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Carrying The Weight Of The World Isn't As Bad When You Have Friends There To Help You

Thank you for sticking with me through all the craziness I put us through.


There are over 7 billion people in this world and I am a firm believer that certain people were made just for you.

No, I am not talking about the man or woman you are going to marry, I am talking about friends.

These people come into your life unannounced and out of nowhere and end up changing it forever.

When people say that the love of your life comes when you least expect it, well, your friends do the same thing. The difference though between your friends and the person you might be currently dating is that your friends are not going anywhere.

Boys come and go, but friends are forever.

These are the people who will drop anything they are doing just to be there for you. No matter what, they have your back and you have theirs. I owe a lot to my friends and all they have done for me. Without them, I honestly would not be where I am today or the person I am today.

My friends have made me stronger and pushed me so I could reach my full potential. They have been there for me when I was at my breaking point, and they have been with me for when I was my happiest.

It is those times when the world feels as if it is crushing me that my friends truly show how much they care about me.

The late-night phone calls that consist of only crying or the long car rides filled with deep conversations are here to prove this. No matter how big or serious a fight you get into with your friends, it will never change the fact that they will always care about you. Months or years apart might be good for your relationship with them, but you always find your way back to each other.

I want to personally thank all the friends in my life for getting me to where I am today. You may have to physically carry me sometimes, but you were always there. Thank you for coming into my life. I love you all.

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An Open Letter To My Unexpected Best Friend

You came out of nowhere and changed my life for the better.

“It's so amazing when someone comes to your life and you expect nothing out of it, but suddenly, there right in front of you is everything you ever need."


Dear Unexpected Best Friend,

You were the person I never thought I would speak to and now you are my very best friend. You came out of nowhere and changed my life for the better. I can't thank you enough for everything you have done to shape me into the person I am today. You've taught me what it means to be selfless, caring, patient, and, more importantly, adventurous.

You don't realize how much better my life has become and all because you came out of nowhere. I didn't see you coming. I just saw you on occasion, and now I can't see my life without you in it. It's funny how life works itself out like that. Our unexpected friendship filled a hole in my life that I didn't know existed.

I don't even remember what life was like before you came along; it most likely had a lot less laughter and spontaneity than it does today. I can call you about anything and you would drop whatever you're doing to help me in any situation. You know when I need encouragement. You know when I am at my best and when I am at my worst. You always know exactly what to say.

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I couldn't have found a better friend than you if I tried. We balance each other out in the best way possible. You are most definitely the yin to my yang, and I don't care how cliché that sounds. Because of you, I've learned to stop caring what people think and to do my own thing regardless of any backlash I might receive. You are my very favorite part of what makes me who I am to this day.

It's as if I wished up a best friend, and poof — you appeared right in front of me. I am so beyond blessed to have you and I wouldn't trade the world for all our memories. Thanks for coming out of nowhere.

Love you forever and a day.

Cover Image Credit: Lauren Medders

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10 Fun Things You Should Do With Your College Friends Before Summer

Before your friend from New York heads back home, grab her and enjoy her company while you can.



1. Go on a shopping spree for summer clothes

2. Try out a new restaurant

3. Get matching tattoos (or henna if this is too extreme)

4. Get piercings together

5. Go bowling with a group of friends

6. Go skydiving

7. Go explore a zoo

8. Go on a hiking trail

9. Plan out a weekend to meet over the summer

10. P-A-R-T-Y!!

In college, you meet people from all over the world. Though when you become best friends with those people it is hard to say goodbye when the college year ends. Hopefully, these ideas will help you say goodbye easier (it will definitely be hard but at least you have these memories to hold on too)!


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