Dealing With Homesickness While Living 561 Miles From Home

Dealing With Homesickness While Living 561 Miles From Home

I consider myself to have 2 homes now. The first being my home in Maryland and my second being the College of Charleston. There's nowhere else I'd rather be studying and going to school but the doesn't mean I don't occasionally get homesick.


I was able to go home 2 times during the first semester and my mom and aunt had visited me once as well. This semester's a little different, we only have one break and I am not going home for it. It's going to have been 4 months without seeing my family, that's insane!!

I call my mom almost every night just to tell her about my day and hear about hers. We text occasionally but that call is the main time we're really able to visit each other. Each call is ended by my mom telling me how much she misses me. I even received a little "wish you were here" card from her this week.

My mom and I have both looked at flights for her to come visit, but we were unable to find a good time, so the reunion will have to wait! My dad is actually visiting next week because he's here for work, but we're making sure to plan some fun stuff in his free time.

I wouldn't say I get homesick a lot, but everyone reaches a point in the semester where school is becoming overwhelming, we're more tired than ever, and being at home right now sounds like heaven. What's getting me through midterms is knowing that spring break is just around the corner.

Even though I'm not going home for the break, a break from school will be much appreciated. Another thing also coming up is my birthday! My birthday has never been a huge celebration, I prefer to do to something small for it. But it's going to be my first birthday not at home. I know my mom has a nice care package coming my way which I'm really excited about!

What helps me when I miss home is remembering that my family is just a phone call away! It's amazing how close and connected you can feel to someone while on the phone when in reality you're over 500 miles apart.

Social media is another way I stay connected with my family. We're all connected on Facebook and keep up with each others' posts.

I love attending the College of Charleston and living in this beautiful city but I also look forward to summer where I will be able to spend a lot of time with my family at home.

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5 Perks Of Having A Long-Distance Best Friend

The best kind of long-distance relationship.

Sometimes, people get annoyed when girls refer to multiple people as their "best friend," but they don't understand. We have different types of best friends. There's the going out together best friend, the see each other everyday best friend and the constant, low maintenance best friend.

While I'm lucky enough to have two out of the three at the same school as me, my "low maintenance" best friend goes to college six hours from Baton Rouge.

This type of friend is special because no matter how long you go without talking or seeing each other, you're always insanely close. Even though I miss her daily, having a long-distance best friend has its perks. Here are just a few of them...

1. Getting to see each other is a special event.

Sometimes when you see someone all the time, you take that person and their friendship for granted. When you don't get to see one of your favorite people very often, the times when you're together are truly appreciated.

2. You always have someone to give unbiased advice.

This person knows you best, but they probably don't know the people you're telling them about, so they can give you better advice than anyone else.

3. You always have someone to text and FaceTime.

While there may be hundreds of miles between you, they're also just a phone call away. You know they'll always be there for you even when they can't physically be there.

4. You can plan fun trips to visit each other.

When you can visit each other, you get to meet the people you've heard so much about and experience all the places they love. You get to have your own college experience and, sometimes, theirs, too.

5. You know they will always be a part of your life.

If you can survive going to school in different states, you've both proven that your friendship will last forever. You both care enough to make time for the other in the midst of exams, social events, and homework.

The long-distance best friend is a forever friend. While I wish I could see mine more, I wouldn't trade her for anything.

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Sadly, There's No Cure For Homesickness

The only exception is actually going home but you can't always do that when you're in college.


Almost every college kid goes through a small period when they are homesick -- when you've been away from your home for some time and you start to miss it. It doesn't just have to be your physical home; it can be the people that feel like home, like parents, siblings, or pets.

Before my sister and I were born, my parents knew right off the bat that they wanted to have a very open relationship with their kids. Thankfully, they followed through with this goal. My family is the most important thing to me but that all has to do with this open relationship and the welcoming environment my parents created for my sister and me. Considering the fact that even when I lived at home I would still call my mom at least three times a day while she was at work, I knew I would definitely face homesickness. But I am also a pretty independent person so I didn't think my homesickness would be that bad. And it isn't. If you think a "but" is coming, then you're right. Usually, bad things happen in life. That's how life is but typically the bad things are spread out and sprinkled throughout the year. College is so different. In college, everything bad happens at once. You could have strep, a test, and have your boyfriend break up with you all in the same day. Everything is dramatized in college. It's the first time you are truly living on your own so everything feels heightened. That is why feeling homesick is so much worse in college. Not only are you homesick but you've got three tests and a cold. Then, you just find yourself silently crying in your dorm room thinking about every little inconvenience that has ever happened to you while your roommate is in the bed over watching Netflix.

I am somewhat lucky because I attend college in the same state that I have lived in my whole life so my house is just a (6-hour) car ride away. Not everyone is lucky enough to be able to just drive home. I am jealous of the many people at my university who can. The best way to get through it is to just remain positive, call your parents, and think about how happy you will be when that next break comes. Being homesick is probably one of the worst feelings but don't let it bring you down because then you can end up missing out on some amazing opportunities that college has to offer. Also, don't be afraid to talk about it with your friends. That is what they are there for; they are there to help you get through the tough times and be a shoulder to lean on when you need it most. Everyone gets homesick at some point so do not feel like you are the only one. It feels awful but don't let it ruin your college experience because college is what you make of it.

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