5 Reasons Why Being The Grandma Of Your Friend Group Is The Best

5 Reasons Why Being The Grandma Of Your Friend Group Is The Best

You go Grandma!

My grandma and I have a lot in common: we both like to sit and watch game shows all day, we don't like a lot of noise, and we sleep the majority of the time. However, my grandmother is 87 years old and I am 21, so it's not at all socially acceptable for me to nap in a Lay-Z Boy for hours on end. For a long time, being called a grandma was uncool or meant that you were no fun (which is v. ageist but that's beside the point), but I've come to embrace the octogenarian in me, and my life has only gotten better with age. Here's why being the grandma of your friend group is definitely the best.

1. You definitely get enough sleep.

To the grandma friend, there is nothing worse than the idea of being out until two or three in the morning. Most of the time, we are in bed around nine or ten, but maaayyybbee midnight if we decide to make a rare appearance downtown. While most people are stumbling into class sleepy-eyed and yawning, you are basking in the glory that is getting 9-10 hours of sleep.

2. Your friends come to you for your sage advice.

Though your body is young, your mind is old. You've been around the block a couple of times, and since your retirement from your teen years, you've had a lot of time to reflect on what life is really all about. Plus you spend a lot of time at parties observing other people, so you know a thing or two about the human condition. Like an actual grandma, you are full of wisdom and war stories about when frat parties were real parties and not stand-around-and-talkies.

3. You get to wear sweatpants a lot of the time.

Grandmas do not give a crap what they wear; it's all about the comfort. As soon as you come home, it's bra off and fuzzy socks on, and it stays that way. You'd be hard pressed to find us out in a mini skirt and a shirt so tight that we can't breathe, because we've been there, done that, realized that you'll hook up with just as many dudes wearing sweatpants, and donated that junk to Goodwill.

4. You're always caught up on the latest TV.

While our younger friends are out meeting people and doing things, we are in bed watching the television streaming service of our choice. We can always tell you what happened on the The Bachelor or This is Us, because we've seen it all.

5. You get to be unashamedly yourself.

When you reach a certain age, you are allowed to say what you what, do what you want, and be who you want, because you've earned it. Grandmas don't give two you-know-whats about what people think about them, so the peer pressure/ FOMO is meaningless. It's very freeing. You go, Grandma!

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A Letter To My Best Friend On Valentine's Day

Because you are my ultimate Valentine.

To my beautiful best friend,

Warning: This letter is about to get extremely cheesy. I am talking four cheese lasagna cheesy. But no one deserves a love letter like this more than you do.

This Valentine’s Day, I want to express my love for you. On this wondrous occasion with which most people express their love to their significant other, I want to tell you, my best friend, how much I cherish our friendship.

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You are the ultimate love of my life. Boys have come and gone but you remain a constant; for that I am grateful. You have been there for me when my family could not be; for that I am grateful. You have been my backbone, my rock, and all those other clichés people use to describe the people they care about, and yet you have been so much more than that as well; for that I am grateful.

All my love this Valentine’s Day goes out to you, my friend, because you do not receive it enough. You have picked me up out of the dirt, brushed me off, and kissed my wounds more times than I can count, and I will never be able to thank you enough for that, but I am sure am going to try.

Thank you for the midnight cries. Thank you for the midnight laughs. Thank you for ordering way too much food with me and still just eating it all. Thank you for the advice, both solicited and unsolicited. Thank you for telling me what I need to hear, even when it isn’t what I want to hear. Thank you for the silly pictures. Thank you for the stupid inside jokes. Thank you for making bad decisions with me. Thank you for laughing with me and laughing at me. Thank you for the endless memories.

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More than anything, I want you to know that I love you. I love you. You are the family I get to choose, the one I go to when I have nowhere else to turn. You are the one I know I can always run to, whether we saw each other yesterday or haven’t seen each other in a year. You have played a part in molding who I am as a person, and I am so grateful for having such an amazing person affecting my life in such a positive way.

With all the love in my heart,

Your friend
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Blood Doesn't Determine Family

Blended families are just as much of a family as a traditional one.


If you look above, you can see that have a very large family on my mother's side. Between my grandparents, aunts and uncle, cousins and my own immediate family, we're at thirty-three members and counting. All branches of our family tree have busy lives, so we don't get to see each other as much as often as we would hope to. Christmas is the one time a year where we all finally get together for the evening. If you sat in on our holiday party, you may think that we have a couple screws loose, but there is no doubt that you would be able to feel the love radiating from room to room.

If you look at the picture I chose for my header, you can see all of the cousins gathered for our yearly picture. Dysfunctional, of course, but you can tell that love is there. Would it surprise you that out of our entire huge family, less than half of us are blood-related?

I come from a blended family, and I wouldn't have it any other way. Blood does not determine family to us. Love does.

Divorce can be a messy thing, especially when children are involved. Both my aunt and uncle had remarried into relationships that already had children. For the most part, none of us can really ever remember a time when we weren't considered family. We don't ever look at each other as not being related. We never will. Family to us is the love and support that is shared unconditionally between us.

As I said, you would never be able to tell we weren't blood-related unless I told you. Not only do we all look similar to one another (which again is odd, because if the marriages had never taken place, we would just have a ton of doppelgangers running around), but the love and passion that we radiate is unmistakable that we have a bond that will never be broken, let alone determined by biology.

Blended families tend to get a bad rap sometimes from some of the horror stories that can come from second marriages. Not only that, but some people still are stuck in the idea that the only socially acceptable type of family is one where the lineage is clear and concise. Although I can see where these people come from, I don't believe that because there is a lack of shared genetics between all of us, our love is any less strong.

Family is those who will answer a call or text late at night because you need someone to talk to. They're the ones that you end up staying at their house and talking for hours when you meant to make a quick trip in. They are there for you no matter the situation and always believe in you one hundred percent.

Traditional families have a lot of love too, undoubtedly. But please, do not tell me that my family is any less of a family of a family because of its makeup. We have just as much love between us as families with the same bloodline. Blood does not determine the amount of love and affection between all of us. It never will. We will love each other as much as a traditional family. We never look at each other as a mixed family, so please stop treating us as such.

I've said it so many times, but I'll remind you once more. Blood does not determine family, love does-- and I love my family more than life itself.

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