The First Day Of School NEVER Gets Easier — High School, College, Doesn't Matter

The First Day Of School NEVER Gets Easier — High School, College, Doesn't Matter

No matter how long you go to school and no matter how much you like school, the first day never gets easier.

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The first day of school marks the end of the summer for students and parents. Some students welcome it, it's exciting to get through a year successfully and even more exciting when you know you're one step closer to the career of your choice.

For other students, it is agonizing to think you can't stay up late, have to wake up early — and even have to be productive. And for parents, young and experienced (old), it can be positive or negative.

It either means their baby is growing up or they don't have to deal with their kids anymore as they did in the summer. Which sounds bad but we all know we drive our parents crazy.

I was expecting my first day of high school to be so exciting and a new start. Well, you don't always get what you want. Not only did I show up an hour early because no one told me zero-hour didn't start until a couple weeks in, but I also had no idea where I was or where I needed to be.

I know I'm not the only one to have a similar story, every year of high school there was always something, classes that jumped straight into homework, teachers I knew I wouldn't click with, and even having classes with people I couldn't stand could ruin the day.

College hasn't been any better. My first day Freshman year, I was terrified, as any freshman is. I didn't know where I was going, I didn't know anyone because no one from my high school came to Western, and I just remember crying once I made it back to my dorm. This year, my first class was great. I got too cocky and thought "I totally know what I'm doing." My shuttle at Lark, the apartment complex is impossible.

So many people couldn't get on and were late for classes, and at one point I even had to wait an extra half hour to catch the shuttle home. And there's always at least one professor who wants to start the quarter the first day. The buses themselves also are full by the time they hit the stops closest to the University and no one wants to wait that long to take a bus to get to school.

Now, just because some of the first days were hard, they can also be so amazing. Nothing is better than not only making it to your classes on time but also getting a view of your course load and being able to feel out if you'll like the professor. The new classes also mean new opportunities, and hopefully new friends.

The first quarter is always the best, you have more motivation to do your work in the fall quarter, than in the winter, or spring so the fall quarter grades usually look best.

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The Coach That Killed My Passion

An open letter to the coach that made me hate a sport I once loved.
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I fell in love with the game in second grade. I lived for every practice and every game. I lived for the countless hours in the gym or my driveway perfecting every shot, every pass and every move I could think of. Every night after dinner, I would go shoot and would not allow myself to go inside until I hit a hundred shots. I had a desire to play, to get better and to be the best basketball player I could possibly be.

I had many coaches between church leagues, rec leagues, personal coaches, basketball camps, middle school and high school. Most of the coaches I had the opportunity to play for had a passion for the game like I did. They inspired me to never stop working. They would tell me I had a natural ability. I took pride in knowing that I worked hard and I took pride in the compliments that I got from my coaches and other parents. I always looked forward to the drills and, believe it or not, I even looked forward to the running. These coaches had a desire to teach, and I had a desire to learn through every good and bad thing that happened during many seasons. Thank you to the coaches that coached and supported me through the years.

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Along with the good coaches, are a few bad coaches. These are the coaches that focused on favorites instead of the good of the entire team. I had coaches that no matter how hard I worked, it would never be good enough for them. I had coaches that would take insults too far on the court and in the classroom.

I had coaches that killed my passion and love for the game of basketball.

When a passion dies, it is quite possibly the most heartbreaking thing ever. A desire you once had to play every second of the day is gone; it turns into dreading every practice and game. It turns into leaving every game with earphones in so other parents don't talk to you about it. It meant dreading school the next day due to everyone talking about the previous game. My passion was destroyed when a coach looked at me in the eyes and said, "You could go to any other school and start varsity, but you just can't play for me."

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Looking back now at the amount of tears shed after practices and games, I just want to say to this coach: Making me feel bad about myself doesn't make me want to play and work hard for you, whether in the classroom or on the court. Telling me that, "Hard work always pays off" and not keeping that word doesn't make me want to work hard either. I spent every minute of the day focusing on making sure you didn't see the pain that I felt, and all of my energy was put towards that fake smile when I said I was OK with how you treated me. There are not words for the feeling I got when parents of teammates asked why I didn't play more or why I got pulled after one mistake; I simply didn't have an answer. The way you made me feel about myself and my ability to play ball made me hate myself; not only did you make me doubt my ability to play, you turned my teammates against me to where they didn't trust my abilities. I would not wish the pain you caused me on my greatest enemy. I pray that one day, eventually, when all of your players quit coming back that you realize that it isn't all about winning records. It’s about the players. You can have winning records without a good coach if you have a good team, but you won’t have a team if you can't treat players with the respect they deserve.

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