Dear Society, I Don't Need A Date To Formal Right Now And That's Ok

Dear Society, I Don't Need A Date To Formal Right Now And That's Ok

There is not really a special someone in my life giving me all the heart eye feels.
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I just came back from my sorority formal from last night and boy do I have a lot to dig into for this article. I feel like this dance was a lot of fun for sure, but I think that formal dances get a lot of feedback after in regards to who you took with you or who you didn't take with you.

A lot of the time people expect you to have a date going to dances. Honestly, I did not have a date for my junior year prom. So when it came time for formal, I just kind of was in a similar spot in my life. There is not really a special someone in my life giving me all the heart eye feels, but I sure do wish.

But I am not going to let that define my happiness when I go out or when I go to the dance itself. I'm there to enjoy myself and have a good time. Life is too short sometimes to worry about the one, the one will eventually come to me. I sometimes want to plan everything out in my life, and this most certainly is not something you can just plan for.

I do hope in the future I am able to have all the heart eyes for someone that I can eventually show off and take to dances. I hope that he is out there waiting for me and cannot wait for the day we cross paths.

In the meantime, I am going to go eat some chocolate and listen to I Hate Love Songs by my girl, Kelsea Ballerini. I may even watch some Netflix, y'all will never know haha. What are your go to's when you are not in a relationship? Let me know below!

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30 Not-So-Secret Date Spots In Dallas Everyone Should Try

Looking for a date spot in Dallas, TX? Look no further.
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1. Picnic in Klyde Warren Park

Have a picnic on the grassy area in this park that is located in the middle of city life. You can also play ping pong or racquetball for free. On a hot, sunny day, head to the food trucks and share a snow cone with your date!

2. Dallas Museum of Art

This date is not only completely free, but it can last as long or as short as you would like it to. Not only does this museum have funky, modern exhibits, but it also showcases art from many different cultures. Once you have seen all you wanted to inside, head to the museum’s outdoor sculpture garden. There is even a cafe inside if you and your date get hungry from viewing all of the art!

3. Day to Night in Deep Ellum

Start out this date by walking around Deep Ellum to view its famous 42 murals. If you want more information or a map of the murals, you can find this online. There are more than 42 murals in Deep Ellum, so explore to find the ones that are not even listed. If you and your date have already said those three special words, find the “I love you” mural. If you have not, this might be the perfect spot to say it for the first time! After checking out the murals (maybe taking some cute pics), you can head to Angry Dog for some great hot dogs. Now that the night has arrived, head to The Prophet Bar or the The Door to hear some great local artists/bands. You do not have to be 21 to get in and hear some great music. My friend’s band, Quiet Please, performs there sometimes, so make sure and check them out when they are there.

4. Ice-Skating at the Galleria

If you have not been to the Galleria mall, this could be a great date of shopping, skating, and eating. On the bottom floor, there is a ice-skating rink surrounded by many food options. If it is around Christmas time, ice-skating will be a lot busier (and less space due to the huge tree in the middle), so make sure and account for more time waiting in line. If not, you shouldn’t have to wait very long, and this will leave you plenty of time for shopping and eating as well!

5. Perot Museum of Natural Science

This museum is probably one of the most entertaining date ideas in Dallas! Not only does this museum have a wide range of exhibits, but it is also extremely interactive. You and your date can try out the earthquake simulator, play with robots, create music in the recording studio, electronically race a cheetah, and so on. This is one museum that no one can claim to be boring.


6. Southside Ballroom

Head to this concert/rave venue with your date for a fun, crazy night. Check out their website to see what events are coming up. Not only is Southside known for its raves, but many famous artists have their concerts here. Also, if you have seen the famous Southside sign, try and find a way up there. I am not going to give away how, but if you do find a way, it is an awesome experience!


7. Giant Eyeball


I'm not exactly sure what to say about the giant eyeball in Dallas, but I consider it to be one of our best attractions! Just google “giant eyeball in Dallas” and you will know what I mean. It seems like enough for a perfect date…

8. Reunion Tower

Head to the top of Reunion Tower for a romantic view of all of Dallas. There is also an interactive new add-on called Constellation that lets you “write your love in the stars”. It was broken last time I was there, but let me know how it works if you end up going!


9. American Airlines Center

Whether it be for a concert, a basketball game, or even a hockey game, this events center is the perfect location for a fun and exciting date.

10. Dallas Farmers Market

A farmer’s market is obviously a super cute date idea full of tons to do and so much to see. Go to https://dallasfarmersmarket.org to check out specific events going on there, and plan on lots of walking, shopping, and talking!

11. Dallas Arboretum and Botanical Garden

These gardens are so beautiful, and there is something to see all year long. I would recommend coming when the flowers are in bloom, but in the winter, they have an amazing 12 days of Christmas display throughout the gardens. This of course is a beautiful place for pictures. Bring along a photographer friend to snap some adorable couples’ photos. Before leaving the area, check out White Rock Lake which is right behind the gardens. It is an extremely beautiful lake. My insider tip is to park at the lake and walk less than five minutes to the gardens in order to avoid paying around $15 for parking!

12. Trinity Forest Adventure Park

Yes, Dallas does have some nature. If you are feeling like doing some outdoor adventuring, head to this park for canopy tours, zip-lining, and challenge courses.

13. Til Midnight at the Nasher

Not only is this event free admission, but it is the perfect place to take your date. The Nasher Sculpture Garden, located near the Dallas Museum of Art, is famous for it’s “til Midnight at the Nasher”, an outdoor event in the gardens that consists of live music, film screenings, and much more. Check out http://www.nashersculpturecenter.org/engage/event?... for more information involving dates and line-ups.

14. Dallas Theater

If you and your date are into the performing arts, Dallas offers not only musicals, but also ballets, operas, and plays. Winspear Opera House is a beautiful location to see a musical, and their giant chandelier is one of my favorite parts of every visit!

15. Dallas Zoo

A date at the zoo leaves no room for boredom! At the Dallas Zoo, not only can you see all sorts of animals, but you and your date can also pay a little extra to feed the giraffes. Also, there are free areas where you can go into a huge cage with bird feed and the colorful birds will fly all over you. When I did it, I had at least 5 birds on me. You can also stop and visit Gummy and Tekin, the only koalas in Texas!

16. Dallas World Aquarium

After my senior year field trip in Aquatic Science, I can personally testify to how amazing this aquarium is! Honestly, I felt like it was a zoo and an aquarium in one with all of the rainforest parts of it that made me feel like I was in Costa Rica.There is a tunnel you can go through where you are surrounded by sharks on all sides, but that definitely is not my favorite part… This is a date that will last hours, and there is even a place to eat inside!

17. The Texas Theater

This movie theater is not only the perfect place to catch an old film with your date, but it is also the historic site where Lee Oswald hid after assassinating JFK. I know this does not sound very romantic, but it is a vintage movie theater with a lot to offer (and a great conversation starter).

18. Zero Gravity Thrill Amusement Park

If you and your date are thrill-seekers, this is the perfect date destination. Be careful what you eat before because you will be bungee-jumping, free falling, and so much more.

19. Fair Park

The Texas State Fair is a fun option for a date or even a group date (especially for high schoolers who still get free tickets at school), but Fair Park has awesome events year-round. The park itself is a beautiful location with lots to see and do.


20. Dallas Heritage Village

This date will take you back in time as you explore what life was like in Texas over 100 years ago at this 20-acre village.

21. Medieval Times

Personally, I have not liked Medieval Times ever since they ruined soup for me (I didn’t want to eat it without a spoon), but it is still an interesting and entertaining date idea. You and your date can cheer on your knight while taking part in this royal banquet!

22. Swing Dancing

Every Wednesday night, Sons of Hermann Hall offers swing dancing lessons, and after learning a few moves, you and your date can swing dance until the clock strikes midnight!

23. Bishop Arts District

This unique and funky area of Dallas is perfect for eating, shopping, and just walking around. Since there are many different things to see here, this date is very spontaneous.

24. Dick’s Last Resort

If you and your date are willing to be insulted while eating your food, this is the date for you. Not only do you wear a paper hat with an insult on it, but your waiters are also rude to you. Yes, people do pay to be treated poorly, and it could be the perfect opportunity for some much needed laughs (even if you’re laughing at yourself).

25. Cowboys Red River


This dance hall will not only teach you how to country-western dance, but it will also give you the opportunity to ride a mechanical bull. This is the perfect way to impress your date (if you don’t fall off right away).

26. Magic Time Machine

This restaurant is place with not only adorably themed areas to sit, but also waiters that dress up and drinks that are "potions". Last time I was there, my waitress was Belle from Beauty and the Beast!

27. SpeedZone

At SpeedZone, you and your date can get a little competitive either racing on the track, playing miniature golf, or hanging out in the arcade.

28. Maple Leaf Diner

This Canadian diner is a great place to take your date for either breakfast, lunch or dinner (or all three). Try out some famous Canadian dishes in this adorably decorated diner!

29. Carnival

The carnival located in the parking lot by Valley View Mall is not year round, but while it is set up, make sure to go there with your date for some good ol’ fashioned carnival fun.

30. Fountain Place Water Gardens

Take a romantic stroll through Fountain Place, home to over 170 water fountains and streams. In the heart of Downtown Dallas, this is the perfect place to go on a hot, summer day.

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To The Boy I’ve Been Dating Since I Was 15, I Always Knew You Were My Forever

Thank you for showing me love when I thought I didn't deserve any.

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Hey you,

People assumed our "fling" would only last a few short months. It's what everyone assumes when your first love happens during your sophomore year of high school. Yet here we stand, three and a half years later, more together than we've ever been. Although we've had our ups and downs, we still managed to keep our relationship going and to remember why we're together in the first place.

Many say loving isn't easy, but you make it a walk in the park.

You respect me in more ways than one, and you make me feel beautiful, inside and out. For a long time, I never noticed the beauty and strength I have within myself. I didn't see what others would point out to me, and at times I still find it hard to acknowledge my worth. However, you came into my life at a time when I felt I had no one, and you helped me to see all I have to offer. You helped me to open my mind to the thought of loving myself for who I am, and although the road is long and I'm not completely there, you've made me see how worthy of love I truly am.

Having you as my best friend, along with being my boyfriend, is the most rewarding feeling in the world.

I think the reason we rarely fight or stay angry with each other is that we truly are best friends. We could spend all of our time in deep conversation about any topic in the world and still feel engaged and ready to hear more from one another. Every single day I learn something new about you and vice versa. We can be ourselves in each other's presence and have fun doing absolutely nothing exciting. I am easily annoyed by a lot of things, but you are not one of them. Being with you for hours, even if we just watch TV the entire time, never gets repetitive or boring.

You treated me with the respect I deserved before I even realized I was worthy of it.

In many ways, I don't respect myself. Whether it be body image or letting "friends" walk all over me, I let many thoughts and people control my life. You, however, were the saving grace I needed. You've shown me how I deserve to be treated and how I should think of myself. Often I wonder how I got so lucky to end up with someone who loves me unconditionally and who values everything I have to offer. I say all the time that I don't deserve your heart, your kindness, your love, but you always remind me that I do. And I'm starting to realize that you're right; I deserve every bit of love, kindness, and respect that you have to offer. I can only hope that I award you with the same love and selflessness you give me every single day.

Three and a half years with someone may seem extremely long, but I feel as though we've been together a lifetime. It's hard to remember a time when you weren't right there beside me, and I would never want to imagine a future without you in it. There are so many more laughs, adventures, and memories to be made with you, and I only hope that I can be at least half of the person you are.

Thank you for pulling me out of the darkness. Today, tomorrow, and always.

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