For a lot of people, first dates are the scariest parts of starting a new relationship of any kind with someone they are interested in. The first date is, for the majority of the time, the first interaction you have with one another and depending on how it goes, can make or break any future get together of any kind. As important as it is to give yourself a chance at any potential new beginnings, it's even more important to keep yourself grounded and aware of everything about the date. So here are seven questions you should be aware of the answers to before and after the first date.

1. What are you expecting to get out of this date?

It's important to know what you want from this first date. Are you looking for a relationship, or just a friendship, maybe even just a "friends with benefits" buddy. Either way, make sure you have a solid idea of what you want going into it, but don't be guarded at any possible changes you might have later down the road.

2. What are they expecting to get out of this date?

Likewise, make sure that you and your date are both on the same page. Nothing will go well with both of you heading in two different directions.

3. Are you ready for a relationship at this point in time?

Make sure that if you are going for a serious relationship, you are ready for one. Putting yourself and your well being first is the most important thing and anyone who doesn't understand that is not worth your time.

4. How well do you know them so far?

If you have had some communication with this individual, make sure you know what kind of person they are. If it's somebody you can see potential in that makes you happy and curious, go for it. If not, maybe get to know them a little more before going on a serious date.

5. How do you feel about them so far?

Register your feelings for this date beforehand. As stated above, know exactly what you want from this experience based on how you feel. Those feelings could change, but have a good idea as a starting point.

6. Could you see this interaction turning into a relationship?

If you like where things are going so far, is this someone you'd be open to having a budding relationship with? Knowing this early on will help any awkward conversations or future advances that could be had and made.

7. After the date, was there any chemistry at all?

Make sure you have your feelings in check. This is the most IMPORTANT part of starting a new relationship of any kind. If it's been a few dates and the connection or chemistry still hasn't really hit you yet, then maybe starting a relationship isn't the best idea. Don't try to force something because you want the relationship title. It takes time and deeper emotions that will come out when you are ready for them.

Asking yourself these questions can help you put this first date in check and can even help your nerves simmer before walking into whatever restaurant, movie, or apartment you've agreed to have your date in. Always put yourself first, but be open to some things that might seem a little nerve-racking. Good first experiences turn into happy memories that will last a lifetime. So make this first date count for all that you'd like it to be worth.