To My Future Little Who I Love So Much Already

To My Future Little Who I Love So Much Already

Our friendship will grow into such an irreplaceable sisterhood that will last a lifetime.

Little bit,

I love you so much already. I'm not sure who or where you are, but I can truthfully say I am so incredibly excited to meet you.

You probably think I'm cheesy for writing this to you, but last year I wrote one for my big. So in order to keep the family tradition going, here's yours.

Little, I cannot wait to make the best, worst, funniest, happiest, and craziest memories with you. Our friendship will grow into such an irreplaceable sisterhood that will last a lifetime. From boy issues, to karaoke nights, to nights crying in the library over our classes, to dinner dates at the dining halls (and escaping to off campus dining when we can’t eat here anymore), to sporting events, to just hanging out, to movie nights, our memories are yet to come but I know I will love every second of them.

I know that with Greek life and the college life, you will have many people enter and exit your life. It's just a rotation that everyone experiences. Whether it be your best friends, boys, or even classmates, I'm always here for you. Your fam is not one to leave you behind because we are all supportive of one another. That being said, let me introduce you to your fam!!

Your great grand big is incredibly smart. She is motivated and has the determination that will truly make her future bright. She is always there if you need to talk, and loves to be surrounded by her cutie fam.

Your grandbig is smart as well. She is a leader in anything she is thrown into. She loves to get things done and get them done the correct way. Her knowledge is endless, so never fear asking for help! She enjoys having a good time, and using sarcasm is something she does when you least expect it.

Okay so now your big... that's me! I will be there for you (que the famous Friends theme song..). But really. You experience a lot in college and whether we live on campus or are apart for the summer, I'm just a phone call away. I'll be your shoulder to cry on, your forever late night ice cream date, your karaoke partner (I love karaoke, so fingers crossed you do too!), your study date, and your best friend.

...But if there was one word to describe our entire fam, it’d be FUN! We all know how to make the most of any situation and seek out the best times. We’re adventurous, daring, outgoing, and rarely have dull moments. We’ll gladly show you what college is all about!

My hope for our big/little pairing is that it will be different that anyone else's. We will each have an incredible impact on each other's lives, and to know that God has placed you in my life already, without either of us knowing the path He's about to take us down, makes me SOOO anxious to meet you.

I cannot wait to spoil you with gifts, with random motivational texts, with love, and with wisdom. I hope you can trust in me because I will have your back just as much as I know you will have mine. I pray you share your greatest moments with me as well as your lowest moments.

We will be everyone's big/little goals. Our photos and Insta posts will show it but memories made, in the making, and to be made will prove it. I love you so much already.

See ya on the flip side lil nug.

With all my heart,

Your future biggie

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20 Fun Facts To Use When Introducing Yourself

As we embark on the semester, we are put on the spot in order to share interesting details about ourselves. This article discloses possible fun facts to tell others!

After experiencing my first week of classes, I have learned that every student needs a handy-dandy list of fun facts about themselves to tell other people. Many professors use the first couple of classes to learn about their students, so you may need to think about who you are and how you want to introduce yourself to your professor and classmates. We all have that one go-to interesting fact about ourselves, but sometimes you just have to mix it up!

1. My favorite hobby is...

What do you do in your free time? Personally, I love to stay active! I am a competitive Latin dancer and enjoy teaching and taking Zumba classes, going to the gym, and hiking.

2. I love...

Is there something, someone, or somewhere that you love? What makes your heart ache? What do you miss when it's gone? I can say that I love my friends because I feel my most confident when I'm surrounded by those who love and support me.

3. I look up to...

Is there someone you adore? Who mesmerizes you? Who do you wish to learn from? After watching "A Ballerina's Tale," I discovered Misty Copeland. In 2015 she became the first African American ballet dancer to become the Female Principal Dancer at American Ballet Theatre. Her passion, grace, and strength continuously motivate me to better myself as an athlete and an individual.

4. This art speaks to me because...

Coco Chanel said, "In order to be irreplaceable one must always be different." This encourages me to always follow my heart no matter what. I will never follow society's standards and norms because they do not define me. Chanel's saying definitely influences my character and lifestyle.

5. A funny and/or embarrassing memory of me is...

When you make others laugh they want to spend time and make memories with you! Don't be afraid to embarrass yourself. You will come off as down to earth, easy-going, and loyal.

6. My siblings or lack thereof influenced me by...

I can go on and on about my brother, who is 10 years older than I. We have opposite personalities and despite the age gap, we're quite close.

7. My pet(s) are my life because...

Only sad people don't like hearing about furry creatures, even if your pets are slimy and slithering creatures all human beings enjoy hearing pet tales!

8. I'm afraid of...

Your personality can be revealed by your likes and dislikes, including the things that you fear. I am terrified of change and the unknown, hence, the future is an anxiety-inducing topic to discuss for me.

9. I am the way I am because...

What have you gone through in life that has shaped you into who you are today? Remember to be open minded and allow yourself to open up to your peers. You may be surprised by how others respond and/or what others have endured as well.

10. The most unusual item that can be found in your dorm...

This is a fun fact about yourself that can easily liven up an awkward conversation. Think about your quirks and differences! One item I have in my dorm is my teddy bear, Peter, whom I like to joke is my boyfriend.

11. My dream job is...

In college, "What's your major?" is a widespread question. Nonetheless, skip the boring statement of "I'm majoring in..." and go in depth on what your dream job is (hopefully your major factors in to this dream of yours).

12. My hidden talents are...

Angelina Jolie is a knife thrower. Kendall Jenner can produce bird noises. Amanda Seyfried can crochet and knit. Is there anything special you can do? Some people have rare and unique talents, maybe you can think of some hidden talents of your own!

13. My guilty pleasure is...

I will say it a million times: don't be shy when introducing yourself to new people! I'll start by divulging my guilty pleasure: Youtube's family vlogging channel, "OKBaby"!

Check them out:

14. Some activities on my bucket list are...

This is an easy way to grab people's attention and find others with similar desires as you. Be an adventurer! Go out of your comfort zone!

15. Talk about your best friend...

How would your best friend describe you? What do you love to do with your best friend?

16. Talk about an accomplishment of yours...

You are incredible and have achieved so much! Reveal something that you are proud of — show off a little!

17. This one time at my job...

Bosses breathing down your neck. Curious coworkers asking personal questions. Cursing customers who never leave you alone. Your job can be filled with tons of hilarious situations that can easily entertain a crowd.

18. During the summer...

Any scars with stories? Any summer flings? Any lessons learned from the tanning too long? Now that summer is over, disclose memories that can leave positive impressions on others.

19. I volunteer at...

Do you do any community service? Share a funny moment while you were volunteering. What did you learn while there? Would you continue?

20. [blank] is meaningful to me because...

What do you appreciate in life? What brightens your day? What makes you fall in love? What does someone have to do to make you smile?

Finally, remember to be outgoing! Reveal that three-mile smile and open your arms to learning about others. Spread smiles, love, and happiness.

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I Didn't Join A Panhellenic Sorority

It's okay if you don't join a panhellenic sorority. Sometimes a different organization can turn out to be the best thing.


Before going to college I was faced with a dilemma, should I rush? I wanted to rush just for the social aspect, I thought it would be my best shot at making a bunch of friends. However, deep down I knew that greek life really wasn't me. I didn't want to do something if I wasn't one hundred percent behind it. There was a part of me that did want to be in a sorority but the other part of me really didn't want to rush. Let me be clear, I don't think Greek life is bad, I just think it wasn't for me. I talked to my brother and sister-in-law about this because they both were in Greek life at the college I attend now; they told me that they didn't think I would like it either.

What my brother and sister-in-law told me that I might like was, a Christian sorority called Sigma Phi Lambda. When they described it to me it seemed like exactly what I was wanting. As soon as I got to college I sought them out; and I went to their recruitment nights. I loved it! It was exactly what I was looking for. I ended up joining. This sorority brought me an amazing group of friends! Most importantly, I have joined the perfect sorority for me! A few things I liked most about Sigma Phi Lambda was the people were so welcoming, it was more low key and laid back, I was still able to have a big and a "Pham", we still did lots of sorority things whilst also having activities that strengthened us on our walks with the Lord, and I gained so many sisters that I now have strong relationships with. Sigma Phi Lambda gave me so many friends and something to be involved in on campus. They gave me somewhere to belong and I am so glad I chose to join them.

Rushing may be exactly what you need when you go to college, but if it's not that is okay. Just join something that makes you happy. Join an organization that helps you grow and surrounds you with people that you want to be around. I promise when you get to college that there is an organization for just about everything, find the one that fits you. No matter what you choose I promise it's good. Just make sure you choose what is right for you.

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