Love is a beautiful thing. It comes in all shapes, sizes, and variations. However, what is the first thing you think of when you hear the word "love?" For a lot of people, it's all about the boyfriend they have at the time or even the spouse they may have. But what about your friends? Those people came first into your life and showed you what caring, loving, and fun people looked like. They have helped guide and shape you into who you are today.

I personally could not imagine my life without my friends in it. They have pushed me to be the best version of myself, have given me my favorite memories, and have made me laugh until I almost pee myself. They mean the absolute world to me, and I am so beyond thankful for them.

These people will hold your hand through life, and also shove you out of your comfort zone. Throughout all of life, they will tie your hair back after a long night out, pick you up to get fast food at midnight, or be one phone call away when you can't get to them fast enough. You will laugh, cry, celebrate, struggle, dance, and grow together. You will call them your best friends, bridesmaids, and even sisters.

People make us feel whole. As humans, we need to feel other's love and support. It's a natural thing. However, don't find your identity in a significant other. Focus on yourself first and then the right one will come along. You truly cannot love someone else in the way that you should unless you love yourself first. Now, this is not to say you cannot grow together, but would you want to give someone your all who isn't ready to give you their all back? Keep that in mind and make strides to get to know yourself so that you can be the best you in a relationship.

Focus on the fun things in life and where you are at the moment. Find your passions and prioritize what makes you happy. You will thank yourself later for it.

Even if it does not bring back the best of memories, also appreciate where you were and where you are now. Life gives us people in each different season for different reasons. Be thankful for the lessons you have been taught and for the people who have stayed in your life for so long.

So this Valentine's Day, don't worry about not having a boyfriend. That's not what it's all about. Do not stress over being "alone" because, my friend, you are not. You never were. Appreciate the people that are in your life and that do care for you. Celebrate all of the love in your life no matter what that looks like.

Guys come and go. True friends do not. You are loved more than you could imagine, cared for more than you think, and have touched more lives than even fathomable.

Like I said before, significant others are great, but don't ever forget about your girls.