It’s a never-ending cycle. You meet a guy, he starts flirting with you, he makes the first move, says all of the right things, and that’s it. You’re hooked. You spend some time together getting to know each other a little more. You start learning more about each other, and you finally trust him. But then, you give yourself to him and then he’s gone. He’s done with you.

You were just another heart for him to fuck over.

This is for all my girls who have been led on.

It’s hard to find someone that you just click with. When you do, you don’t want to let them go. I’ve always been someone that gives more than the other person does when it comes to relationships. I’ve always been the one to put in most of the effort and fight for what I want. The only times I’ve been fought for was when it was to get inside of me. How romantic.

I want to be something more than a night of pleasure. But why am I not?

As the girl who is always led on, you question yourself. Your thoughts are composed of questions, “What’s wrong with me?” “Why did this have to happen?”

It sounds dramatic, but it’s true.

Instead of seeing us as the problem we need to understand that it was never us. It was always them.

These men must have some major trust issues if they can’t even just be honest as a human being.

What’s the point in lying to someone just to get in their pants? And why do we put up with it?

It’s hard to cut these men off too. Why?

Because we know that they will always come back.

For about a year, I was talking to this guy and we would talk, hang out, hook up, and then I wouldn’t hear from him for another month maybe. He would just pop up on my phone out of nowhere and I would always ask him that question that men just love to hear, “What are we?”

If I had a dollar for every time I asked that question and didn’t get a solid response, I could afford Mcdonald’s(side note: I really wish I had McDonald’s right now).

But anyways, he would always reply with, “We’re a thing, but I can’t commit because of the distance.”

After speaking with him recently, I’ve come to find out that he was just in it for the sex. SURPRISE!

So what did I do? I blocked him. People like him don’t deserve to be apart of my life and if you have a feeling that this man in your life is leading you on, here’s the best advice I can give you: CUT HIM OFF.

I know it’s easier said than done, but no man is worth chasing after especially if they’re just fucking with your feelings.

At this point you just have to do what’s best for your well-being. In the end, your feelings are the ones that matter the most.

I know it’s hard to let go, but there always comes a time where we have to. Let him go. He’ll think about it someday.