There's No Such Thing As "Transgender"

What You Call 'Transgender,' I Call A Fantasy

Science has proven that the sex you're born with is your gender.


Caitlyn Jenner is not a woman. Grown men cannot "identify" as seven-year-old girls. Children are being forced into "hormone therapy"—their bodies are put at risk, and their very identities are attacked on the basis of being "inclusive," "curious," and "non-binary." According to Ryan T. Anderson, (Ph.D.),

"…the media wants to ignore all of the costs. They don't care about the damage being done to young people's bodies and minds—in fact, they celebrate it as a civil right. They don't care about the privacy and safety and equality of girls when boys who identify as girls can share female-only spaces—like showers and locker rooms and bathrooms—and when boys who identify as girls win female athletic competitions" ("The Left is Shunning Liberals With Concerns," 2019).

In October of 2018, the Trump administration did the American public a favor by defining the word "sex" as: "biological sex." Since then, the entire LGBTQ community has been in an uproar. Is their fury justified? Those who do "transition" undergo years of hormone therapy, and the evidence for its effectiveness and safety is shockingly underwhelming. According to transgender medical reports (by medical consultation company Hayes, Inc.),

"—the overall 'quality of evidence' for every category of treatment was very low" ("Casualties of a Social, Psychological, and Medical Fad," 2018).

Among concerns for emotional stability, truth, and peace in our American society—regarding identity and the transgender agenda—the concern for individual safety is also posing many questions. According to a study conducted by the Amsterdam University Medical Center (on the side-effects of those who had undergone hormone therapy),

"Stroke risk and heart attack risk among such trans women was pegged as more than double what it was among other women, while stroke risk alone was almost twice that of men. Deep vein clot risk among trans women was also found to be five times that of other women and 4.5 times that of men…" ("Transgender Hormone Therapy," 2019).

We need to be educated about the possible effects of individuals' decisions regarding their sexuality. Children—whether we admit it or not—are shaped by their parents' ideologies. Teaching a child to question the scientific laws that govern the very meaning of sexuality and identity will cause their own perception of truth and reality to crumble. We've already confused millions of adolescence through our suggestions of unexplored sexual exploitation. Today there are unmatched rates of rising, various mental illnesses present in America. Irrefutably, anxiety and depression rates have skyrocketed throughout all of society, but these statistics are especially high among members of the transgender community. What are the reasons for this?

"The rates of depressive symptoms (51.4% for transgender women; 48.3% for transgender men) and anxiety (40.4% for transgender women, 47.5% for transgender men) within the current study far surpass the rates of those for the general population" ("Anxiety and depression in transgender individuals," 2013).

The original source behind the disillusionment of an entire society is not easily explained. However, we can explain why biology proves that an individual's sex is determined by the chromosomes in their body. According to Dr. Michelle Cretella, M.D. (President of American College of Pediatricians),

"…transgender ideology holds that people can be born into the wrong body. It's simply not true. Human sexuality is binary…we know this because, in nature, reproduction is the rule, and human beings—we engage in sexual reproduction" ("How to Debunk Transgender Madness," 2017).

It's ridiculous that this biological, natural process needs to be re-explained. Obviously, society needs to accept the ultimate truth in every area, and freedom of speech should be protected regarding truth. Besides all of the biological evidence already provided, testimonies of the effects of transition should be considered when debating transgender issues. Former transgender woman Walt Heyer describes his initial transition this way,

"It's delusion. It's impossible…It's a mental illness" ("I Want My Sex Back," 2018).

Another transgender woman, Rene Jax, shares [his] testimony as well. He expresses strong regret for his choice. However, he claims that it's too late to de-transition now since he's been living as a woman for 30 years. He shares the painful process this way,

"Once I finally had the surgery I went, 'This was the wrong thing to do…' To cut off my male anatomy…I never had the full ability to have intercourse because the vagina that they make is so small. So, anytime I tried to have intercourse it was extremely painful and it wouldn't happen…These surgeries are nothing more than plastic surgery… [and] the phalluses that they create from female to males are really hideous-looking" ("I Want My Sex Back." 2018).

Women have two XX chromosomes, and men have an X and Y chromosome. This is how humanity has reproduced throughout all of history. We possess binary, genetic markers, according to scientific, biological, and observable evidence. Gender stereotypes exist for a reason: there are two genders, and everyone falls into one of two categories, which are defined by differentiable, obvious traits.

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No, I Don't Have To Tell You I'm Trans Before Dating You

Demanding trans people come out to potential partners is transphobic.

In 2014, Jennifer Laude, a 26-year-old Filipina woman, was brutally murdered after having sex with a U.S. marine. The marine in question, Joseph Scott Pemberton, strangled her until she was unconscious and then proceeded to drown her in a toilet bowl.

Understandably, this crime triggered a lot of outrage. But while some were outraged over the horrific nature of the crime, many others were outraged by a different detail in the story. That was because Jennifer Laude had done the unspeakable. She was a trans woman and had not disclosed that information before having sex with Pemberton. So in the minds of many cis people, her death was the price she paid for not disclosing her trans status. Here are some of the comments on CNN's Facebook page when the story broke.

As a trans person, I run into this attitude all the time. I constantly hear cis people raging about how a trans person is "lying" if they don't come out to a potential partner before dating them. Pemberton himself claimed that he felt like he was "raped" because Laude did not come out to him. Even cis people that fashion themselves as "allies" tend to feel similar.

Their argument is that they aren't attracted to trans people, so they should have a right to know if a potential partner is trans before dating them. These people view transness as a mere physical quality that they just aren't attracted to.

The issue with this logic is that the person in question is obviously attracted to trans people, or else they wouldn't be worried about accidentally going out with one. So these people aren't attracted to trans people because of some physical quality, they aren't attracted to trans people because they are disgusted by the very idea of transness.

Disgust towards trans people is ingrained in all of us from a very early age. The gender binary forms the basis of European societies. It establishes that there are men and there are women, and each has a specific role. For the gender binary to have power, it has to be rigid and inflexible. Thus, from the day we are born, we are taught to believe in a very static and strict form of gender. We learn that if you have a penis, you are a man, and if you have a vagina, you are a woman. Trans people are walking refutations of this concept of gender. Our very existence threatens to undermine the gender binary itself. And for that, we are constantly demonized. For example, trans people, mainly women of color, continue to be slaughtered in droves for being trans.

The justification of transphobic oppression is often that transness is inherently disgusting. For example, the "trans panic" defense still exists to this day. This defense involves the defendant asking for a lesser sentence after killing a trans person because they contend that when they found out the victim was trans, they freaked out and couldn't control themselves. This defense is still legal in every state but California.

And our culture constantly reinforces the notion that transness is undesirable. For example, there is the common trope in fictional media in which a male protagonist is "tricked" into sleeping with a trans woman. The character's disgust after finding out is often used as a punchline.

Thus, not being attracted to trans people is deeply transphobic. The entire notion that someone isn't attracted to a group of very physically diverse group of people because they are trans is built on fear and disgust of trans people. None of this means it is transphobic to not be attracted to individual trans people. Nor is it transphobic to not be attracted to specific genitals. But it is transphobic to claim to not be attracted to all trans, people. For example, there is a difference between saying you won't go out with someone for having a penis and saying you won't go out with someone because they're trans.

So when a cis person argues that a trans person has an obligation to come out to someone before dating them, they are saying trans people have an obligation to accommodate their transphobia. Plus, claiming that trans people are obligated to come out reinforces the idea that not being attracted to trans people is reasonable. But as I've pointed out, not being attracted to trans people supports the idea that transness is disgusting which is the basis for transphobic oppression.

The one scenario in which I would say a trans person should disclose their trans status is if they are going to have sex with someone and are unsure if their partner is attracted to whatever genitals they may have. In that case, I think it's courteous for a trans person to come out to avoid any awkwardness during sex. But even then, a trans person isn't "lying" if they don't come out and their partner is certainly not being "raped."

It is easy to look at the story of Jennifer Laude and claim that her death was due to the actions of one bigot. But it's more complicated than that. Pemberton was the product of a society that told him that disgust towards trans people was reasonable and natural. So when he found out that he accidentally slept with a trans woman, he killed her.

Every single cis person that says that trans people have to come out because they aren't attracted to trans people feeds into the system that caused Jennifer Laude's death. And until those cis people acknowledge their complicity in that system, there will only be more like Jennifer Laude.

SEE ALSO: Yes, You Absolutely Need To Tell Someone You're Trans Before Dating

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What It Means To Be Nonbinary, From 5 People For Whom It Is A Reality

The future isn't binary.


Until college, I had never met anyone who did not identify with the gender they were given at birth. When I met my first friend who was nonbinary, I had a lot of questions.

Not wanting to be disrespectful, I kept a lot of them to myself, but after reflection, I realized that I would rather ask questions and be informed in order to respect my friends.

Recently, when the topic of being nonbinary has come up in conversation, I realized that a lot of people I know ignore it because they are confused by it. I find that completely ignorant. There is no excuse not to respect how your fellow humans identify.

I decided to write this article to spread awareness and help people understand what it means to be nonbinary. I am not nonbinary myself, but I have many friends who identify as nonbinary. It is not a phase or a trend, and they are real people.

When you google "nonbinary," this is what comes up:

Everyone expresses gender differently, so that is why I decided to interview a few of my friends in order to get a full understanding. Gender, just like sexuality, has no right or wrong answer. It is a spectrum.

A few of my friends have taken new names, which means that the name that was assigned to them at birth is now their "dead" name.

(Some of the interviewees are not publicly out, so I am writing under a fake name for them!)**

I hope this has given you a better understanding of what nonbinary is. Just remember to be kind and respectful of one another.

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