It’s been a rough couple of months since your recent boyfriend (now ex) has dumped you. You thought he was perfect—he fit your dream guy quota and everything—but for some reason, he didn’t think the same of you and now you’re in a rut. What do you do?
NOTHING BECAUSE YOU WERE NOT THE PROBLEM IN THE FIRST PLACE.
Did I grab your attention? Good.
That guy that you thought was “the one” was not him. Your Prince Charming is still out there. Who knows? He may be your next-door neighbor. But before you go banging on their door, here are a few tips to get you started.
1. Be yourself
I know, it’s cliché, but it works! There is nothing more attractive to a guy than a girl who is comfortable in her own skin. It not only shows that you are confident, but that you value yourself, and that’s sexier than any bra and panty set Victoria Secret has to offer.
2. Don't be afraid to make the first move
This displays confidence as well as drive. A guy likes a girl that can take charge and isn’t afraid to put herself out there, including getting his number.
3. The guy won't always be the go-getter
You’re at a bar, a club, a party. You have had your eye on a really cute guy across the room and he has yet to come over to talk to you. You keep telling yourself if he wants it, he has to come get it. You’ve made eye contact throughout the night and nothing. You’re about to leave and you panic. He hasn’t made a move and you’re freaking out because he’s so cute. The answer is simple: Go up to him. He will not bite. The worst that could happen is a) he’s actually gay, b) he has a
4. Dating apps are not the entire answer
Yes, you can find your Prince Charming online, but it’s not the safest bet. Catfishing is incredibly common, as well as dangerous, and I highly recommend staying off that path. Tinder and Bumble are fun confidence boosts but they won’t get you very far 95 percent of the time. Go out. Socialize. But always travel in a group. Your friends will not leave you hanging.
5. Use your friends
No, I am not endorsing bad behavior. However, I am a firm believer in networking. You never know if your best friend has been chatting up your future husband at the gym or if your aunt’s best friend’s cousin’s nephew is just waiting around for a girl like you. It could be a country hit if you really think about it.
Be fun, be flirty, and thrive! Maybe if you wink at that cute barista enough he’ll write his number for you on the cup. Or call security…