Life Falling Into Place

Life Falling Into Place

If you ever doubt this time of year and its potential, you ultimately have to learn to embrace it.

Well, it’s that time of year again. School is coming back in session, the weather’s getting a little cooler, and the aura of change seems to be hanging in the air. Despite these glorious changes, the sense of dread manages to overcome all of that. New school year can but mean new paths to explore, but also new ways to challenge and frustrate myself.

As a student for many years, I’ve found myself on both sides of the fence. There were times I couldn’t wait for school to get here, and others where I could have used more of a summer vacation. As I’ve gotten older, I’ve found I get more excited about school starting as the time approaches and for me it's not very hard to see why.

There’s something about the very event of a new school year approaching that is unlike a lot of other events I’ve encountered. It’s not a holiday by any means or cause for any celebration, but it sort of puts you in this moment of reflection. It’s a time to see where you’ve been, where you intend to go this year, and where to go after that. It’s almost like a check in with yourself to see. What am I doing? Who do I want to be? How am I going to get myself there? And, do I need to pick up more pens at Staples?

It might not be a holiday, but it is its own little victory in a way. Every year is to keep building on the past one, and the years go by so fast that you don’t even realize what you’ve accomplished. You’ve built up a base of knowledge, experiences, and goals that you wouldn’t have gotten anywhere else. Education is a gift, one that I do not take for granted as it keeps feeding my energy to come back for more knowledge.

Aside from the opportunity for reflection and education being a gift in itself, there’s also something about the season of fall that always excites me with its presence. The foliage changes colors in a chameleon effect from green to brown, yellow, orange, and red. And I feel a sort of similar transformation within myself. I’m reminded that I can change, and will change for the better. Even though I’m getting older, it means I’m just going to make different mistakes, not the same ones in my youth. And these mistakes will help me grow into my new self ultimately being blessings in disguise.

I am reminded with the cool air, but sunny sky that there are still new opportunities on the horizon for me despite my mistakes. I still know what I want, and who I am, even if I may lose sight of that sometimes. Good changes are always on the way within my reach. I just have to be patient and trust that all good things will come in their time.

I find a connection and love with nature that I can’t seem to feel in other seasons. I look around during this time and can feel that nature and I are one. We are both going through changes, hesitant of their arrival, but ultimately trust that things will unfold the way they are supposed to. It’s a beautiful feeling to feel such things. I hang on to that feeling of leaping, jumping, and being able to hold on to something good even if it’s the effervescent landscape of my surroundings.

If you ever doubt this time of year and its potential, you ultimately have to learn to embrace it. If you enter the year with just a little bit of curiosity, faith, and a determined attitude, you can’t go wrong. Everything will fall into place, and so will you just like the change of colors in the leaves. So, be prepared with those school supplies, proudly drink that apple cider, and relish in the thought of the holidays of Halloween, Thanksgiving, and yes, even Christmas, to come. It’s a wonderful time to be alive, and to be ready to take on the world ahead of you remembering that you can succeed with this time you are given.

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To The Friends I Won't Talk To After High School

I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.


So, for the last four years I’ve seen you almost everyday. I’ve learned about your annoying little brother, your dogs and your crazy weekend stories. I’ve seen you rock the awful freshman year fashion, date, attend homecoming, study for AP tests, and get accepted into college.

Thank you for asking me about my day, filling me in on your boy drama and giving me the World History homework. Thank you for complimenting my outfits, laughing at me presenting in class and listening to me complain about my parents. Thank you for sending me your Quizlets and being excited for my accomplishments- every single one of them. I appreciate it all because I know that soon I won’t really see you again. And that makes me sad. I’ll no longer see your face every Monday morning, wave hello to you in the hallways or eat lunch with you ever again. We won't live in the same city and sooner or later you might even forget my name.

We didn’t hang out after school but none the less you impacted me in a huge way. You supported my passions, stood up for me and made me laugh. You gave me advice on life the way you saw it and you didn’t have to but you did. I think maybe in just the smallest way, you influenced me. You made me believe that there’s lots of good people in this world that are nice just because they can be. You were real with me and that's all I can really ask for. We were never in the same friend group or got together on the weekends but you were still a good friend to me. You saw me grow up before your eyes and watched me walk into class late with Starbucks every day. I think people like you don’t get enough credit because I might not talk to you after high school but you are still so important to me. So thanks.

With that said, I truly hope that our paths cross one day in the future. You can tell me about how your brothers doing or how you regret the college you picked. Or maybe one day I’ll see you in the grocery store with a ring on your finger and I’ll be so happy you finally got what you deserved so many guys ago.

And if we ever do cross paths, I sincerely hope you became everything you wanted to be. I hope you traveled to Italy, got your dream job and found the love of your life. I hope you have beautiful children and a fluffy dog named Charlie. I hope you found success in love before wealth and I hope you depended on yourself for happiness before anything else. I hope you visited your mom in college and I hope you hugged your little sister every chance you got. She’s in high school now and you always tell her how that was the time of your life. I sincerely hope, every great quality I saw in you, was imprinted on the world.

And hey, maybe I’ll see you at the reunion and maybe just maybe you’ll remember my face. If so, I’d like to catch up, coffee?



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Forget The Beach, Do These Things Instead

These 25 thing won't break your bank this summer.


When you think of summertime you think of the beach. Going to the beach usually involves a lot of driving and necessary spending. These 25 activities are perfect for summer and will not break your bank.

1. Take A Walk.

As simple as it sounds, take a walk. Walk around your town or neighborhood; you'll be amazed at all of the little things you normally miss whenever you're driving by.

2. Have A Picnic.

Nothing says summer like a picnic. It can be at your local park or even in your backyard; just don't forget the watermelon!

3. Roast s'mores!

Everyone loves a good s'more, and the nostalgic smell of the campfire.

4. Make your own ice cream.

Ice cream is the perfect sweet treat to cool down on the hot summer day, but it can also break your budget. Homemade ice cream is fun, delicious, and will not hurt your wallet.

Here is a sweet recipe!

5. Blow bubbles.


I mean come on, who doesn't love blowing bubbles.

6. Watch the clouds


Whenever you're having a stressful or sad day grab a blanket and head outside and watch the clouds blow by. Make a game out of how many different shapes you can identify.

7. Pick some berries.


Find a local strawberry or blueberry field that allows customers to pick their own berries, it is a lot more fun than it sounds trust me.

8. Go to a minor league baseball game.

Hot dogs, ice cream, and fun memories are all to be had at a local baseball game.

9. Go to a parade.

Your town or a neighboring town most likely has a holiday parade on Memorial Day, 4th of July, or labor day. Go to these parades, you'll get to see all of the local youth organizations, support your community, and maybe even get some candy thrown your way.

10. Watch the fireworks.

Really watch the fireworks, don't try to take pictures that will come out blurry. Live in the moment.

11. Watch the sunrise

It may involve an earlier bedtime the night before, but it will be worth it.

12. Watch the sunset.

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13. Make a slip & slide

Tarp+water+soap=endless fun

14. Paint with bubbles.

This takes blowing bubbles to a whole new level. Add your favorite colors of food coloring to your bubbles grab a piece of paper and blow onto the paper; you'll come away with a masterpiece.

15. Make a bird feeder.

Give back to mother nature by building a bird feeder.

16. Catch lightning bugs.


17. Build a fort.


Let's be real, everybody loves a good fort.

18. Tye-Dye something.

Shirt, socks, blankets, it doesn't matter what it is as long as you have fun.

19. Read.

Go to a local bookstore, run your fingers along the spines of all the books and pick the one that calls to you.

20. Color with chalk.

Unleash your inner artist on your driveway and/or sidewalk.

21. Pick up litter.

Go outside and help clean mother earth, it will not only benefit you but everybody around you as well.

22. Have an absolutely epic water gun battle.

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Grab your friend, enemy, kid, neighbor, parents, whoever you can find and challenge them to a water gun battle.

23. Go camping.

Get back into nature in your backyard, or at a free campsite.

24. Volunteer.

Many of us have extra time in the summer so volunteer your time in your community!

(Dog walking at the local animal shelter is always a great choice)

25. Find joy.

Find what makes you happy, and never stop doing it.

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