10 Things You Do NOT Say About Someone's Siblings At Rival Football Schools

10 Things You Do NOT Say About Someone's Siblings At Rival Football Schools

We're already trashing the other person's school, we don't need you to join in.

College football rivalries are an age-old tradition and are not taken lightly, especially in the South. When families and rivalries combine, it's hard for fans to know how to respond.

Here are five things NOT to say to someone with a sibling at a rival school.

1. "I guess everyone knows who the favorite child is, now."

Yes, it is now obvious to everyone in the world that the sole reason my parents have finally decided on a favorite child is simply — and only — because I am going to the University of Alabama and my brother goes to Auburn. He is now out of the will and will no longer be an acknowledged member of the family. Honestly? Who thinks this is an acceptable thing to say to someone?

2. "If you didn't get along before, you certainly won't now."

You're right. This was the final straw. I can no longer have a peaceful and loving relationship with my brother because he goes to, dare I say it, Auburn. We all love of good rivalry but really? A rivalry is not going to tear my family apart.

3. "Wow, Thanksgiving must be a real tense holiday for your family."

Oh my god. I thought you were joking. Yeah, instead of taking the time to be, ya know, grateful for my family and the close relationship I have with my brother, we all decided to cut the final thread in what was holding our family together because of the Iron Bowl. Obviously.

4. "We know who the smart kid is."

This is just offensive to multiple parties on multiple accounts. We both have scholarships. We're both majoring in different things. Both of our colleges have high standards with academics. I'm going to need to see a brain map on how you got to this conclusion.

5. "And you still love them?"

Honestly, the fact that I get asked this on a regular basis is so bewildering to me, especially when the person seems serious. We are bound by blood, and have grown up together for over a decade? My love and compassion for them is not going to end just because of a football rivalry, but thanks.

Cover Image Credit: Victoria Chlarson

Popular Right Now

To The Dad Who Didn't Want Me, It's Mutual Now

Thank you for leaving me because I am happy.

Thank you, for leaving me.

Thank you, for leaving me when I was little.

Thank you, for not putting me through the pain of watching you leave.

Thank you, for leaving me with the best mother a daughter could ask for.

I no longer resent you. I no longer feel anger towards you. I wondered for so long who I was. I thought that because I didn't know half of my blood that I was somehow missing something. I thought that who you were defined me. I was wrong. I am my own person. I am strong and capable and you have nothing to do with that. So thank you for leaving me.

In my most vulnerable of times, I struggled with the fact that you didn't want me. You could have watched me grow into the person that I have become, but you didn't. You had a choice to be in my life. I thought that the fact that my own father didn't want me spoke to my own worth. I was wrong. I am so worthy. I am deserving, and you have nothing to do with that. So thank you for leaving me.

You have missed so much. From my first dance to my first day of college, and you'll continue to miss everything. You won't see me graduate, you won't walk me down the aisle, and you won't get to see me follow my dreams. You'll never get that back, but I don't care anymore. What I have been through, and the struggles that I have faced have brought me to where I am today, and I can't complain. I go to a beautiful school, I have the best of friends, I have an amazing family, and that's all I really need.

Whoever you are, I hope you read this. I hope you understand that you have missed out on one of the best opportunities in your life. I could've been your daughter. I could have been your little girl. Now I am neither, nor will I ever be.

So thank you for leaving me because I am happy. I understand my self-worth, and I understand that you don't define me. You have made me stronger. You have helped make me who I am without even knowing it.

So, thank you for leaving me.

Cover Image Credit: Pexels

Related Content

Connect with a generation
of new voices.

We are students, thinkers, influencers, and communities sharing our ideas with the world. Join our platform to create and discover content that actually matters to you.

Learn more Start Creating

Big Sister, Best Friend

When God gave me my sister, He gave me more than just a sibling. He gave me a best friend, confidant, supporter, prayer warrior, counselor, and so much more.


For 20 years, I had a mostly shallow relationship with my sister. Not that we did not like each other, but our relationship was not performing at its optimum potential.

Fortunately, through certain life experiences, we broke through the wall between us and became the sisters we were always meant to be. Although I often regret the 20 years I missed out on that relationship, I am thankful for where we stand today.

My sister, even though she is 11 years older than me, is truly my best friend.

Honestly, if anyone heard our conversations though, they would think we were insane. We talk about literally EVERYTHING. That's what sisters are for though.

What I love about my sister (well I love a lot about her, but you get it) is that she doesn't just tell me what I want to hear. She tells me what I need to hear, too. Even if it means stepping on my toes, she'll do it, but only because she loves me and wants the best for me.

I know if I ever needed her to, my sister would seriously fight someone for me. I've been afraid she was actually going to do it a time or two. I'm her "baby sister" and as she says, "no one messes with my baby."

She is the only person who understands my parents as I do. Let me preface by saying I LOVE my parents, but every parent can be annoying at times. When that time comes, who ya' gonna call? *cue Ghostbusters' theme song* My sister! Also, she's the only one who can truly appreciate when they say something super funny. We love you, mom and dad!!!

If you don't have a sister, you may not know that they are an on-call wardrobe advisor. Whether my outfit is for a date, a football game, or church on Sunday, if I am undecided, you better believe my sister is gonna get pictures asking which one to wear. A lot of times, she will match up items I would never think to put together, but they turn out so cute!!

Let's not forget all of the venting we do to one another. From boys, school, and work to weird things we see on Facebook, we always have something to rant about. Thankfully, though, we don't spend all of our time "whining." We just get it out of our system and go on about our business.

After several days of bugging, I finally convinced my sister to watch Grey's Anatomy. Thankfully, she loves it, so we can both tag each other in Grey's-related memes and cry over heartbreaking episodes.

As if she weren't enough, my sister made me an aunt to my precious niece and nephew. They make me so happy and inspire me daily.

Even though I cannot change the past, I am thankful that today my sister is my best friend. I love you, sissy.

Related Content

Facebook Comments