As "Perfection Week" for Fall Recruitment comes to a close, I'm reminiscent of why I chose Alpha Xi Delta one short year ago. Though these three Greek letters do not seem like much to outsiders, they hold a deep meaning that only initiated sisters can begin to understand.
Through this week of voice-shattering chanting and never-ending crafting, I am reminded of my time as a Potential New Member. I remember being in awe of the seemingly perfect, barbie-looking women who gracefully strutted out of extravagantly decorated houses in matching outfits, chanting songs that would be embedded in my head for the remainder of the day. I recall having conversation after conversation about the same stuff at different houses. For example the typical surface level questions of, "What's your major?" and "Where are you from?". But, one house stood out, and I now call that place my home.
After three rounds of recruitment, I was left with the last night of that mind-boggling week: Preference Night. Now, I look back, amazed at how one incredibly hot night could change my life forever. That night, I was rushed by a girl who no longer asked me what I was majoring in, or where I was from. Instead, I found a friend. I found a friend who would be holding my notifier as I ran to her on Bid Day. I found a friend who would be my New Member "Mom," and would guide me until initiation. Now, I have the privilege to call that friend my Grand-Big.
In Alpha Xi Delta, I found not only letters to wear and socials to attend. Instead, I gained a home, a place to belong, and lifelong friends. I became a partner of an amazing philanthropy that funds research to help the 1 in 68 American children diagnosed with Autism. I was given a house to run to when it seems like everything is falling apart, and friends to be there to pick up the pieces and put me back together. But, most importantly, I found a group of well-rounded women who I am not just able to call my sisters, but girls who live up to that title every single day.
All and all, I am incredibly thankful for my commitment to my sorority. As recruitment grows nearer, I encourage every PNM to follow their heart. I did, and I ended up with bridesmaids, self-confidence, and a forever home in Alpha Xi Delta.
TFJ <3