Finding a good pair of jeans is one of the hardest things to find in terms of clothing.

They never fit just right, sometimes you love them for a while and then look back and go what the hell was I thinking. It's basically like trying to find the right guy.

1. Some jeans fit you great in some areas, but not so great in others.

You can find the perfect pair of jeans - for your waist. Or you can find jeans that are the perfect length but don't fit your butt correctly. This is just like some guys. You'll find a guy that fits your life perfect when it comes to the fact that you love exploring, but he doesn't fit in with your family. Maybe you and him mesh extremely well with your work schedules and what you do, but you're not interested in the same hobbies. Maybe you think he's perfect for you, but doesn't mesh well with your friends. You need to find a guy that fits all areas of your life, just like you want your jeans to fit you well, all around.

2. Some jeans you love how they look, but they don't feel great or aren't comfortable.

Some jeans just aren't comfortable. They can look amazing, but they don't make you FEEL amazing, which means you'll never keep them around in the long run. You know when you like a guy and you find him so attractive but he doesn't make you feel good about yourself? Or he's always testing you or putting you in an uncomfortable situation (like not wanting you to see your friends or he'll make plans with you then end up ditching you)? He doesn't make you feel amazing, so why keep him around?

3. Some jeans you love, but the people you love don't.

I've always wanted a pair of ripped jeans, and my mother always complained they looked so dumb. "Why pay for something that has tears in it?" she'd always say. I thought they were so cool, but she hated them. Or, if you went through a phase where you thought a cute rhinestone on the butt pocket was a good look (talkin' about that '90s or early 2000's life, people), and other people thought it was so odd! The same can happen with a guy. You think he's SO cute or he's SO cool but when other people look at him and you together, they're like what the heck, why would she go for that? And, to be honest, sometimes these people know what's better for you than even you do.

4. Finding the perfect pair of jeans is one of the hardest tasks and no one gets their perfect pair the same way.

Sometimes you have to shop around for a while to find a good pair of jeans. Sometimes you find a pair in high school that you keep for your entire life. Sometimes you have to shop online and go through apps or stores to find a pair and even then, it's a huge risk actually taking a chance on them. Some people settle for a pair of jeans and are never fully happy (don't do this). Some people never actually find the perfect pair of jeans and find happiness in different articles of clothing. This is just like finding your guy. However you find him, if you find him, works just fine.

5. But when you do find your perfect jeans, hold on to them for life.

And I promise you, when you see the perfect pair of jeans and you put them on and every single inch of them fits perfectly and makes you feel beautiful and confident, don't ever let them go. Don't take advantage of them, don't neglect them and definitely make sure they make you feel good. Cherish them and take care of them and they'll always be the perfect pair. Just like a guy. When you find the right one, he'll always be there, make you feel great about yourself, encourage you, and give you confidence.

All in all, don't settle for less than the perfect pair of jeans, or guy, ever.