We have all heard the expression "you do not realize what we have until it is gone." This is certainly true when you part with your college boyfriend for the summer. As you both pull away in your packed SUVs it all sinks in — that person you have shared some of your most precious college moments with is now miles and miles away.
Here are some tips that will help you from stuffing your face with junk food and not showering for two weeks.
1. First, you have to realize it is only temporary.
Don’t worry girls, you will be back with BAE in no time. In the meantime, start pinning cute date ideas on your Pinterest board so you can have something to look forward too in the fall!
2. Use this time to hang out with your best ladies.
It is inevitable that when you return to school, you will want to spend every waking moment with your boyfriend. But since he is not around, catch up with a much needed girls' night! It will help you get your mind off your man while having some fun. Also, enjoy family time. That annoying sister of yours wants to hang with you, so take her for some ice cream. It couldn’t hurt.
3. Take advantage of Facetime and Skype.
You have the technology, so use it! If you miss his cute dimples or mesmerizing green eyes, call him! He will love that you are thinking about him and would rather hear his voice instead of texting 24/7. This is not high school, ladies, no need to play hard to get. He is already yours.
4. Give yourself an excuse to decorate your room.
Did you take tons of pictures while you were at school together? Perfect! Frame that adorable selfie you took on a night out for froyo. You will love waking up to his face every morning and will be reminded of all your fun times together.
5. Don’t be afraid to tell him you miss him.
Odds are he misses you even more. Send him cute emojis with kissy and winky faces. You can even send him irresistible pics of yourself; he will go crazy thinking about how much he wants to see you. If you miss his huge biceps tell him! Guys love to know when you are thinking about them.
If you follow these easy steps, your long distance summer relationship will be as strong as ever. He may even surprise you with gifts when you get back. What girl doesn’t love to be spoiled!
