that is with your degree, and when you actually start getting to work and use your degree. These events will be one of the best parts of your life.

Don't get me wrong, I love college. But, I love it more for the education and the opportunities that I am given. I love it for the people I meet on a day to day basis that all come from different places and different backgrounds and although I love all of these things and I am so grateful to be getting a college education, I won't label it as the best four years of my life.

Of course, nobody has the same college experience. The college experience for each person is different and what they take out of it is different. I know I will take a great education out of it, some friends, and a degree that will take me further than I know.

But one thing I will not take out of it is that it was the best four years of my life.

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3. Animal house poster 

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(11/19) Contrary To Popular Opinion, General Education Courses Are Beneficial For STEM Majors

Going to college is an opportunity that not all people get a chance to do, so why not make the most out of it?


I have heard time and time again from fellow students in the STEM field that taking anything outside of their major is a "waste of time" and we should not have to take classes outside of science and math. I am a biochemistry major and I feel that taking general education courses have opened my eyes and taught me a lot.

Don't get me wrong, I love taking classes that pertain to my major and that will help prepare me for my career in the future, but I disagree that general education courses are a waste of time.

We are programmed to be very black and white, and that things are the way that they are "just because science says so" when you are involved in classes about things like biology, chemistry, and calculus. STEM majors gain a great deal of knowledge about how things came to be the way that they are today, but it is very black and white, in terms of thinking. When going into my general education classes, and learning about things that are more "grey" I find it very refreshing.

Learning how to think outside the box is something that I have learned in many different ways, in classes other than the ones that I need for my major. Taking classes outside of your major might seem like a waste to most people because the knowledge they gain they feel won't be used in their life ever again once they leave that classroom. But in my opinion the most valuable life lessons, I have acquired through taking a class I normally would not. There is a difference between learning something and being able to apply it to a real-life situation and memorizing a formula. STEM classes do not leave a lot of room for creativity or imagination, which is fine. But classes in other fields challenge the mind to think in ways that classes like chemistry, does not. It is nice to walk into a classroom and talk about what we are learning and bounce ideas off each other, which again is rare in STEM classes.

I am not going to lie, when I came into school my freshman year of college, I too was in the mindset that I was wasting my time and I just wanted to take the classes that I had too and get out of there. But, now being a junior I am grateful for the opportunities I have been given to be able to branch out and become more knowledgeable of other areas of study. I would never have taken a psychology class, or an economics class, if I did not have too, due to the fact that I was very narrow-minded in what I wanted to spend my time learning about. But I am so glad that my school forced me to get out of my comfort zone and learn about things that might not interest me at first, but will for sure help me out in the long run, and prepare me for the real world.

Taking classes like communication, oceanography, psychology, sociology, and economics I feel made me a more well-rounded student. I would not be the student I am today if I had not taken the classes that I have, because I expanded my knowledge way past just science and math. I realized that I have interests and succeed in classes outside of my major, which make me want to continue to gain knowledge. Finding out that I could succeed in a class that intimidated me at first, is one of the most rewarding feelings I have felt in college. To go into a class not being interested in the subject at all, and coming out wanting to take more classes in that field, is something that I find very valuable. It is important to get out of the bubble that you are put into once you declare a major, and put yourself out there because you never know, that one class could change your career path.

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Leaving college I will be a biochemistry major, yes. But I will be more than that, and I will have knowledge that was given to me from different classes and professors that will make me a more well-rounded person, and candidate for a potential job in the future. For that, I thank my college for doing because, without the push, I would not have the skills and information that I have acquired through the general education courses I have taken throughout my college career.

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