After The Election, Attitude Is Everything

After The Election, Attitude Is Everything

Your fear is valid, but we can get through this.

"Donald Trump is going to be our president. We owe him an open mind and a chance to lead."

This is what Hillary Clinton said in her concession speech and I'm so glad she said it.

So many people are posting, tweeting, and lamenting their fear, sadness, anger, and hopelessness after Trump's shocking win. Trust me, I understand. He's said and done some scary things against groups in our country that continue to fight to have a voice, and it's scary to think that perhaps all that fighting will have been for naught for the next four years.

I don't want to minimize the fear people have. It's scary to be called dangerous or less than by your country's president elect. Your fear is valid.

But, our attitude is everything. Now more than ever, we need to have hope. We need to not go into the next four years certain they will be awful, but instead remain optimistic.

Have you ever been forced by your parents to go to a party or event that you really didn't want to go to? Maybe a wedding shower for a third cousin twice removed you've never even met. You don't want to go, but your parents make you, and you go with the attitude that you'll absolutely hate it and be bored the whole time. You arrive grumpy. And, no surprises, you do have a bad time, because you convinced yourself so much that there's no way it could be fun. Your mind was made up before you even got there. Your attitude ruined your chances of having fun.

The same can be said for the next four years. Except, we're not talking about having fun at a family function. This is about our country, our culture, and our freedom. The outlook we have now can either make or break the next four years.

Don't decide now that the next four years will be detrimental to our democracy. If you do, you're setting us up for failure. Donald Trump isn't the only one with power in Washington, and there are plenty of sensible people left to try and keep the country stable. And let's not forget, the writers of our Constitution knew what they were doing. They made it hard for radical politicians to make outlandish changes. They knew a situation like this could come, and they created rules and regulations in anticipation of it.

No matter what side of the political spectrum one falls under, we all love this country, and we all are just doing what we believe is best. Now is the time not to give up, but to come together and fight for the equality and democracy we all value in this country.

Change doesn't only happen in the Oval Office. The next four years, it's up to us.

Be hopeful.

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8 Reasons Why My Dad Is the Most Important Man In My Life

Forever my number one guy.

Growing up, there's been one consistent man I can always count on, my father. In any aspect of my life, my dad has always been there, showing me unconditional love and respect every day. No matter what, I know that my dad will always be the most important man in my life for many reasons.

1. He has always been there.

Literally. From the day I was born until today, I have never not been able to count on my dad to be there for me, uplift me and be the best dad he can be.

2. He learned to adapt and suffer through girly trends to make me happy.

I'm sure when my dad was younger and pictured his future, he didn't think about the Barbie pretend pageants, dressing up as a princess, perfecting my pigtails and enduring other countless girly events. My dad never turned me down when I wanted to play a game, no matter what and was always willing to help me pick out cute outfits and do my hair before preschool.

3. He sends the cutest texts.

Random text messages since I have gotten my own cell phone have always come my way from my dad. Those randoms "I love you so much" and "I am so proud of you" never fail to make me smile, and I can always count on my dad for an adorable text message when I'm feeling down.

4. He taught me how to be brave.

When I needed to learn how to swim, he threw me in the pool. When I needed to learn how to ride a bike, he went alongside me and made sure I didn't fall too badly. When I needed to learn how to drive, he was there next to me, making sure I didn't crash.

5. He encourages me to best the best I can be.

My dad sees the best in me, no matter how much I fail. He's always there to support me and turn my failures into successes. He can sit on the phone with me for hours, talking future career stuff and listening to me lay out my future plans and goals. He wants the absolute best for me, and no is never an option, he is always willing to do whatever it takes to get me where I need to be.

6. He gets sentimental way too often, but it's cute.

Whether you're sitting down at the kitchen table, reminiscing about your childhood, or that one song comes on that your dad insists you will dance to together on your wedding day, your dad's emotions often come out in the cutest possible way, forever reminding you how loved you are.

7. He supports you, emotionally and financially.

Need to vent about a guy in your life that isn't treating you well? My dad is there. Need some extra cash to help fund spring break? He's there for that, too.

8. He shows me how I should be treated.

Yes, my dad treats me like a princess, and I don't expect every guy I meet to wait on me hand and foot, but I do expect respect, and that's exactly what my dad showed I deserve. From the way he loves, admires, and respects me, he shows me that there are guys out there who will one day come along and treat me like that. My dad always advises me to not put up with less than I deserve and assures me that the right guy will come along one day.

For these reasons and more, my dad will forever be my No. 1 man. I love you!

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Why Horoscopes Don't Matter To Me

Stop Deciding Who I am Based Upon Them


True story: I was born on December 25th, which according to my horoscope, makes me a goat. Excuse me, it means that I am "Capricorn," which looks like a goat. People tell me that I am the one that needs to be open-minded and respectful. However, if you go around deciding that I have to be a goat because of a day of birth that I did not decide for myself, I might feel offended. Maybe I do not want to be a goat? Maybe I made a choice of what my spirit animal is a long time ago, and goat did not make it in the Top 10. We cannot go around calling strangers goats. That is weird.

Here is where I try to be respectful: if someone wants to decide to understand themselves based on the astral configurations when they were born, more power to them. However, that does not mean that everyone else should be forced to "abide" by the strange rules of horoscopes that seem flexible enough to accommodate anyone's whims.

People use horoscopes to calculate the "future," "personality," and "compatibility with others" for every person. This basically means that someone has decided that they know my future and my personality without even asking me. They decided they know my heart better than I do. It is annoying to open up magazines that have different "forecasts" for the same horoscope. If it lacks consistency, how am I supposed to take it seriously and allow it to guide me through every decision in my life?

The fact of the matter is that my future is based on my choices. I have free will, so no matter how much someone decides that they know me based on my horoscope, they dehumanized me because they decided that spending quality time was not a necessity for getting to know me.

The respectful manner for interacting with people is to stay open-minded and wait to have quality time with them before judging them. We cannot judge what we cannot understand, and we cannot understand someone based on second-hand information… like horoscopes.

Personally, when I want to understand myself and what drives me, I open up a psychology book and try to get some statistics and facts published by professionals. However, this is my choice. Just like not everyone falls into the same psychology statistic for their behavior, not everyone completely abides by the description of their "horoscope."

What is worse is when people try to use horoscopes against other people. Someone even tried to ask me if I was a Sagittarius (a horse-man-centaur-something) and I had to explain to them that my birthday does not fall into that category. Someone decided they knew my personality based on a false horoscope because they did not even know my birthday. They decided they knew who I was compatible with without my consent and my future without my consent.

See the problem?

One wrong number, and I was suddenly branded as a mythical creature that I coincidentally also never chose to be my personal spirit animal. That one did not even make the Top 25.

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