Dear Ladies, Degrading Another Woman Won't Get You A Man
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Dear Ladies, Degrading Another Woman Won't Get You A Man

Talk about insecurity!

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Newsflash to all the women out there. If you're out there trying to take some other woman's husband or boyfriend, STOP IT! There is something called 'RESPECT!' By respecting the fact that two people are in a respected relationship together, it should STAY respected! There are no if's and's or but's.

By trying to ruin something that two people have together just stands for nothing but pure insecurities. But not only by wanting another woman's significant other, but by bashing the other woman at that. If you think that by degrading another woman is going to have her man fall into your lap, guess again. It doesn't leave you with him, instead, you're left with nothing. Nothing but pure insecurities, shame, looking miserable, and childish for that matter.

There is nothing I repeat NOTHING cute about wanting another woman's significant other simply because you're lonely. That should never be an excuse, a poor excuse at that.

Talk about purely pathetic. It's one thing to think that the guy is attractive, but wanting him all for yourself is another story. At the end of the day, nobody like's a homewrecker. Especially if you don't know the other woman all that well. That just means that you're extremely pathetic for all the attention that you can get.

One thing about relationships is that they don't just happen overnight, and they don't just happen based on appearance.

Appearance isn't everything, personality is. Two people can truly click together by blending their personalities together. There is nothing more beautiful than that. Also, by knowing that you truly care about someone just enough to be in a committed relationship with them, it means that you have to get certain things right. For starters, to be in love with someone means that you have to truly know THEM before anything. Actually get to know the person before just jumping into something that you're unaware about.

That I believe can actually help the relationship a lot, and it can also help the relationship grow better and better by the moment. Now with that said, do I believe that any relationship is perfect? Of course not! None are. However, there is a thing called 'teamwork'. This means that no matter how difficult things get, you can truly show how much you care by how much you and your significant other have gone through together. That is something that should be shouted out every time. Getting into a relationship for the wrong reasons can not only lead to disaster, but it can also lead to pure disappointment and heartbreak. A heartbreak that no one wants.

One thing that I got out of my last relationship was that there is nothing worse than leaving the relationship on bad terms. Even if it was not your fault. I am hoping that in my next relationship, I will be able to have the best bond with that person that cannot be replaced. But back to what I was mentioning before.

One thing as a woman that I promise I will NEVER do is steal someone else's man.
I would never stoop so low to a level of disrespect just because I happen to find her man attractive. Regardless of that, she should not have to worry either especially since I'm the type to just mind my business. Plus there is a thing called a type, so that's most certainly out of the question. This should be the same mindset that some of you should start having. Nothing screams 'I'm insecure and lonely' more than 'Let me degrade your appearance because your man is attractive'.

PATHETIC!
Do better and BE better than that. Keep in mind that there is a reason why she is in a relationship with him in the first place. By narrowing down reasons why they are together, trust me it won't take you too long for you to find that 'ah ha' moment. That moment of pure understanding and maturity.

So ladies do yourself a favor, instead of bashing another woman start by working on yourself. The more you work on you the less you'll care about her. No one likes jealousy. Thank U, Next.

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