To My Friend Going Through A Breakup
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To My Friend Going Through A Breakup

It is important that you know how loved you are, not only by me, but by everyone around you.

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To My Friend Going Through A Breakup
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Please know that I am here.

From the moment that I heard what you were going through I have only been able to hope that you are okay, well as okay as you can be. Every breakup is different, with different people, circumstances and feelings involved, so it does not seem appropriate to offer advice. But it is important to know that you have people out there supporting you in whatever way you need. Knowing that in the long run this breakup that hurts in the moment is only one stop on the way to finding the right guy who will share in your happy ending.

Any distance, both figurative and literal, that lies between us doesn't matter, what is important is knowing this emotionally difficult time is not harming your well-being. In this moment, no matter circumstances, distances or any other challenges, I am completely here for you no matter what you may need. I will rush to your side for anything from anything to bring you ice cream or sad movies in the middle of the night to just holding you while you cry. We have endured extreme highs and devastating lows at each other's sides and hopefully there will be many more to come, as long as we are able to face them together.

The only thing that is important in this moment is that you know how loved you are, not only by me but by everyone around you. Even though it hurts right now, that hurt does not last forever, and you will emerge from this even stronger than before.

Love,

A friend

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