My First Year Freelancing Wasn't Easy, But It Taught Me So Much

My First Year Of Freelancing Wasn't Easy, But It Taught Me So Much

Everyone faces high points and low points, but I learned something every step of the way.


I can't believe it's been one year since I left my place of full-time employment to turn into a freelancer. This year has been full of high points and low points with the ups far-outweighing the downs. However, I'm still recovering financially, and I'm progressing forward, despite the fact that I've bombed over and again as a specialist and lost my greatest customer.

In the beginning, I wasn't planning on becoming a specialist in my field. I was simply endeavoring to leave a dangerous activity and there weren't any great full-time office jobs that interested me. I chanced upon a decent freelancing activity. Despite the fact that it made my calendar somewhat insane, I truly appreciated the work I was doing. I was with a small startup and I was on their marketing team, my job was to come up with marketing strategies and do research work.

I developed their social media accounts to grow the company's reach and establish their branding. I was working full time for them and I had a couple of different outside clients that I did some work for as an afterthought. I was getting more cash than I had ever previously, and things were going quite well.

Everything was going good until the company I was working with was shut down. As a startup, they weren't making a ton of revenue and our customer-base just wasn't growing fast enough.

I was completely shattered. It was only nine months that into my freelancing career and I lost my biggest client and source of income. Despite the fact that it wasn't my fault by any means. Regardless, I accused myself. To exacerbate the situation, I was in the process of paying my student loans, and I had to figure out a way to keep making payments — and fast.

Luckily, I got a client from a freelancing website. It wasn't the same number of hours as the startup, but it was enough to keep me afloat. The hours changed each week relied upon what they required, so it was a greater amount than your run of the mill outsourcing work, yet I was getting a charge out of it. I simply required more customers to truly begin making a benefit once more.

Soon after, somebody in my life had medical issues, and I was rationally settled up with my business for about a month. It's a long story and I won't go into any subtleties, but dealing with everything at once definitely wasn't an easy situation.

I was battling monetarily and inwardly, I invested a ton of energy in the emergency clinic and spent two or three weeks away from home to be with this individual, and I couldn't concentrate on developing my business and finding new customers.

My life was complete chaos. It didn't help that in order to make ends meet, I took on another customer that was certifiably not a solid match and the work wasn't what I was keen on by any means, so it added more pressure and dissatisfaction to my officially insane month. I was so frantic for work and cash that I began applying for data entry projects.

Around this time, I truly hit with an idea to start my own website to earn money for the long term though I was not good in technical coding, took a crash course for 45 days of PHP Language and end up creating my own website. At first, traffic wasn't going up and about working two to three months on the website completely, which covers website management, search engine optimization. I and my friend both work hard on the website and luckily, traffic has started to go up.

Despite all of the hardships I've faced, I wouldn't trade my experience freelancing for the world, and I've truly become a better person for it.

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11 Things You'd Only Understand If You're Spending Your Summer Making Money

"I can't, I have work."

There are two types of people in this world, those who will actually get to enjoy their summer, and those who will be trapped in the four walls of whatever place is giving them a paycheck.

If you relate more closely with the latter, here's some things you've definitely caught yourself doing/saying

1. "I can't, I have work."

This is your famous line until everyone gets tired of inviting you places because they already know what you're going to say

2. And if you're not at work you're either too tired to do anything after work

. . . or going to bed early to prepare for tomorrows shift

3. Having major FOMO when you're at work

Those beach Instagram posts get you every time, it's starting to feel like a personal attack

4. Somehow having off the only day there's nothing going on

why is it that on the rare chance you have off no one's around

5. Or if you have off you have a million errands

sometimes even days off aren't really days off

6. Wishing you actually had to work on days off

because you'd rather be making money than sitting around staring at the ceiling

7. You want to go shopping with all the money your making but all you wear is work clothes

(and pajamas) so what's the point!!!!

8. You don't get excited about Fridays

whats it matter! it's not a weekend if you're working!

9. You don't get the true joy of summer either

no tan for you, no beach trips for you, and absolutely no frozen margaritas for you!!

10. You feel like your bank account should have a much larger number than it does

It doesn't make sense that all you do is work but for some reason you're still not nearly as rich as you feel you should be

11. You run on coffee

But then again, maybe all that money is being spent on the coffee you need to survive each work day.....

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4 Things You Should Know About Your Local Waitress BEFORE Going Out To Eat

Did you know that we only make $2.13 an hour?


For the past two years, I've been a waitress at a couple different restaurants. Many times, I have given customers fantastic service, and they have given me a tip of $2 – $3 despite a $50 check, and some haven't given me a tip at all. Here's what I want you to know about your local waitress who sometimes doesn't get a tip.

1. We only make $2.13 an hour.

Yes. $2.13 an hour without tips. So we could work an eight-hour shift and only make $17.04 if we aren't tipped within that shift. Just think about this for a second. We make our living off of tips.

2. We have about a million things going on in our head.

Your waitress forgot to bring you a to-go box? Just ask again. She'll remember that she forgot and she'll apologize and feel bad about it while hoping her tip isn't affected, because it got pushed to the back of her mind when she went to ring in an order where someone ordered a burger with no onion and no pickle, but extra tomato and extra lettuce with ketchup and mustard on the side — Oh! and don't forget they want it cut in half because they're splitting it with their friend. And since they're splitting it, that means they need an extra plate.

3. If you're not ready to order when I ask you, please just tell me.

On a busy night when I have four tables at the same time, I have about 20-30 people to attend to other than you. If I have to wait for you to order, I'm standing at your table while table one has a check that's ready, table two needs a refill on coke, and table three's food is in the window. Please be ready when I ask, and if you're not, I have no problem giving you more time. I love serving people and I'm probably excited to serve you! You are welcome to ask me questions, but please make a timely decision.

4. We work hard up front, but even harder behind the scenes sometimes.

I may look calm and collected in the dining room, but I can assure you that I am not as calm and collected behind the scenes. Your drink may be empty, but someone else left the tea pitcher empty and now I have to refill that before going back onto the floor. Your check is ready, but I have to submit an order or else a party will not get their food. The ice bin is out of ice! I have to refill that and go to the back cooler to get more ranch dressing because that's empty too. So please be patient with your waiter! They have more going on than you can imagine.

After we close, we then have to clean the entire restaurant from the dining room to the bathrooms and everything in between. Salt and pepper are refilled, floors are mopped, and silverware is rolled, this can take anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour and a half depending on how busy we were that day.

These are just several things that your waiter wants you to know when you go out to eat. So when you call me over while I'm walking through the dining room, it really threw me off and possibly made me forget about something else I had to do. Let me assure you that nine times out of 10 your table is not the only one I am serving in the restaurant, so my undivided attention can't always go to you.

I truly try to give you my best service with a smile, because I genuinely love my job, but there are days when things are going on behind the scenes and I can't help that your baked potato with no sour cream came out with sour cream on it, but I'd be happy to take it back to the kitchen and have it fixed for you. I really do love serving our guests, and I try my hardest to be the best server in the building, but I would love if you would be a great guest as well. Respect me and the work that I'm doing. Sometimes it can be hard.

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