To My Boyfriend From The Girl Who Loves You To The Moon And Back

To My Boyfriend From The Girl Who Loves You To The Moon And Back

A Valentine's day letter to my boyfriend.

To my boyfriend,

I cannot describe how much I love you in a couple of words and 500 would never be enough. Valentine’s day will be here in a couple of days. If I had to try and write down all the reasons I love you it might probably fill a book. We’ve been together for almost five months, but it feels like years. I feel like I’ve known you for so much longer than I have and it’s crazy.

Your ability to make me laugh and smile even when I don’t feel like it is honestly a gift. As confident in my love for you, I know there’s a part of me that won’t want to send this to my editor. I love watching you play World of Warcraft or Rogue Traders with your friends and seeing your face light up with laughter. I hate missing you. I hate hearing you’re so angry you want to punch someone, but I’m glad I can talk you down from it.

As much as I hate hearing that I suck at playing a certain video game (NBA 2K14 for example), it’s funny seeing you say it just to agree with me then kiss me and tell me to try again. I love hearing you talk about your future plans and how you include me in them. I love how you brought me to a concert you weren’t really interested in, but I wanted to go so you went along. I love hearing you talk about your favorite video games as if I knew a single thing what you were referring to even though I’m completely lost.

I love hearing your comments on my addiction to watching Grey’s Anatomy or my thoughts on Once Upon a Time. I love how you check up on me, even if I say nothing’s wrong and I’m fine. I like poking your face until you laugh. I love the smile you make when I say, “Angry Jackson Avery face” when you have a focused look on your face that looks just like his. I love how you don’t judge my crazed obsession with all things Star Wars. I love how you take care of me even though I’ll swear I can do it on my own. I don’t like your strange obsession with fire, but the water bottle you burnt looks pretty cool.

I love the smile on your face when you steal my glasses just to give them back to me after I’ve kissed you. I love how we support each other with whatever our next move is (like a new job or achieving some long-term goals). I hate hearing about how you had a bad day and don’t want to go to work the next day. I hate seeing you sick because it actually makes me feel a little helpless.

I love lying down watching Netflix after eating dinner that we’ve cooked together and just enjoying your presence. In essence, I just love you and everything about you.

I really believe that God gave me you and I don’t know what I’d do without you.


The girl who loves you to the moon and back

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5 Reasons Why Dating The Football Player Is Overrated

Dating someone that society idolizes has no real benefits unless dating that person makes you truly happy

In every teen movie, the girl always falls for the popular football player guy. At some point in every girl's life, deep down, she wanted to be the girl to date the star player, but the movies never show you the downside of dating the football player.

1. Football Season Sucks

Unless you really like having alone time in a relationship, football season and the months leading up to football season sucks. Your boyfriend will constantly be at practice or in training. Practices and workouts and field days will become their life and you will have to mold your schedule to fit into theirs, and if you’re not very good at that then you probably won't be seeing much of your significant other unless it’s on the field.

2.God Forbid They Lose A Game

Losing a game is equivalent to the world ending. Be prepared to deal with a sad, emotional, mess of a human being. No matter what they say there is very little chance that their mood will change after they lose a game. I am all for being an emotional support system but one of the hardest things to do is cheer up a football player who lost their third game in a row.

3. Being Their #1 Fan Takes Work

I mean sitting on a cold bench for some hours takes real dedication. Sitting on a cold bench in the rain takes even more dedication. At that point, you’re probably going to start praying the game ends early. If you’re not a fan of football these will be the longest hours of your day. I’m sure you care about your boyfriend quite a bit but watching them run up and down a field will get old really quickly.

4. It’s Not Like The Movies

I am sure your significant other will win a few games, maybe he’ll win all of them but it’s not like the movies where you get to run up to the fence and they give you this big romantic kiss.

5. It’s Really Not All That

Just because you date a football player doesn’t mean that all life problems go away. Growing up watching TV shows and movies they all hyped the girl up to date a football player. Well, instead of dating a football player, be the football player. Dating someone that society idolizes has no real benefits unless dating that person makes you truly happy.

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Bringing My Relationship Back To "Us" And Realizing How Technology Stands In Our Way

When you begin to lose the "us" in your relationship, where do you even start?

After seven years together, my fiance and I finally had one of our toughest conversations yet. In the last seven years, we have been through a lot. Three years long distance, family trauma, physical and mental health trials and triumphs, etc. He works forty hours-a-week, and I work full time while also being a full-time student. In our hectic lives, we didn't realize that we were starting to lose "us." We come home after a long hard day and honestly just want to have some peace. We turn on a TV show and veg out for a while.

In the last few months, I had started to realize that something was missing, and honestly, I couldn't figure out what. One night while he was playing a video game and I was on my phone, it began to dawn on me. We no longer took time to concentrate on us. We no longer worked on strengthening our relationship.

As high school sweethearts, we have changed a lot together. I am definitely not the fourteen-year-old he first fell in love with, and I have watched him develop into the most amazing man I know. We had lost the part of our relationship that was full of life.

One night, we sat down and started discussing our relationship. It was hard. Really hard. We are a couple that no one wants to think has issues. One of our friends once told us that if we were to break up she would never believe in love again. The reality is -- no relationship is perfect. Relationships are hard. Relationships take constant work. If someone tells you it is easy, their relationship needs to have a reality check.

The question we came to was: "Where do we go from here? We love each other very deeply, but something needs to change. We need to focus on us, but where do we even start?"

The next night, we put the technology away. Phone, TV, computer... everything. We ended up playing board games by candlelight. Yes, I know this sounds ridiculously corny, but this was one of the best things that has happened to my relationship.

We are a society so caught up in technology that we forget to focus on what matters most. We forget to hug our loved ones. We forget to say "I love you." Our relationships with humans should be so much more important than our dependence on technology.

When you begin to lose the "us" in your relationship, you need to find the root of the issue. For us, it was our constant use of technology -- our lack of focus on each other, not the world around us. Even if you just take an hour out of your night to talk. Just talk. You would be amazed by what it can do for your relationship. Relationships take time, and every minute we spend concentrated on our phone or TV is time that we could be focusing on a loved one.

Remembering the importance of dedicating time to my relationship has already done leaps and bounds for my relationship and this is only the beginning.

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