What It's Like To Date A Girl Like Me
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What It's Like To Date A Girl Like Me

I am a little bit of everything all rolled into one.

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What It's Like To Date A Girl Like Me
Maddie Ruth

Dating a girl like me is an experience. I am unpredictable, full of life, passionate and a tad bit ridiculous at times. On our first date you remember me telling you that if money wouldn't be an issue, and if I could do whatever I wanted, being happy was all that matter I told you that I would move my little self over to Thailand and live at the elephant sanctuary and tend to elephants for the rest of my life. You told me that you had never met someone so convincing in your life.


Dating a girl like me you realize that I have a huge heart. I like to make people happy, I want to help and save the world. You remind me to never let that take over my life though because sometimes caring too much can hurt a person in the long run. I will ask you if you still like me if I am pretty often and hold your hand whenever I feel like it. Not because I am needy for attention, but because I need the reassurance. I am confident on the outside, but on the inside, I am my biggest critique and I am very harsh with myself. I may tell you that I love you more times you plan on saying it, but it is because I come from a family that always reminds each other that we love one another out of habit. I want you to know that I don’t want you to feel as though you must always reciprocate and say it right back. I like having you hear it for yourself.

A girl like me is independent I am a, “let me do it myself” kind of girl, but at the end of the day your opinion, your advice is what really matters to me. I am the kind of girl that plans to rule the world someday but don’t let that scare you. I am the kind of girl that will scream over a puppy, and ask you when we can get ours. Dating a girl like me when I want something I will probably put on a frown and stare at you until you say “okay”. You will probably call me a five-year-old all the time, but you love my sloth face so really there’s no reason to complain *wink face*.

Dating me I will make out with you as soon as the elevator door closes and when it opens well let’s hope we don’t get caught by your neighbors. I will ask you randomly to make out with me even though we know we have many other productive things we should be doing. I will call you when I am upset and talk 500 MPH and you will probably have to sit there for five minutes before you are able to talk, and I apologize for that. I am sorry that I talk a lot. Thank you for listening and staying up past your bedtime with me. Sometimes I will stress you out, asking you questions that you don’t know how to answer, I can’t help it I just what to understand. We will not fight, I don’t like raising my voice in anger we will just give each other space until the problems sort themselves out. If I ever do something that makes you mad I want you to tell me to avoid future problems.

I will drop you little hints like, my favorite flower is a sunflower, and that my birthday is in January. My favorite moments are the times we are just laying beside one another and are appreciate the moment together. I am the kind of girl that will do your laundry while you're gone and sort and organize your closet so that you find things a little easier. I will slip sweet notes into your laptop or drawer next to your bed so when you open it you smile. I like the way you smile at me. Dating a girl like me is a little bit of everything thrown together. I am unpredictable, loving, LOUD and spontaneous and I am for damn sure worth it.


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