For My Sister As She Graduates High School

For My Sister As She Graduates High School

"Let her sleep for when she wakes she will move mountains."

I really feel like an old lady saying this, but I cannot believe how grown up my little sister is. She is now a high school graduate and is getting ready to go off to college. It’s crazy because I remember her when she was small. We were close from the moment she was born and still are. She is the person I have the most memories with.

I remember when we used to have “sleepovers” in each other’s rooms. Most of the time they were in her room, and I would run across the hall with my pillows and blankets so our brother wouldn’t see us and want to join. We would always start Full House with the hopes of finishing at least one episode, but I fell asleep before that every time. (We have all eight seasons of Full House on DVD and have probably seen every episode at least 10 times.)

The two of us also had an incredibly large American Girl doll collection and kept them all upstairs in one room. There were many weekends and days in the summer that we sat up there for HOURS playing with them. I don’t know how we never got bored.

We grew up singing and dancing together, both on an actual stage and in the kitchen. I can’t dance, but she always helped me do my best. And sometimes,she didn’t even laugh at me. Our most memorable performance to me was when we spent one whole day changing the lyrics from “I Want it All” from High School Musical 3. We changed it to “Jen Wants it All” to perform for our mom’s friend. (She loved it, by the way.)

Once again, I cannot believe that she is 18-years-old. And despite the fact that she is my little sister, she taught me so much growing up. She is definitely a role model to me.

She always studied more than I did and is crazily organized. I do not know how she did it, but I do know that it motivated me to make some flashcards and try to get my life together (sometimes).

She never lets anyone bring her down. When someone hurts me, it takes me awhile to recover, but I admire the fact that it doesn’t take her very long. When things don’t go her way, it makes her want to work harder. I hope someday I can be this way.

She is a great friend. She is honest and loyal, but never does anything she doesn’t want to. She has high morals and standards that others respect most of the time. People know where they stand with her, and I commend her for that.

I know that the end of this summer is going to be tough. Saying goodbye to my little sister for a while will not be easy, but I am so proud of her. I am proud of everything she has accomplished, and I cannot wait to see what she does next.

So Emily, as you make your way into a new adventure, I want you to know that you are an inspiration, especially to me. You are smart, talented, witty, and strong, and you are going to make an amazing impact on this world.

“Always remember, you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, smarter than you think, and more loved than you know.”

Cover Image Credit: Stacy Remark

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Because "pretty" is so overrated.

Nowadays, we put so much emphasis on our looks. We focus so much on the outside that we forget to really focus on what matters. I was inspired by a list that I found online of "Things I Would Rather Be Called Instead Of Pretty," so I made my own version. Here is a list of things that I would rather be than "pretty."

1. Captivating

I want one glance at me to completely steal your breath away.

2. Magnetic

I want people to feel drawn to me. I want something to be different about me that people recognize at first glance.

3. Raw

I want to be real. Vulnerable. Completely, genuinely myself.

4. Intoxicating

..and I want you addicted.

5. Humble

I want to recognize my abilities, but not be boastful or proud.

6. Exemplary

I want to stand out.

7. Loyal

I want to pride myself on sticking out the storm.

8. Fascinating

I want you to be hanging on every word I say.

9. Empathetic

I want to be able to feel your pain, so that I can help you heal.

10. Vivacious

I want to be the life of the party.

11. Reckless

I want to be crazy. Thrilling. Unpredictable. I want to keep you guessing, keep your heart pounding, and your blood rushing.

12. Philanthropic

I want to give.

13. Philosophical

I want to ask the tough questions that get you thinking about the purpose of our beating hearts.

14. Loving

When my name is spoken, I want my tenderness to come to mind.

15. Quaintrelle

I want my passion to ooze out of me.

16. Belesprit

I want to be quick. Witty. Always on my toes.

17. Conscientious

I want to always be thinking of others.

18. Passionate

...and I want people to know what my passions are.

19. Alluring

I want to be a woman who draws people in.

20. Kind

Simply put, I want to be pleasant and kind.

21. Selcouth

Even if you've known me your whole life, I want strange, yet marvelous. Rare and wondrous.

22. Pierian

From the way I move to the way I speak, I want to be poetic.

23. Esoteric

Do not mistake this. I do not want to be misunderstood. But rather I'd like to keep my circle small and close. I don't want to be an average, everyday person.

24. Authentic

I don't want anyone to ever question whether I am being genuine or telling the truth.

25. Novaturient

..about my own life. I never want to settle for good enough. Instead I always want to seek to make a positive change.

26. Observant

I want to take all of life in.

27. Peart

I want to be honestly in good spirits at all times.

28. Romantic

Sure, I want to be a little old school in this sense.

29. Elysian

I want to give you the same feeling that you get in paradise.

30. Curious

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To My Little Sister, Don't Wish For Time To Move Faster, Soak Up The Stage Of Life You're In

Live in the moment and you will come out having no regrets.


To my best friend,

Time goes by quickly, do not wish it away. Enjoy living in the moment you are in right now because you will never get it back. Stop wishing you were in college already because you have so much to live for right now.

I know all you want to do is get away from home and start over, which is normal because I wanted to do the same thing at your age. But as your older sister, and as someone who has gone through that stage already, I am here to tell you that it is not all rainbows and sunshine 24/7.

With the time you have left in high school, enjoy every second of it because eventually, you will come to miss it.

Graduation is just around the corner for you and it honestly freaks me out how fast time is going. And it only goes faster in college. As kids, all we wanted was to be in high school and be able to drive on our own and once we hit high school, all we want is to be in college. With almost being in college for two years, I can easily say that all I want is to be a kid again. We have been wishing our whole lives away since we can remember. Enjoy today.

I see so much potential in you and I am beyond excited for what the future has in store for you.

Many times, you have been the one to give me advice even though I'm the older sister and this shows how caring and loving you are. Life is going to treat you so well and it already has.

There is one piece of advice I must give to you though. Make sure to thank mom and dad and tell them you love them as often as possible. I know they can get on your nerves and may make you angry at times, but they have given us the best life. You will learn in college just how much they love us and how much they have given up just to make us happy.

You have a good head on your shoulders and I know life is going to turn out to be exactly what you wanted. Just don't wish it all away. Some of my favorite times were when I was a senior in high school.

I'm always looking out for you so don't ever think you are alone in this crazy world. Remember, I am just one phone call away.

I love you so much sis, you got this.

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