How do you know that you've found 'The One'? Getting to know someone and dating them isn't what it used to be compared to years ago, so how can you be sure that this person is the right one for you?

First off, dating requires a lot of time. Seeing each other, spending time together, actually going out on dates - it all requires time - time that a lot of people aren't interested in putting forth to someone who they may not know very well.

In the college setting, dating is a lot harder. Classes, greek life, sports, a job, and other extracurriculars take up nearly 100% of your time, so how can you find time to fit a functioning relationship in there?

Next, dating requires a lot of effort. You already have your jam-packed schedule with little time for someone else, but now you have to put forth the effort. Effort differs between taking the time to see them, to planning thought-out dates, and so on. The amount of effort you put in almost always directly correlates with how the relationship goes.

If you don't put forth the time and effort, how will you be able to continue this newly found heart-fluttering venture? If you can't find the time to dedicate to the one, how are you going to make it work? If you can't put forth the effort, how is it going to work out?

It's not about what you can or can't do, it's all about the other half, the other person. The person you're engaging in the relationship with has to understand what's going on with you, and you have to understand their life too. It's cliche, but relationships are two-way streets.

Relationships are hairy situations to be dealing with when there's a lot on your plate, but I've found that finding someone who can help you through and understands what you're going through is best. Emotions can't be bottled up forever, and you'll reach a breaking point. Without that special person to talk everything out with, how will you react when you reach the breaking point?

You have to trust them to help you, be there for you, and be 'The One' for you.