I Do Not Like Taylor Swift And I Am Not Sorry

I Do Not Like Taylor Swift And I Am Not Sorry

One influential person can hurt a whole generation of girls.
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Taylor Swift is not news. She is the epitome of our culture's downward societal influences. It only makes sense, however, that someone so famous to 13-year-old girls would have so much influence on what they wear, who they hang out with, and the future goals they form based on listening to her music.

Taylor was born in Pennsylvania and moved to Nashville, TN when she was 14 to pursue a music career. Her path to stardom has been nothing but easy compared to comparable artists such as Demi Lovato who has overcome addiction and Miley Cyrus who has found herself through so many experiences. I am not saying she hasn't held her own burdens because, let's face it, we all have been in the mud.

In light of her recent groping debacle, that resulted in a $1 fine for the DJ, she has put herself in the spotlight to raise awareness of sexual assault. Many artists have taken to this platform recently, such as Lady Gaga and Kesha. While I am a firm supporter of sexual assault awareness, people like Taylor Swift changed how people not only view sexual assault, but the survivors.

I have heard many people talk about how she is "being a baby" and that sexual assault is not justified if it is only a "butt grab." This, in turn, allows people to view all sexual assault as minor, when it is in fact very major.

Aside from her recent news, I still believe Taylor Swift is a part of reason our generation is still having issues with body positivity and cliques. By making a posse of 6 foot, thin, exclusive A-listers, Taylor created this idea that it is okay to close yourself off from other people who are unlike herself. For middle school girls, just trying to figure out how friendships work and how mean girls can be, Taylor's great influence does not emulate her famous song "Mean" for those finding themselves.

While her music does have great popularity and a catchy beat, of which I am guilty of singing "Bad Blood" in the car, I think that her influence in society is way to influential to allow the upcoming generation of girls to subject themselves to thinking the only way to be cool and have a voice is to surround yourself with people just like yourself. The fact of the matter is that Taylor Swift and her brand is what is holding back our society and generation from striving and making changes to be more open and engaging with our fellow people.

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It's Time To Thank Your First Roommate

Not the horror story kind of roommate, but the one that was truly awesome.
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Nostalgic feelings have recently caused me to reflect back on my freshman year of college. No other year of my life has been filled with more ups and downs, and highs and lows, than freshman year. Throughout all of the madness, one factor remained constant: my roommate. It is time to thank her for everything. These are only a few of the many reasons to do so, and this goes for roommates everywhere.

You have been through all the college "firsts" together.

If you think about it, your roommate was there through all of your first college experiences. The first day of orientation, wishing you luck on the first days of classes, the first night out, etc. That is something that can never be changed. You will always look back and think, "I remember my first day of college with ____."

You were even each other's first real college friend.

You were even each other's first real college friend.

Months before move-in day, you were already planning out what freshman year would be like. Whether you previously knew each other, met on Facebook, or arranged to meet in person before making any decisions, you made your first real college friend during that process.

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The transition from high school to college is not easy, but somehow you made it out on the other side.

It is no secret that transitioning from high school to college is difficult. No matter how excited you were to get away from home, reality hit at some point. Although some people are better at adjusting than others, at the times when you were not, your roommate was there to listen. You helped each other out, and made it through together.

Late night talks were never more real.

Remember the first week when we stayed up talking until 2:00 a.m. every night? Late night talks will never be more real than they were freshman year. There was so much to plan for, figure out, and hope for. Your roommate talked, listened, laughed, and cried right there with you until one of you stopped responding because sleep took over.

You saw each other at your absolute lowest.

It was difficult being away from home. It hurt watching relationships end and losing touch with your hometown friends. It was stressful trying to get in the swing of college level classes. Despite all of the above, your roommate saw, listened, and strengthened you.

...but you also saw each other during your highest highs.

After seeing each other during the lows, seeing each other during the highs was such a great feeling. Getting involved on campus, making new friends, and succeeding in classes are only a few of the many ways you have watched each other grow.

There was so much time to bond before the stresses of college would later take over.

Freshman year was not "easy," but looking back on it, it was more manageable than you thought at the time. College only gets busier the more the years go on, which means less free time. Freshman year you went to lunch, dinner, the gym, class, events, and everything else possible together. You had the chance to be each other's go-to before it got tough.

No matter what, you always bounced back to being inseparable.

Phases of not talking or seeing each other because of business and stress would come and go. Even though you physically grew apart, you did not grow apart as friends. When one of you was in a funk, as soon as it was over, you bounced right back. You and your freshman roommate were inseparable.

The "remember that one time, freshman year..." stories never end.

Looking back on freshman year together is one of my favorite times. There are so many stories you have made, which at the time seemed so small, that bring the biggest laughs today. You will always have those stories to share together.

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The unspoken rule that no matter how far apart you grow, you are always there for each other.

It is sad to look back and realize everything that has changed since your freshman year days. You started college with a clean slate, and all you really had was each other. Even though you went separate ways, there is an unspoken rule that you are still always there for each other.

Your old dorm room is now filled with two freshmen trying to make it through their first year. They will never know all the memories that you made in that room, and how it used to be your home. You can only hope that they will have the relationship you had together to reflect on in the years to come.


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