I think one of my biggest regrets from my younger years was taking everything I had for granted. I never appreciated my parents to the extent that I do now; my siblings, my school, my house, everything.
As I'm halfway through my junior year of college, I've realized how amazing and important all of these things are to me and I've made a point to tell my parents this all the time. It might sound cheesy, but Thanksgiving is the time to appreciate all the things you sometimes overlook. Make a list of things you are thankful for and share them, like I am doing right now.
1. Family.
As I said before, this is the most important. Your family has been there for you your entire life -but they might not always be. So don't take them for granted.
2. Friends.
Your friends are the family you get to choose. Sometimes, we choose the wrong ones. But, as for the right friends, you need to keep them close.
3. Your school/education.
If you're in college, you're likely to know how expensive it is to attend. However you were able to fund being here, it's important to remember that not everyone has this opportunity in life. Stay humble.
4. Your pets.
We simply can't forget to cherish our furry friends this holiday season. They need you just as much as you need them.
5. Your health.
Oftentimes, we look over how lucky we are to have good health. We don't always take care of our bodies in the best ways, but even just being alive is a blessing.
6. Where you live.
Whether it's a giant mansion in Miami or a shabby apartment in a small town, appreciate where you call home. Some don't even have that option.
7. Having food on the table.
Next time mom brings out the turkey, thank her and tell her how glad you are able to have such a nice meal. Although you might be used to having a nice dinner every night, we all know that's not always the case. But I know you'll post a picture on your Snapchat story anyway.
8. All of your gadgets.
Living in 2019 is so expensive! We all have iPhones, MacBooks and an Apple Watch to fit in with the crowds. Even these small "gifts" are something we should be grateful for.
9. Your car.
Yeah, cars are a luxury. Not everyone gets to drive a car to school or work every day. Try picturing what you'd have to do without your car, and then you might feel a little thankful for the one you have.
10. Your future.
You've already gotten this far, you should be excited for what's to come. Be grateful for the experiences you've had and the upcoming ones.
I can't force you to be appreciative every day but I hope with this list, you start to understand where I'm coming from. Not everyone lives the same life as you, and maybe some have more than you. Either way, being thankful and at peace with what you have is the only way to enjoy it.
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